10 Ways to Make Your Girlfriend Smile When She’s Mad at You

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Sometimes, girls get annoyed without you knowing the reason behind their ire. Well, it’s normal to have arguments once in a while, but do not let her stay angry and sad. Pour her heart out and find ways to make your girlfriend smile when she’s irritated at you.

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10 Ways to Make Your Girlfriend Smile When She’s Mad at You

The following are 10 ways to make your girlfriend smile when she’s mad at you.

1. Keep aside your ego and talk to her.

One of the biggest problems in every relationship is “Ego”. Imagine yourself arguing with her about who’s right or wrong. Well, even if you’ve done nothing wrong, you’ve made matters worse simply by arguing with her. Instead, be humble, overcome your pride, and take the first step to apologize and talk to her. You’ll make her smile by merely giving in to her when problems and arguments arise.

2. Apologize to her.

Saying “sorry” is the best practice to show confession. It doesn’t prove that you were wrong but shows your values and respect towards the person. You might need to give her some time, even after you apologize to her, yet it works. It can be considered as one of the best ways to make your girl smile when she’s mad at you.

3. Listen to her.

Sometimes all you have to do to make your girl feel better is to listen. Listening is one of the effective ways to deal with relationship problems. So, instead of arguing with her, let her talk and pay attention to her. A girl feels better when you acknowledge her feelings, and that will eventually make her smile.

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4. Give her a hug.

For girls, hugs and sweet kisses feel extra special. Your touch can calm and make her smile in times of anger. So, be there to hold her hand and give her a warm embrace instead of arguing with her.

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5. Treat her.

They say the best way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. Well, the same can be said for girls. Girls stay calm when their stomach is full. So, if she’s starting to feel furious, buy her favorite food or take her out to have a dinner date, and eventually, her anger will fade away.

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6. Make her laugh.

Humor has a significant place in a relationship. It is one of the most powerful tools you can use to charm a girl off her feet. Even when your girl is angry at you, a few funny lines or gestures can make her forget the anger she’s feeling at any moment.

ALSO READ: 15 Easy Ways to Make Your Girlfriend Smile When She’s Sad

7. Be sweet to her.

The worst thing you can do when she’s mad at you is to try and win the stand-off by outlasting her anger and emotional distance. Show that you can get past your anger and work on being a couple. Give her sweet gestures and talk sweet to her instead of arguing over the matter.

8. Make her feel loved.

A girl needs to know she’s loved and appreciated even in the middle of arguments. Show her respect, understanding, truly listen to her and acknowledge her emotions, rather than fighting back at her.

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Also read: 16 Ways to Make Your Girlfriend Feel Loved

9. Use her tantrums to deepen her feelings for you.

When your girlfriend is mad at you, it might seem like a terrible thing, yet instead of feeling frustrated or stressed about it, use it as an opportunity to deepen her feelings of love towards you. Show her that you can stay in control no matter what kind of tantrum she throws at you. Let her know that you won’t leave her no matter how many arguments or problems you encounter. In this way, you will not only make her feel loved and special, but you’ll also make her feel happy and proud to have you.

ALSO READ: 24 Tips to Make Your Girlfriend Feel Special

10. Look her in the eyes and give her your best smile.

Instead of showing her your angry face, look into her eyes directly, and give her your best smile. Your smile has the power to make her smile too. It will give a positive countenance that will surely make people around you happy and comfortable. Who would still get mad if she sees her special someone smiles in the middle of an argument? That’s one of the basic things you can do when handling situations like this.

There will always be arguments in a relationship; it’s your choice how you handle it. However, if you really want to make up with your girlfriend, be the one to reach out. Girls only want you to court and persuade them when they’re mad at you. Show her that you are taking down all barriers and revealing your humbleness.

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134 thoughts on “10 Ways to Make Your Girlfriend Smile When She’s Mad at You”

  1. I Tried Most Of Them But she Always Wants To argue about it even when I Apologise Multiple Times😪
    I Don’t Know How to control My Anger so i kinda Threw back some words at Her Face.. Then She Started Reminding me of my ex suggesting Why it didn’t work out with her because of My Anger issues and Pride.
    I got really mad cuz The ex she was talking about Gave me One of the Hardest Times that i always try to forget even wishing that i could wake up with Amnesia cuz I was badly treated and was just Hopelessly in Love.
    But Maybe She was Right, What if I’m the Problem? My anger is out of control and I don’t know about the Pride part cuz i always apologize to her even when she’s wrong

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  2. Brother yo girl doesn`t love you truly bcoz any girl who is truly in love with a guy will never leave …..tolerating her boy friend`s anger is a great sign of true love……….that girl doesn’t deserve to be in yo life my brother …..move on.

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    • I like this girl and when I tell her I am interested in you she will start getting mad at me I don’t know why did she love me some times when she is mad at me I do tell her am sorry but she won’t listen to me and she will said lock up and I don’t understand what dose that mean please guys help me out I love this girl

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  3. What if my girlfriend will not talk to me because I asked her if i could have some attention and she said no and she said that she loved me and I just stared at her and now she is mad at me for that and she will not talk to me

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    • Demand attention , and be dominant with your woman. Find a way and bend her over your knees a spank her BUTT. give her 3 lashes. Be Masculine and act it. Then get up and leave without a word. When you come back , return with her favorite ice cream, and your belt in your hand and a smirk smile on your face. Be Masculine. Your a Man. Then feed her ice cream with your fingers.

      Take Control of your Masculinity.

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      • HAHAHAHAHAHAHHHAHHAHAHAHAHH!!! OMG!, i love this so much. I’m going to have a boyfriend ASAP!. keep it up dude, you inspire me.

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  4. my girlfriend is angry at me cause she want to have my bank card and she have male that i dont like but she defend him now we have’nt talk to each other its been 3days now

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  5. I’ve also got problem with my girlfriend two months becomes that we do not speak with each other she thinks that I do not love her enough We had some problems I tried a lot in order to persuade her that I love her but she refused me many times I don’t know what what to do
    please anyone give me suggestion

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    • Just had a tiff with my girlfriend 6 days ago over a small matter and she even blocked me on WhatsApp. I have apologise to her and did text her again and again. What should i so next .

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  6. I have a weid situation and the blog is maybe not the best place to ask but what to do if you don’t feel special in a relationship. I’ve been with this girl for quite some time and she won’t text or call until and unless she needs some sort of help, otherwise she doesn’t. There have been times when I have been in trouble and i saw genuine care in her words and eyes that nothing happens to me and I come out of those issues unscathed but never do i get like a morning wish or asking me how my day was or what not. She is really interested in my family as well alespecially my little sister, she’s begging to meet her and has told me a couple of times I am the one not allowing them to meet. But all in all what do you think it is.

    Also she did have an ex that broke her heart really badly and she told me about him and sometimes she has said that he is the reason she can’t get close to me or have immense feelings like I have for her as the guy insupted her, broke her trust and downright told her to f*** off in relative terms

    She always says though she can’t really understand why she is attracted towards me so much and after all she’s been through I want to be there for her, love her support her but sometimes I feel maybe I can atleast get in return some love that I am showering towards her

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  7. 1) Just talk to her in private as possible.
    2) apologize her for your mistakes
    3) talk in good manner and respect her in order to warm her feelings towards you again.
    4) give her some space until she miss you.
    5) again meet her in real and repeat 2 3 4
    6) after it, at last hug her and kiss her and give her gifts that she loved. This will reminds about you to her.

    Follow above steps. I am sure this will work!
    Remember: never harm yourself and make your day bad by yourself because of her. Just do it. If not work then let it go.

    If this also won’t work then, my friends don’t force those girl to be in your life. Cuz god already made girl for you.

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  8. I confessed a girl,in my college and i didnt wanted to confess her as she is of angry minded.
    There were some circumstances due to which i need to confess my love to her!!
    But the thing is I was forced to confess it because of some problems!! I thought she’ll understand it but all opposite happened she got angry!!
    She dont believe in relationship!! Rhats why she got angry!!
    Plz..help me out with this situation
    I really like her!!
    She told me that the trust she had on me and the friendship between us
    I’ve lost it!!
    I dont want that!!!!
    Plz..help me!!!!!

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  9. i did all of these i dont know what to do , because every time when ever is try to protect our relation ever thing goes right only for 2 3 days , now she always says that she did not want to talk any one now she hate every one she hate to talk . she said that now love to live alone i dont want to share any thing with u and with any one , i try my best but now at this point i dont know what to do ……..
    i love her and i always give her private space .

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  10. i am in a long distance relationship from 4 years. 2 years i ignored her but i never brokeup. now i realise everything i want her to stay but since last month she always telling she wants breakup.she started telling lies. she always telling she wants breakup she hates me.
    now i decided to give her a surprize meet. to fix things . please suggest me what should i do to get her back .

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  11. Hi frndz, i love my girl friend very much. I showed over possessiveness on her. I occupied her space too and i felt jealous when she talks with her friends who are boys. I cared a lot on her by giving lot of suggestions. But now, due to my short temper i was shouted on her so many times. She was blasted and get mad on me. Later, i asked to forgive me but she’s saying plz dont message and i dont have interest to meet me.

    Please guyz give me some suggestions to get back my girl friend as like as past.

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  12. my boyfriend and I haven’t been good like we used to. he apologizes no more when he is at fault and cares no more if his actions makes me cry. hung up on me during our last conversation… I feel he doesn’t love me anymore like before. I feel he doesn’t find me worth the affection anymore…

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  13. She likes me too, she is mad at me because i didn’t visit her, she is something like never tells anyone whats she feel or why is she sad, we are living on different places. someone advise me . Even i don’t wanna tell her what i did for her. She knows all the thing. Sometimes i get rude to her just because i don’t wanna lose her!

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  14. My gf is still mad at me i can feel it. And its been a week that we are arguing and when i aske her evry singletime to go on a date she always refuse but when her friends ask her to go out she’s always not bc but when i ask her she said to me she’s always bc. What will i do??

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  15. This is our first fight and she’s very mad. She said that I should not call her. She doesn’t want to talk to me. We’re not in the same country at the moment. Will try these out….

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  16. I have a gf and her name is favour,I noticed she has been communicating with a guy on WhatsApp about love,but when scold her,she brokeup with me,I beg her,which accepted me,but still not happy,what can I do for her to be happy again

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  17. She is angry because she was upset and went out along with her friends as their family got to know about us so she wasn’t telling me but somehow I managed to know why she is like that and even I’m facing some situations at my place bcs of my family so I went out and searched her and talked to her but she was angry and her friends asked me out for some snacks and she is very angry wants to end this relationship but I really love her what to do I don’t know … plz help me.

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  18. Never try this on your girlfriend or on anyone else………………..If you’ll do this . Your girl will get more itchy and mad at you. So best way is to ignore her and wait for her reply.
    Thank me later

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  19. My own case is different because, I have been with her for almost one and half years, and I know how she use to talk me when she is not mad at me and when she is.
    She use to laugh with me when we are on phone whether the conversation is comic or not, but now a days I don’t see that kind of attitude in her.
    So I tried to find out from her, that if I have done anything bad to her. But she said nothing is wrong and everything is fine between her and I.
    Before, when I ask anything concerning her she will answer me with a well understandable answer but now all what she can say is ‘I don’t know ‘.
    So now I fear when I am about to call her.
    So colleagues please help me out.

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    • I’ve had the same problem with my girl. She just needs her space. I recently found out that she’s been faking her happiness since our relationship began. I just have to remember who the man in the relationship is. I’m not sure if you’re a Christian or not but frankly it doesn’t matter. The Bible tells us that we are supposed to encourage and lift up our partners as men. It’s taken time but once you learn to let her be herself, your relationship will thrive. Hope this helps.

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    • Dude you know that means she bored of you all you need to do i stop calling her and tell her that you dont want too call anymore u want to hear her voice by face to face make her feel that your not boring change the way you act to her sometimes you can be funny sometimes you can be the quiet type just make her feel that you have diffrent character which make her not bored.

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  20. Me n my gf in not in relationship last 3-4 months but she call me at mid night if i say something about relationship then she get angry but at every call last time she said m me love you what should i do……..??

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    • My girlfriend is angry at me cos I lied at her like 4 times now just random things now she is telling me if a guy comes her way she will go without looking back what do i do need help

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  21. my lady is too jealous, presently am scared of her love,she always abuse me when ever she is angry.am not feeling d love anymore, she is not ready to let peace reign, yet she say she loves me,am so confuse right now,pls what can I do

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  22. My girlfriend is at angry because I act like a wimp and yesterday said that it’s my last chance with her.If I screw this up it’s over😢.I love her so much.I will even die saving her.
    I hope today she forgives me.Lets see if this your ways make her happy.

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  23. My lady is very mad at me but i really dont know what i did to to pissed her off…. When i ask her she doesnt let me know… I have apologize to her but yet still she tells me she’s ok… But to me she’s still mad at me. I really love her and i dont want to loose her.

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    • Bro i had the same problem all you need to do is just dont talk about it and make her forget about it since you dont know what makes her angry but you need to act sweet be needy and make sure that she is willing to be with you if she says that shes fine ok it fine just make sure that she is not changing the way she act towards you make sure that i act you still care about her and u want her all the time.

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      • James you sound like you really understand females. I can imagine you are a wonderful boyfriend. I bet you have sisters. Your mother should be proud

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  24. This girl I really like named Hailee, we got into an argument and she doesn’t wanna talk anymore but she said she doesn’t know if she really wants to stop talking. She hasn’t blocked me on insta but she unadded me on Snapchat tho. I don’t want to lose her and rlly love her and I don’t know how to convince her to accept the mistakes that I’ve made

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    • Bro you can start asking her to go out and talk to her face to face and make her fall for you again just remember do not push her too much.

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    • The day was going good but after school she was mad at me for some reason and she doesn’t believe me that i care for her and she is always saying i hate her and she is just saying that i did something to her at school today but i dont know if i did or not and she wont answer my texts

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  25. I woke up in the morning and took my first breath…now she is mad at me…what do I do…I don’t want to lose her over my breathing…?? 🙁

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  26. She talked abt any other guy infront of me,,that she like him soo much,,nd i got jealous nd i asked why u like him this much,,,for this she thought i dont have trust on her,,,i got jealous soo i asked,,now what should i doo,,,😑,,nd i want too make her lough,,what should i doo ,,

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    • I know those are really hard and if you find yourself in a bad situation then try to call her or something and tell her sorry.. make her feel like you are with her even though it’s a long distance relationship.

      I hope for the best dude 😀

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    • If she blocked you then try to meet her and try to get back together cos now days it’s hard to find true love if you really love then first clear things out and try getting together if she’s worth it then don’t let her go.

      All the best

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  27. My girlfriend is mad at me bc I liked my ex Christmas pictures and old Instagram pictures but I didn’t mean anything by it so I apologized but she is still mad wat should I do bc she is the love of my life

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    • Well explain to her how you were only trying to be nice and you weren’t doing it in a flirty way. Make a special gesture to make her smile, maybe buy her some food and sit down on the couch and watch some movies. (Women love that type of stuff) Good luck!

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  28. my girl is mad at me becuase she was shouted by her own fellow who actually seams to be good to her all times and a like a friend to her but i tried my best to calm her down and also tried to cherr her up cause it really makes me sad and worried each times i see her mood that way and i fear if i may lose her one day and i really love her so much and also she is not so well open to me and she never want to tel me more about herself each time i tried to ask from her…so pls help me out for am losing my relationship !

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    • This isn’t 100% going to work.. i thought people who read this realized that? This whole thing is about what you can do to TRY and make your girlfriend or whoever happy. The article doesn’t know your girlfriend like you do… why in the world would you think that this was 100% going to work????

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  29. My girl is mad at me cause i have gone to a café alone to study without telling her before i go ,we used to go together to study at that café help me !

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  30. My girl is dominative and she’s mad at me coz after the movie she ask me about gym and I say no and I want to go sleep coz I’m tired but my friends come over and I go to the bar with them .now she said that it’s over and you live with ur friends bie😅. What should I do I love her so much and definitely I don’t want to lose her

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    • Dude that was so stupid of you. If you lose her i wouldn’t be surprised.. she probably wanted to spend some time with you and you just shut her down and then afterwards you go to the bar with your friends??? That just shows her that you don’t want to spend time with her.. you need to give her some attention and not just put in minimal effort into the relationship. If you read this then i hope you decide to not do that again. I hope things are going well with your relationship, mistakes like that can lead to you losing her..

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  31. Who cares if she’s mad. If she’s nasty to you dump her. Don’t waste your time trying to placate women. They are totally not worth it.

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      • Some woman are defiantly not worth it, if a woman treats a guy like trash then you think that woman would be worth it to the dude? no. You are just saying this because you probably been through several relationships and you are desperate and stuck up.

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  32. I have tried all, but she is asking me to give her time, apparently she can’t see me until she is fine. I only said that she is too negative towards me, infact I was just kidding and that led to such reactions. Any idea how I can handle her

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    • Just give her some space apply the no contact rule for at least 3 to 4 weeks before reaching her back and during this time don’t be lonely or idle, get busy and occupy your self with other stuffs, meet new friends and even go for new dates, improve yourself and before you even know you might be asking yourself whether she worths you again.

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      • Clearly you don’t understand women, I take it your single?? Yes I’m an angry woman atm. I need to be persued, eventually I will see his efforts and if I am in the wrong I will soon apologise to him and feel closer to him if I see he cares enough to make effort.
        If he ignores me and goes on other dates there is no way on earth I would take the bastard back!!

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    • Bro you can comfort her and talk to her face to face in a private place tell her that your just kidding and you didnt mean to say that and dont forget try to make her feel tht you still with her and your still by her side dont make her feel that your far apart that makes her think that you said was true.

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  33. My girl and I have had a facebook relationship for two years and currently she is angry b/c she feels I didn’t come to her assistance when she was insulted by someone else. I did come to her aide by laughing at the person’s comment but she thought I was taking his side. I wasn’t. Now she is not talking to me and even posting ugly comments on her home page that seem to be directed at me! We haven’t spoken for 3 days and I have been damned determined not to reach out until she does! I didn’t do anything but she says I am arrogant and egocentric, she is very stubborn and has throw these tantrums before. I miss her and am fearful I might lose her but I really feel that the ball is in her court! My friends tell me that I will lose her respect if I allow her to push me around….I have been very supportive of her and even helped her with her rent as she is a single mom and is really struggling…I feel like she is unappreciative of my efforts….I desperately want to make up…help me!!!!

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    • U have done your best bro. I have the same situation. Might never gavé attention despite all the apologize and love ï gavé to her

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    • MONEY ll not speak dood feelings & love ll speak .make her smile .lets go nd meet surprisely .
      if u spending money for her expenses will not give love tat is helping mind tats it …..love how u taking care . carring so n so etc cccccccc.good luck

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    • It Very Simply.. Give her a spanking on her BUTT and then leave without a word.
      She most likely might ask you why you spank her, and your answer should be
      (Just Because) and leave without a word .(silence)

      She will call you back. Stay away a day or two. Then go back with your belt in you hands.

      Problem solve.

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    • Yeah you’ve done your best but I’m only 20 years old and honestly I have a super cute girlfriend she’s really nice person and she got upset with me earlier this morning but it was my fault I did something I shouldn’t have done now I’m working things in my relationship with her to make things work out with me and my girlfriend I’m madly in love with my girlfriend and she’s so freaking cute but overall I love her just the way she is she’s naturally attracted and naturally beautiful and also hot too but I I bought her a clattering ring after 3 months of dating her now she’s giving me one more chance I’m not gonna screw it up I’ve been dating her for 5 months now since December 9th 2019 and I really like her a lot I love her so much and I love everything about her and I want to spend the rest of my life with her hopefully if things work out that way but at least I tried if not

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  34. I tried all nothing works, infact she have started seeing someone else now, only bcz I scolded her once saying that I can’t have one sided love.

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