10 Signs Your Boyfriend in a Long Distance Relationship is Faithful

 

Signs Your Boyfriend in a Long Distance Relationship is Faithful
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Being in an intimate relationship is hard but being in a long-distance relationship is even more challenging. A relationship needs good communication, a ton of commitment, and a strong foundation of trust, especially when the distance is the one interfering between two people. You may call yourself lucky if you will never find yourself in this kind of situation.

A long-distance relationship can either make you or break you. The space in between you and your partner may enable you to grow and value each other more or it can pull you and eventually make you drift apart. The common issue in this kind of relationship is trust. But how do you know if your boyfriend in LDR is faithful to you? Below are ten signs to guide you:

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10 Signs Your Boyfriend in a Long Distance Relationship is Faithful

1. He is trustworthy. 

First things first, how do you know? If you trust him as a person, you will trust him to be faithful. You have to trust him first to know if he is faithful. If your boyfriend has never given you a reason to doubt his loyalty, he never lied to you, or never cheated on you, then rest assured that he is faithful.

2. He is unafraid and open. 

This means that he is not afraid to share his password to his social media accounts, e-mails, or messages. He is very open and feels free to share his contacts. Why? Because he has nothing to hide! The faithful boyfriend knows that if this is what it takes to make his girlfriend feel secure and happy, he will happily oblige. Then again, he has nothing to lose anyway, right?

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3. He makes time for you. 

The distance can be challenging, especially if you and your partner live on opposite sides of the world. Different time zones can be annoying, it is six-thirty in the morning and you are having breakfast, yet he is getting ready for bed. There will be moments wherein time does not seem to synchronize. Even though a faithful boyfriend will never fail to make time for you despite the differences, he will always make you feel like you are his number one priority.

4. He makes an effort to visit. 

No amount of numbers can tear you two together! But, when he takes the effort to save money and book a plane ride even to see a glimpse of you, then you can tell that he is faithful. No one would put that much effort into someone unless he truly cares for her.

5. He never makes excuses. 

If you had a video date or you were supposed to call each other, a faithful boyfriend will never make up lame excuses for not being able to do so. A valid excuse is alright every once in a while, but if they keep piling up and each excuse is ridiculous than the other, then you may be having second thoughts about where his loyalty lies.

Signs Your Boyfriend in a Long Distance Relationship is Faithful
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6. He respects you even if you’re not there. 

A faithful boyfriend will never act as if he is single. He will respect you and your role in his life as his girlfriend even if you are not there. For example, when an attractive co-worker or seductive ‘friend’ tries to hit on him, he will politely decline because he respects you. Returning the actions would be unfair and hurtful for you, so if your boyfriend is faithful, he will know when to say no.

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7. He makes you feel his support. 

Despite the land or sea in between you two, he will always make you feel like he is right there beside you, cheering you on. If you have a significant exam, he will give you time to review without interruptions and even send you a supportive message. When you are having a bad day, he will be there to call you while you’re having coffee alone and make you feel happier despite him not being physically there. He will let you know that he cares, another sign to keep a note of to determine if you have a faithful boyfriend.

8. He updates you on important things. 

He does not have to necessarily message you every time he is going to do something, but he never forgets to tell you the important things. Whether he is going on a business trip with his co-workers or some girl tried to hit on him on the subway, he won’t hide it from you. He loves telling you about his day and feels that you would not feel so far away from each other by doing this! Another thing to check off the faithful boyfriend list.

9. He makes an effort to stay connected at all times. 

Again, he does not have to call and message you every single hour, that is a needy and paranoid boyfriend, not a faithful one, but he stays connected to you whether by phone or by his love for you. Sometimes in this kind of relationship, couples make the mistake of allowing each other too much personal time. Because two people trust each other, they allow their partners to take time with their work or whatever important thing they are doing — they wouldn’t mind. This is not entirely a bad thing, but if this is repeated through time, eventually, the couple will drift farther away from each other, physically and emotionally. That is why a faithful boyfriend will always try to stay connected.

Signs Your Boyfriend in a Long Distance Relationship is Faithful
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10. He never fails to make you feel loved. 

The most important thing to know if your boyfriend is faithful to you is that he never fails to make you feel loved. He does not need to send you roses every week; he does not need to call you every hour; he does not need to shower you with gifts or whatnot. All you need is a simple good morning text, a sweet ‘I love you’, a thoughtful ‘Take care’, and a longing goodnight and ‘I miss you’ to make you feel like you are the most beloved girl in the world.

Not every person is built for a long-distance relationship. Couples often don’t work out because they either grow apart or realize that their relationship was not strong enough to withstand the distance. But if you and your partner arm yourselves with good communication, loads of commitment, and a heap load of faith for each other, then there is no doubt that everything will be alright in the end. Nothing, not even distance can tear two hearts passionately fighting to be one.

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Carisha Yabora
Carisha lives for writing and painting. When she’s not doing either of the two, she is most likely to be seen petting stray dogs or commuting in high fashion boots.
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Fanta
Fanta
July 21, 2020 10:16 pm

I have a LDR boyfriend and we have been together for 5 months and we spend a lot of time of time together on the phone and all of a sudden he doesn’t have internet for a while and later on he starts telling me he likes another girl there… What do I do

Kelly Marie Sowden
Kelly Marie Sowden
June 14, 2020 9:35 am

Thanks for this. Put my mind at ease. My fiance is 18 miles away and has a very unsocial work schedule. Combined with the current situation ie Covid19 it’s not been easy but we’ve been together for 5yrs and despite the bad patches we’ve always been there for each other. I love him madly and I know he’s faithful. I’m so lucky.

Resco8
Resco8
May 27, 2020 1:46 am

This is a very good article but scared me to death. I believe i already know the answers since I can’t fully say any of those are our circumstances. I am so afraid to lose him or be without him that I can’t let go..even though I know what is going on. I am just a mess!

timothea
timothea
May 6, 2020 5:53 pm

hello thank you for the information I am see my newly lis boyfriend is really trying inspite of his hectic working hour and yes he was supposed to travel the long way to spend time with me during to the epidemic he has promised as soon as it’s over e will be in the first plan out
thank you

Fazirah Spain
Fazirah Spain
March 5, 2020 10:04 pm

Woow thank you for this am really Happy because am in a very long distance relationship. But my boyfriend almost does all of that and i the same which makes me feel that we are on the right track

Sandra
Sandra
February 4, 2020 6:57 pm

I have been dating dis guy for two years nd he travelled witout telling me and later i found out frm his frnd and since then he hardly calls or reply ma chart and also there is another guy dat wanted to help me fix my relationship after i complained to him,later me nd my guy argued nd i broke up wit him so i told this other guy and he told me that he loves me and i knw that he truly does bt dat my guy came bk and appologise to me bt stil he hardly calls
pls i need advice

Babyadie
Babyadie
February 3, 2020 10:36 am

My boyfriend and i are ldr, when we first met, we would chat for hours and hours. He would often tell me that he can’t sleep because hes thinking about me. He also told me that he often dream about me and him getting married. But now that we’ve been together for quite a time, he would always tell me that he needs to go because he really needs to go to school. Also they have a company and would tell me that he needs to go help his dad from their company. Should I be worried?

Rachel
Rachel
January 8, 2020 12:09 pm

My boyfriend got his ex girlfriend pregnant and claim he loves me dat it a mistake buh am confused …… Plz i need advice

Sandra
Sandra
Reply to  Rachel
February 4, 2020 7:05 pm

He can’t claim that he loves you and went ahead to sleep wit his ex.
If he truly loved u,u would ve been okay for him

Mare
Mare
Reply to  Rachel
April 20, 2020 4:39 am

My advice find someone new . If he really loved you he would not hurt you and cheat. There’s someone out there that will really love you and not cheat

Anonymous
Anonymous
January 5, 2020 6:23 am

Been so helpful…Me n my lover are 3 oceans apart but we always talk in and out….This article makes me feel we can make it to the day he will come back..

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lordhack242 ongmail
May 9, 2019 11:44 am

Your suspicions might be true
Get the peace of mind you deserve!

Percey
Percey
April 23, 2019 4:50 am

I need assistance, I met a. Guy online n we met for the first time after 4 yrs of communication…he told me that he was seeing someone…a few days later he started telling me how much he loves me n wants to visit my home as we about 430 kilos away from each other…could this bring something crus or just a fling

Raven
Raven
Reply to  Percey
March 14, 2020 2:46 pm

Sadly it come just be a fling if he was already seeing someone

Justme
Justme
September 29, 2018 12:04 pm

I have a LDR boyfriend and he study law, He’s busy if it’s his exam..we only talk once or twice if it’s his exam because he’s busy..And in normal days, after his school, he chat me.. if he has a few time, he will grab it and talk to me..We’re already 5 months..we have 2 hours and 30 mins time gap And I think our relationship is strong, He respects me everytime..When we argue, He’s the one who backs off and he will give me time to cool off and later on we will both explain our side..and when I read this article, this just made me so feel positive about our relationship. His family and friends know about us so I have nothing to worry about

Athena Hau
Athena Hau
September 19, 2018 7:13 am

We are LDR ,he is not a talker, but sometimes, if he didnt chat for a whole day, i feel bothered.But when we argue about it, he patiently explain everything to me, all the things im worried about, he answer it all patiently,and he always said “Even i dont keep in touch to u in a day, please dont think bad of me, bcs im not doing something here that might hurt u,im just tired from work” i dont know if our relationship will work..But i do love him..

Franny
Franny
January 15, 2018 11:03 pm

This article was very helpful!

LG
LG
November 19, 2017 4:02 am

Hi thank you for this post.. it makes ke feel relieved that my ldr bf is faithful to me despites if his hectic scheds at work he always makea time to make me feel loved always.. more power!

Jessy Fare
Jessy Fare
Reply to  LG
April 22, 2019 2:12 am

I can feel what u feeling. My ldr bf /to be husband is working his ass of to have alotta money so when he comes to my country he has money for when we go out. It’s gunna be our firsts time seeing each other in person. Trust me if he didn’t love me why would work/me be a priority?