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Gpl
Gpl
January 30, 2022 11:14 am

Coming from experience when a guy treats you badly for a long period of time he will never get those good feelings back with that guy. And if someone has a “try “to be a nice guy it will never end well. I know this is not the answer you want to hear but if she ends up meeting a guy who treats her great she will realize how bad it was with you and will not want to ever go back. A woman deserves to be treated like a queen in most cases.

Hogwosh
Hogwosh
January 13, 2022 10:49 am

Written by a woman. 20 ways sounds like men are supposed to be everything a woman while women do what they want. This is a new generation women want everything and give absolutely nothing or what they give is worth nothing.

You have women with multiple kids making demands … Sorry these are your and the other guys kids. Y’all had the hot and steamy s*x to bring them here. Not the other guys.

You want to be treated like a queen? Then act like one … you want to be pampered? Make the guy feel like that he wants to pamper you, you want all the attention? Be the woman that will make him want to put all of the attention to you. Nobody watches a bad movie, people watch and pay attention to good movies. To tell men today that they have to do this things for a woman in a feminist, men bashing environment is enablement.

If woman behave like female dogs, then give them back the same energy. If they treat you like you want to be treat then treat them like they want to be treated. Very simple.

Kash
Kash
May 25, 2021 10:43 pm

What about when the MAN, Treats his Woman Like a Queen, and keeps Putting Her & the Kids Needs before Himself? Who Supports him? The Biased against Good Men is Ridiculous, Especially when Kids are Involved! There are Men that want to be a FATHER/Husband & Not Just a Baby Daddy! But Society always blames them when Relationships/Marriages fall apart. Women have the Power to take your Kid Away from you, & don’t care how bad it will hurt the Father or the Child. Communication is Key, women can’t expect a man to know when they are not happy if they are not told when he asks her; are you ok? We are not Mind Readers, & we shouldn’t have to ask you everyday b/c you communication is poor. It’s hard for Men to find help when the Majority of Relationship articles put the blame solely on the Man, and the Woman the Faultless Victim…

Travis Burns
Travis Burns
Reply to  Kash
July 2, 2021 6:45 pm

KASH, I Agree there is to little importance given to just how impactful a father not being in a child’s life can be,as well as the continued development of a father growing and becoming a man and passing on his positive traits. Too few realize just what a negative impact it can taking the father away or limiting his interactions can have one our children, their growth both mentally and
emotionally, as well as our society in both criminal and being a positive member of society. Doing so adds to to the # of crimes committed across the board from rape to drugs. Our leadership, “false government employees, not all are bad” fails to realize this and just what a negative impact it has had on our growth as a society, as well as the decline in what was once a Great Nation. Years before this great decline Family meant something to one another as well as the term relationship and marriage. I understand there are time when a marriage can’t and won’t work out, but far few try to make them work out and it takes one person making a false quote to ruin a fathers life or loose his kids. L

Sidney
Sidney
November 23, 2020 1:40 am

Everytime i want something done he always says no.. it should be this way. And it create a huge argument. Havent mens ever heard of the saying ‘Always give the lady her way,’.? Do things the way she wants. Let her know shes right and your wrong .
You won’t hear her b*tch about them later.

Tr
Tr
Reply to  Sidney
July 2, 2021 6:51 pm

Compromise and communication are a huge part of a relationship. Too many times we forget that our partner has an opinion as well as feelings and we focus only on what we want. Relationships grow by communicating and being understanding not focusing solely on one person’s side. Doing this makes the other feel less important and the feeling that their opinion is of little value.

Heykup Jnr
Heykup Jnr
July 28, 2020 9:43 am

Lol
yea itz really true but only wen u cm to nigeria u would knw itz just a kids play, some countries galfriends
behaves lyk demon….

Thomas
Thomas
May 20, 2020 8:34 am

My girlfriend left me because i have been mean to her the last year. Now I am trying my best to be a better boyfriend. I really hope i will get her back sometime. Thanks for the tips!

TrB
TrB
Reply to  Thomas
July 2, 2021 7:01 pm

I can tell you from first had experience that by changing the way you act, talk, even your whole outlook on life might not ever bring your girl back. Sometimes when we treat people like this they tend to put walls up that they may never be able to let down. Her past can also play a huge factor in how she sees you and the ability to let her walls down. If she truly loves you and you truly love her it will work out in time, it may take a very long time and it may leave you wanting to pull your hair out but time does heal all wounds. Just remember why you changed and don’t allow yourself to return to the negative guy you once were or all your efforts will be for not. Good luck

michelle
michelle
December 31, 2019 12:50 am

This is how every woman should be treated if you love her.. You said queens I’m confused.

amir
amir
August 20, 2019 4:47 pm

So, I’m a girl…how do I treat my girlfriend like a queen in a girlxgirl relationship, more than this? It’s okay if no one is able to find an answer.

Diana
Diana
Reply to  amir
August 26, 2019 10:18 pm

No difference.. treat her like u would want to be treated

Em
Em
March 13, 2019 9:53 pm

So, I’m a girl…how do I treat my girlfriend like a queen in a girlxgirl relationship, more than this? It’s okay if no one is able to find an answer.

John
John
Reply to  Em
September 30, 2019 12:08 am

Omg this helped me so much now I don’t hit my girls 🥊

Erin
Erin
Reply to  Em
October 7, 2020 3:23 pm

hiya em, I also have a gxg relationship and I find that girls really care about dates, so if she has a dream date and it hasn’t already happened yet then that would be a great start! number two, idk how your queen is but mine loves hoodies! let her have one of yours or buy her one but the first option (giving her yours) is in a way, nicer. number three, find out your common interests and use them! for example, me and my girlfriend both love musicals and dancing so we went to see this performance (before covid) I hope you and your girlfriend are well, and it’s nice to have bumped into another queer on the internet!

TrB
TrB
Reply to  Em
July 2, 2021 7:03 pm

COMUNICATION IS KEY! Love one another as you would want someone to love you

Theron
Theron
December 4, 2018 5:49 am

Sharon Simangele Moobokazi is indeed my queen I’ve done all of this and our relationship is so strong😊

Preston sullivan
Preston sullivan
October 31, 2018 11:07 pm

I ALWAYS MAKE HER MY TOP PRIORITY AND PUT HER NEEDS FIRST

TrB
TrB
Reply to  Preston sullivan
July 2, 2021 7:07 pm

When 2 people love one another they always take pleasure in putting the others needs first.

TrB
TrB
Reply to  Preston sullivan
July 2, 2021 7:10 pm

Her needs should be a priority but your absolutely have to matter as well. If not and your needs suffer it can cause issues in the relationship over time. If both persons needs are meet then the relationship will bloosom.

Rasaq
Rasaq
October 27, 2018 6:38 am

I hurt my woman alot and she’s really mad at me but the truth is I really love her I don’t want to loose her
How can I correct my self

Jenn
Jenn
Reply to  Rasaq
January 19, 2021 2:03 pm

as a girl speaking , i only came on here to see if its right to keep my boyfriend . he hasnt treated me right at all and its making me upset and insecure . he call other girls pretty in front of my face , he says my butt is flat , and lastly whenever i get a haircut he calls me ugly . He put himself first and it hurts me . he acts like everythings a joke . i understand hes telling the truth but he could keep it in .

Trb
Trb
Reply to  Jenn
July 2, 2021 7:18 pm

THIS IS A TOUGH ONE,,If he calls you ugly then there is a good chance that your relationship may not work out. For some they never learned how to talk to their partners and it can stem from their upbringing and how they seen their parents act. If you have told him how you felt and he hasn’t changed or made any attempt then chances are you should walk away.

Max
Max
September 11, 2018 7:51 am

I think a girl should treat you like a King, first. So she could then own-up to the title of a Queen through virtue of her actions towards you. Then, and only then, you should definitely treat her like the most beautiful Queen in the Universe and beyond. Otherwise, you will run a risk of becoming her peasant. And no one likes peasants (romantically).
Guys are razed stupid while women elevated. Please change your perspective on courtship.

Monae
Monae
Reply to  Max
February 26, 2019 8:25 am

I agree 100%

TrB
TrB
Reply to  Max
July 2, 2021 7:21 pm

Max i believe that it should be equal, if its not equal then we run the risk of having feelings hurt or leaving one side feeling less than enough.

andrew
andrew
Reply to  Max
August 23, 2021 10:11 pm

Yep, following this article is a great way to be taken advantage of and if you think a girl wouldn’t do that, you’re a fool. Girls are just as capable of being abusive as men are.

Max, you said it perfectly. Show me you’re worthy of being treated as a queen, quit the entitlement and do your part.

Abduljabbar
Abduljabbar
May 5, 2018 2:22 pm

thank a lot I will try by God willing

Pete
Pete
December 5, 2017 12:27 pm

11. Always make her a priority.
Always make her your top priority. Put your needs before hers. If you want to treat your girl like a queen, be her servant first. In this way, she will be honored every single day and eventually she will reciprocate the respect to you.

If you read this and it says put your needs before hers, it makes no sense.

Inspiring Tips
Inspiring Tips
Reply to  Pete
December 6, 2017 4:36 am

Hello Pete. Thank you for the heads up. It was really a typo error, and we have already corrected it. We are glad and grateful that you shared your comment.

Savage
Savage
Reply to  Inspiring Tips
May 24, 2018 10:08 am

Thanks for the useful info. This will definitely help me. My girlfriend is 13 and I am 12 but we are in the same grade.

tshego
tshego
Reply to  Savage
November 22, 2018 4:49 pm

what 13 years
child go to school.

Tobindude
Tobindude
Reply to  tshego
October 5, 2019 1:09 am

Me too im 13 and shes 12

Thmez
Thmez
Reply to  tshego
December 27, 2020 3:24 am

😂😂😂

Debasis
Debasis
Reply to  Pete
September 1, 2018 6:44 am

Lol.. Pete you’re the one who wrote that sentence wrong and saying infront!
Information technology:”Put her needs before yours”
Pete: “put your needs before her”
Lol see yourself

John
John
Reply to  Debasis
June 2, 2019 1:24 am

Lol… Debasis if you actually read the comments you would know the typo was corrected long before you decided to type your comment

TrB
TrB
Reply to  Pete
July 2, 2021 7:24 pm

Too many times we do this and one side takes advantage and uses it against the other. There are some people in this world who try to take advantage of others and use their “pull” to get what they want, especially if you are the giving type with a huge heart.