12 Ways to Revive a Dying Relationship

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Not all relationships survive the test of time and there will always be moments when you would feel the need to finally give up and let go. However, it’s not also that easy to just drop everything and leave because you’re talking about something that once made you the happiest person in the world – so you are stuck in the frustrating and often heartbreaking dilemma between staying and saying goodbye.

If you’re ever trapped in this scenario, perhaps two of the questions you have tried but never dared to ask are, is there still hope to bring back what was lost? Does your relationship still deserve a second chance? If both of your answers is positive and faithful YES, then let us help you figure out the first step of the many steps that you should be taking.

Here are the ways to revive a dying relationship and finally be happy again.

1. Take a break but don’t say goodbye.

Don’t give up on your relationship yet because as long as you both believe in your love for each other, there will always be a rainbow after every storm. Maybe you just need a break from everything? Take all the time that you need – both of you.

Trying to fix an almost broken relationship can be emotionally taxing and sometimes it can even affect you physically so take it easy. You deserve to breathe – and remember that at the end of this remedy, you have someone to come home to.

2. Talk about it and be honest with each other.

What went wrong? Whatever happened to your promises of love and expressions of affection? Talk to each other. Communicate and be honest and truthful about how you really feel. Tell them about the time when they hurt you but you’re too scared to show it.

Just go on and ask the questions that have been bothering you all this time. What triggered this endless and current downfall? Admit your mistakes and have faith in the fact that it’s not yet too late to fix it.

3. Remember why you love them.

You were once the happiest person in the world because you’ve finally met your soulmate – the love of your life. Remember those important moments of elation. Even if your heart is filled with hurt and has suffered so much pain, they’re still there, just waiting to be found.

4. Take the good parts and learn from the bad.

It’s important that you learn the lessons from all these. Although both of you want to fix this and make the pain go away, it’s not a wise thing to forget and just let go of the faults that contributed to this situation. Recognize that you both are responsible for what happened and try your best not to repeat the same mistakes again.

More importantly, focus on the good parts. How did this stage help you to become a better person? How did it strengthen your relationship and love for each other?

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5. Don’t let anger do the talking.

Your relationship is fragile and even the tiniest hint of negativity can have the ability to break the already weak and delicate string that’s keeping your relationship together. Anger, for instance, is one of the factors that can instantly and surely kill the chances of solving the problem. Try your best not to accommodate and entertain this negativity.

6. Stop hurting each other more.

Don’t add more to the list of reasons why you should give up and end it all. Remember that you’re in this delicate stage and one wrong move can ruin all your effort of trying to save your failing relationship. Be sensitive and careful not to hurt each other more.

7. Consider spending time apart.

When it’s really that bad, you can try to consider this option of being physically away from each other. Sometimes distance can remind you of the things that you have taken for granted. Distance will also make you realize what it would feel like to live a life without them.

8. Seek advice from others who made it.

Listen to the stories of others who made it work. Of course, their situation can be different from yours but you can always gain something from the experiences of others.

9. Don’t let other people make the decisions.

In connection to the previous section, you have to remember that it is you and only you who should make the final decision. You should remember that your own feelings and your own thoughts should be the basis of every choice that you make.

10. Be kind to each other.

Kindness can do a lot especially if you’re trying to revive a dying relationship. Realize that both of you have been hurt and the best way to support each other is to just be kind and be gentle. Let kindness comfort your soul and slowly heal your broken hearts.

11. Create better memories together.

Create new memories that will remind you of the better days. Travel together, go somewhere and just have fun. Leave everything that hurts and just live your life to the fullest. Do this together as if it’s your last day on earth.

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12. Show them how much you want this to last.

You have to show them how much this means to you. Be genuinely open about your feelings and sincerely express your love for them. Renew your vows and make new promises – and this time, do your best to keep them.

Unlike the stories that you read about in fairytales, not everything follows a direct and sure path to a happy ever after. It won’t be easy and sometimes you’ll fail to do your part but hold on and have a little faith in love. Remind yourself that just like any painful and hurtful stage of life, this, too, shall pass – and both of you will be there to survive it all.

Again, believe in the power of love and hold on to the promise of better days. Once you last this seemingly endless storm, you’ll rise up together, stronger and nothing can ever break you apart again.

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Charm Villalon
Charm is a writer and a student. She is currently completing her Graduate Degree in Language Studies while refining her creativity and related skills through the visual arts: drawing and painting.
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Stone.
Stone.
December 6, 2020 10:26 pm

Same thing I’m passing through.
Feels like we’d never get back together.. and she’s the one I love.. no other one comes close.

Steve Ross
Steve Ross
September 29, 2020 1:09 am

Great tips! Very helpful.

ada
ada
August 10, 2020 2:37 pm

ion know what to do, we barely talk these days, he hardly picks my calls n i can’t visit cos m in sch…d only intimacy we’ve had is sex months ago
i miss him n ion know how to get him talking

Women Dating Adviser
Women Dating Adviser
June 7, 2020 7:50 am

you describe this very beautifully, as a woman i relise that the Second point “Talk about it and be honest to each other” Most important for every relationship. and im also face this situation from last last couple of years, if you honest to each other your realationship never break.

Dating Blush
Dating Blush
May 25, 2020 7:21 am

The way you describe to revive a dying relationship is really great. Every time whenever I follow your article I found something new on it which inspired me so much. Here my favorite points are
Remember why you love them and Create better memories together.
Keep sharing your valuable information. Thanks for this valuable and informative article.

Franki obas
Franki obas
April 26, 2020 9:23 am

Haven’t been honest with my partner now is saying I shuld put dix relationship stress aside nd we love each oda so much after dix hold can dix relationship come bk better nd healthy nd what shuld I do pls help me

Obinna orji
Obinna orji
April 5, 2020 5:03 pm

Have been in this relationship for 4 years now and i so much love her dearly but we having some argument every now and then, she has no feelings for me anymore, lack of communication and it breaking, she said she doesn’t have feelings for us anymore and need a break, I don’t want to lose her bcos she means the world to me, what can I do to save my relationship and bring her back

Ania
Ania
April 1, 2020 8:51 am

I am emotionally imbalance my partner always see me as a problem even when I try to express my feeling and have deep conversation with him am always the problem he doesn’t call me or text me he does nothing for me but I still love me we have been dating for 8year now I am confused I dnt no what to do any more I feel am losing it he feels good talking to other girls rather then me
Someone please tell me what to do

Ferrari
Ferrari
September 5, 2019 4:08 am

I’ve been with my boyfriend for 6 years it’s my fault that he broke up with me because of My arguments with him and jealousy and my trust issues I want to make it work with him because I love him I want for him to give me another chance because I’ve changed a lot since we been broken up for 2 months going on 3 months now I want him to take me back so we can renew our relationship and start fresh I don’t no what to do anymore he said he will give me 6 months and then I can definitely maybe come back that can mean either yes or no I’m confused because I want this relationship to work

Patience
Patience
August 6, 2019 7:22 pm

Ii don’t know when its all started but at some point, I find myself cheating and then I realized that maybe I was the only one in the relationship because he hardly have my time. His friends became my companion. But I love him and I desperately need the relationship to work. I can’t do without him, infact, he is my everything. Although sometimes I feel like quitting not because I feel like it but since I told him I cheated, no trust and he uses every mistake to remind me that I am a cheat. Please anything that will make it work for me is welcome

Andrea
Andrea
July 19, 2019 2:05 pm

Recently boyfriend broke up with me because we became toxic. It saddens me we didnt do more to save us. I havent fully moved out our apartment and i guess truth is im holding on to hope with time and space apart we could be better. Being apart has made me realize i want to fight for this. But i lost hope and dont know what to do. I just want to be in my home with him.