Making a woman happy in a relationship is not at all that complicated as long as their partner is willing enough to observe and listen – but where should they really start? Perhaps the best way to answer this question is to consider this idea: women wants to feel valued, respected and most of all, appreciated.
Appreciation can come in many forms, but the most important of all is to make your significant other, the most special woman in your life, feel beautiful inside and out.
If you still don’t have a clue on what you should do to follow these pieces of advice, let’s take a look at some of the more specific ways to make a woman feel beautiful.
Here they are.
1. Genuinely appreciate her weirdness and peculiarities.
The most beautiful thing about the woman you love is her uniqueness. She’s different, the only one in the world and you should celebrate it by genuinely making her feel that it’s okay to be herself.
What you don’t realize is, everything that is different about her is what actually made you fall for her in the first place. Don’t let her lose that just because society thinks it’s strange and unusual.
2. When she’s in doubt (about her appearance), comfort her.
Make it your responsibility to be there when she needs someone to remind her of her worth. She deserves someone who will tell her that she’s the most beautiful butterfly even if the world makes her feel like she’s the ugliest and most terrible-looking caterpillar.
Be a source of hope and comfort, a gentle reminder that whenever circumstances and other people make her feel unworthy of appreciation, she has you, someone who will believe in her no matter what.
3. Hold her hand and let everyone see how proud you are of her.
Tell the world how proud you are to walk beside the most stunning queen of your universe. Hold her hand, in sickness and in health, through thick and thin – and don’t let other people take away that pride just because they’re too blind to see beyond their insecurities.
Help her win her confidence back and help her rediscover the goodness within and outside of her, physically and emotionally.
4. Let her be with her fashion choices – and don’t interfere.
Let a woman dress herself and leave her alone with her fashion style. As a way of expressing herself, her clothes and the way she wears her hair is an empowering declaration of how she wants the world to see her.
Being in a relationship does not give you the freedom to dictate how she should present herself to the world, so make her feel beautiful by supporting her with her own choices in every aspect of her personal life.
5. Don’t say anything about how she wears her makeup.
Just don’t say a word – unless you’re an expert. A makeup or any cosmetic product can help women fully express themselves with style and confidence. Putting on makeup is like putting on a battle armor: it helps them face every day with a strong and confident outlook.
Don’t judge them by the way they shape their brows or how red their lips are. Don’t even comment on the thickness of their foundation or the heaviness of those false eyelashes. It’s their thing and if you’re not comfortable with it, then you don’t deserve this great, empowered and beautiful goddess in your life.
6. Let other people give her a compliment, too.
Don’t be that jealous and paranoid guy who would snap and get angry every time other people would call your girlfriend beautiful. A compliment is a compliment, and you know very well that this woman holding your hand deserves it.
It’s important that you let your girlfriend feel that she can freely be herself in front of other people regardless of your presence.
7. Notice even the smallest (physical) changes she made, every bit of it.
Did she just have a haircut? Did you know what color hair nails were last week? Did you notice that new dress she wore on your anniversary? How about how she chose that fire red lipstick on your first kiss?
You have to be attentive and notice even the smallest and tiniest details about how she presents herself in front of you. She made an effort to look beautiful – and it’s not that hard to let her know that you see it, that you noticed them.
8. Just tell her how beautiful she is every chance you get.
Words are free and just telling her how beautiful she is, plain and simple, is your most effective way to make her feel beautiful. You have hundreds of vocabularies in the English language at your disposal. Is she pretty? Is she attractive? Do you find her thoughts beautiful? Does she have the most magical imagination? Go on, tell her.
Appreciate not only her physical assets but also her non-physical attributes.
9. Look at her as if you’re staring at a beautiful, delicate flower.
She’s more precious than the most beautiful flower in the world and don’t forget to let her know that. It’s okay to stare at her and appreciate this most special moment in her presence. In fact, don’t let a day pass without showing her that she is loved, adored and appreciated.
10. Make her feel that her imperfections are beautiful, too.
She can’t be perfect every day and no matter what she does, she can’t be at her best all the time because like you, she’s only human. Nonetheless, accept her imperfections and make her love even the most unlovable parts about herself – especially during her weakest moments.
Women don’t feel beautiful every day and the cruelties of reality can somehow make this worse. It’s your job as a partner and a lover to take her out of this negativity and bring her back to loving and appreciating herself.
Love and affection can be expressed in many forms and one is making your woman feel that you see them as someone beautiful and precious. Don’t go on a day without telling the person you love how truly special they are.
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