How is it like to be a confident woman? You may have seen a lot of women who took the stand and spoke and committed to the things they believe in, may it be in politics, society, science, and the arts. Other girls meanwhile carry the courage to speak about the things they believe is right and just, while there are also those who showcased their pride in their work.
Indeed, women are powerful, but how do you be one like them? Well, confidence does not have to take in the form of big, bold gestures. Oftentimes, all you have to do is believe in yourself for this kind of self-esteem to come to life.
How can you be confident in yourself as a woman, in the first place? If you have finally decided to take the step forward and embrace your pride in being a woman, then here are five crucial ways to do so:
1. Know your worth.
As much as women possess great power to wield society, they are often overshadowed by a lot of self-doubts. This may be due to the environment they are in, or the people they interact with. But this premise doesn’t serve as a reason for you to stay behind.
Hence, it is important that you start knowing your worth. Take pride in your capacities and talents, and how you use them in your everyday tasks. Know your inner good, how you care for yourself and for others. Most importantly, remind yourself that you cannot be hurt just because you are a woman.
By knowing, and keeping yourself reminded of your value as a woman and as a person, you become more capable of handling life’s challenges with your head held high.
2. Start caring for yourself.
Another way to boost your confidence is by caring for yourself. No, it’s not about being vain; it’s about giving yourself the care and kindness it needs. It’s because like any other life form, you are subject to wear and tear. You grow tired and old as time passes by. You cannot just wait for your wrinkles to form and your strength to run out.
You may want to start doing the things that not only keep you at your best shape, but the things that protect you from harm, illness, and the results of time passing by. Go out and exercise, follow a balanced diet, and practice a health regimen that meets your needs. You may also want to start veering away from toxic people as they too can consume you, and this affects your confidence a lot.
By caring for yourself, the more you take pride in your wellbeing, and the better you become in facing the present and the future.
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3. Follow your passion.
One unique quality of women is that they not only seek refuge in the things they are passionate about; they nurture their confidence when engrossed in their bliss. So yes, it is important that you find your passion and make it a significant part of your life goals.
This is because by following your passion, you get to discover a lot about yourself. You learn to focus better, find solutions to small problems, and develop new other skills along the way.
Following your passion also teaches you to be more open, accepting, and constructive in your worldview. You learn to appreciate what others tell you (good or bad), and by learning from them, you become more confident in your craft as well.
4. Nurture a support group.
Confident women may be seen as strong and independent, but they too get tired sometimes. Also, independence is different from isolation, and they know that life is not a solitary road.
A secret they keep: they have a support group. And you should too.
Having a support group, composed of family, friends, and fellow women who think and feel the same way as you helps a lot in keeping your self-esteem intact. This is because they see through you and help you realize things when your judgment gets clouded. By having them around, you are able to vent, rest, rethink, and reset your mindset, especially when you are caught in highly stressful situations.
Remember, confidence, when you start losing it, can be channeled back to you by these people, so it’s best to have them around.
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5. Always have fun.
Lastly, confidence is not always about reaching goals and achieving triumphs; it’s also about feeling happy, contented, and fulfilled with the simple things in life. So yes, it is important that you also know how to have fun –and enjoy it to the fullest.
Learn to take a breather. Go on a hike, stroll around the mall, spend time with friends, and take a lot of pictures. Do whatever makes you happy and free. Don’t let yourself be downplayed by other people’s comments or judgments, so long as you know you’re not doing anything wrong.
Eat cake. Have more than one pizza slice. Dance to the ‘80s dance hits. Dress up like you’re doing a catwalk. Sing your heart out. These are only some of the myriad of ways you can celebrate being a woman who’s totally having fun.
When you know how to have fun –and enjoy every fleeting moment to the fullest, you also learn to let go of your inhibitions and inferiorities. Once you have set them free, you have set yourself free as well, and you have just pulled your self-esteem up a notch.
Why is it important to be a confident woman?
Confidence is something that women need to exercise every single day. It’s not only because society still says that “it’s a man’s world,” but it’s more about you have a lot to offer, and the world needs to see, feel, and embrace it. As a woman, you cannot just let yourself be left unheard or unseen. By having the right amount of confidence, you become brave, courageous, and most importantly, free to live life the way you want it.