“Most people want to see you do better, but not doing better than them.” – London Mond
It’s funny how people are nice in front of you, but talk about negative things behind your back. They feel insecure and angry with themselves, so they makeup stories or exaggerate them to pull someone down. Some of them are overly friendly and will feed you with flattery for no apparent reason. They are fond of wearing masks and can make a show about being friends with you, but indulge in poisonous gossip about you.
One thing I learned about dealing with backstabbers is that they are only powerful when you got your back turned. At first, it wasn’t easy to deal with them and I admit that there are times when everything they said really got on my nerves. However, I realized that there is no reason to degrade myself by making me hate them because I know myself better than them.
Since, I’ve learned how to handle it, allow me to share some smart ways on how to deal with backstabbers.