While people always say that in a relationship, women are the ones who easily get mad at men, that’s not always the case, and it depends on the situation. For instance, did you not answer your boyfriend’s calls while you were out with your friends? Did you keep talking about your ex/es? Did you fail to show up on your date? Or, did you underestimate the things that he loves doing, like his favorite video game? These are just some of the possible reasons that your boyfriend gets mad at you.
Now, if you know that you’re the one at fault, how will you make it up to him? How will you make your boyfriend smile when he’s mad at you? Here are some of the ways to make him stop being mad at you:
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1. Say sorry, and mean it.
If you’re the one who committed a mistake, then set aside your ego, and apologize to him. Make sure that you mean it. He will know if you’re being sincere; he can see it in your eyes. If your apology is genuine, then he will see that you realize your mistake, and you understand why he got mad. Remember that he’s mad for a reason. He might just be worried if you’re safe, or he’s mad because you failed to see the things that are of great value to him. Hence, apologize for your lacking.
2. Hug him tight.
If he’s used to seeing you like the aggressive one in the relationship, why don’t you give him that hug now? Your boyfriend might just melt like butter when you give him a warm embrace or a kiss. The fact that you’re the one who runs up to him and suddenly hugs him is already a big deal for him.
3. Give him a massage.
Would he resist a massage from his favorite person? I don’t think so. He might be mad at you at the moment, but he would still appreciate any sweet gesture of yours. So, why don’t you give him that massage that he needs to reduce his stress? Massage him in the neck if you know that’s his weakness. He might just forget he’s mad at you because you really took the effort to show how much you want to make it up to him.
4. Be extra sweet.
If a massage on his back is not his type (highly doubt it though), there are still a lot of ways to make him smile when he’s mad at you. While you’re used to being the one pursued by your boyfriend when you’re mad or sulking, it’s time for you to do the opposite. Ask what you can do for him. Lower your voice when you talk to him. Prepare him some coffee or cold beverage. Be extra sweet, so he’s left with no choice but to smile and forget about his anger.
5. Cook for him.
You might have heard the line “The best way to a man’s heart is through his stomach” a million times, but it is always true. So, why don’t you cook his favorite food? You can also cook something that you haven’t tried yet, and make him the first one to taste it. He might just forget his anger once he sees the mouth-watering dish you’ve prepared for him. If it doesn’t taste as good as how it looks, he might still end up laughing or smiling because he knows that you did your best just to make you smile.
6. Throw some jokes.
If you think that ladies are the only ones who fall in love with men’s sense of humor, then you’re wrong. Men would love to see the lighter side of women. No matter how mundane your jokes can get, your boyfriend will still end up laughing and realize how charming you are. So, don’t hesitate to make your boyfriend laugh even when he’s mad at you at the moment.
7. Compliment him.
If you think women are the only ones who want to get compliments from their boyfriends, then you’re wrong again. Sometimes, all you need to do is to say how cute and adorable he looks when he’s mad. Notice how his hairstyle looks really good on him. Notice how his rugged look is perfect on him. Your boyfriend can’t help but smile when you shower him with simple but genuine compliments.
8. Offer to do what he’s always wanted.
Has he been asking you to play a video game with him? Has he asked you to go to the gym together? Or, has he always wanted to take you to a basketball or baseball game and watch together? If so, why don’t you ask him that you do these things? The moment he enjoys doing those things with you, he will not keep bringing back the issue as to why he got mad at you.
9. Give him small surprises.
While girls are usually the ones surprised by their boyfriends, why don’t you break the convention? It’s time to reciprocate those small surprises that your boyfriend gave you. Leave small notes saying how much you love him. Take him to his favorite store or restaurant. Buy him his favorite comic book. Throw small surprises for him to make him feel loved, giving him no more reason to get mad at you.
10. Give him your sweetest smile.
Sometimes, all it takes to take away his anger is to give him your sweetest smile. Instead of fuelling his anger, catch his eyes, and just smile. Show him that smile that you don’t just give to anybody. He can’t help it. He might not realize he’s already smiling back at you.
11. Ignite the torch.
Let’s face it. Most men, if not all, would love to be touchy-feely with their partners. And yes, physical contact is important in a relationship. It’s part of keeping the fire of the relationship. You’re the one who knows your boyfriend, so you know what works best for him. You know how to make him happy. Be extra touchy. Be extra romantic.
Indeed, women are not just the ones who get mad. There are times that your boyfriend will get mad at you, and when he does, go the extra mile to stop his anger. Remember that a good relationship should be a give and take between the two of you. Make your boyfriend smile just as how he tries his best to make you smile every time you get mad at him.
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Chinese Translation: 让你的男友在对你生气时微笑的11种方法
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Hello Kisa,
Oh dear, I am so sorry to hear this. But you are so young you should have enjoyed your life. If he doesn’t understand your situation and he said this hurtful things so you better leave him. Girl I am not making any judgment here but by being with him you will loose your self confidence and self respect which is important thing. The relationship you are in is a toxic relationship. And that bastard has a family of his own and girl you are his amusement. No love is greater than the love you do with yourself. So for your sake just leave him. Make new friend, move around and please do socialize with people eventually you will understand what you were doing.
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My dear,
I am also in a long distance relationship for the past 7 year and it’s tough thing to maintain that. As you said that he cheated on you so may be he is spending his time with some other girl and just getting irritated with you and if so just leave him and this was just a possibility.
Or as may be he is seriously busy with some work and he was having some stress and he is taking it out on you which is quite common. And if that so just give him some space. We don’t want to be nagging girlfriend here. Approach him slowly. Told him whenever he is free he can call you as you don’t want to disturb him when he is at work.
And whenever you talk just keep your talk simple and relaxing for him. Make some humorous talk. Always told him that you love him and whenever their is any problem you are always their for him. Ask him simply about his work and what’s stressing him. Surly if he loves you he will come around. And if he doesn’t want to talk to you as sometimes it happens just give him some space and told his that you know it’s a tough time for him and just so he knows you are always their for you and when he feels like talking he can call you..
And show him that you seriously care for him. Just leave him simple messages and all. Don’t demand him to call you. And when everything is alright just told him that you did feel hurt just so he should also know about his behavior.
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Hello Melissa,
You try to convince your boyfriend that you just have a lil crush on that guy….
but you truly love your boyfriend more than him
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@Muten,
I guess your boyfriend is an Aries guy, if that so… read about Aries somehow it will help you
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if he’s not responding to text ease texting him and just let it blow over for a while he will come around
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I am also having the same problem….I want to talk with you can u help me and want to know what you did for this…I m really upset with my nature….plz do this favor with me
My boyfriend is the sweetest man I know. He puts effort in our relationship and always have the initiative.. He knows I’m an introvert and does not like to open my feeliings. I get insecure.And I hurt him really bad. I told him I snooped at his chat messages. He was shocked, devastated and disappointed at me. He said I proved that he is a liar, I do trust him but I just need explanations why he lied to me. I now it’s my fault and I am so guilty about it.
I will try doing these things to gain his trust back and to make him heal.. and love me again more…
ok baby girl d deed is already been done. Leave your phone around so he can check yours and make sure you deliberately put messages about him that he thinks you might not want him to see for eg
put him as your secret lover
i miss him so much, i can’t wait to see him again, he makes me get nervous around him
i cant believe he has sweet lips
i wonder what his hands feel like
then put his name to it
If john only knew
he just turn me on
but i just cant tell him yet
My boyfriend got mad at me for not calling him. And then he calls and abuses me. He wont even let me explain,he would just call,and after talking Would hang up. I’ve apologized,but he’s always ignoring me whenever we meet. Please i need some advice coz i dunno what to do again.
Just ignore him. Don’t pick up his calls and don’t look at him when you see him. He’s trying to take advantage of you. If he really loves you he’ll apologize. It might take time and I know it’ll be hard to ignore him but it’s the best option.
don’t take his call for a few weeks and see what he will do. Besides you might have to look at anger issues and if he calls u back and said he’s sorry and couldn’t live without your voice then he is a keeper, if not drop him in the friends zone
I have email him until he told me to stop bothering him as he got new gf a year ago since we parted ways way back 2015. I keep sending him by WhatsApp he told me not to message him I just make her wife mad. And so he blocked me. Lately, I found out he was not married yet. I was confused why he has to say that lies after all I broke his heart. What I will do to accept my apology?
Let time heal you both. It’s clear that he was not loving you, he was depending upon you and playing the victim to his own made up lies, believing that you are the only one with power to say he lives or dies….it’s not your fault. He decided to take responsibility for himself by cutting you off and setting you free. I hope you got your beautiful wings back and flew out of the birdcage- the door was open awhile ago. By not allowing you to apologize spoke volumes that he has already closed the book on that Chapter of the never ending cycle of codependence on you. I was you. I was him. I’m divorced and still together with mine. BUT, I learned how to stand and fly- he knows how to hold on. Apologies aren’t for just him to hear, forgive yourself. Give him to God.
baby he already told you out. Leave his sorry ass and find someone that would talk to you, a new friend. it was nice that you tried but it’s time to realize that you have done your part and keep your dignity intact and block him too
Me and my partner is in relationship from last 5 years, and because of my some faults, he always like to blame me even for his personal problems also and he always leave me alone in his bad time. He is very much possessive for me, he has a huge friend circle including females but he don’t want me to get in touch with males even in the official manner. He blames me in abusive language regularly for everything. A week later he asked me to finish this relation and block my no. Blocked me from everywhere, then I used every no. of my home to reach him but he always abused me and blocked those no. and now, whenever he got drunk he use to call me and abuse me and then again block my every no. Please help me and tell me what can I do to make him understand this all is hurting me, not to do this behavior, I want to be with him only….how can I change him. He don’t want to meet me, don’t want to have a word with me in the polite manner, i also can’t go at his place. My friends tried to reach him but behaved very rudely with them also. Please tell me how could I realize him his mistake.
God bless you. ignore him.
This will get his attention. Do not reach out. This will show him that you are valuable, strong and important to yourself. Your silence will make him wonder if you found better than him or how wonderful your life must be.
You are a beautiful lady, made by God with so much love and grace to offer. Do not let him try to take that away so that he is more important. The spirit of anger tries to control him. Don’t feed it and thus give him inventive to turn from it. You are too good to grace him with your presence if he disrespects or abuses you…you must be strong and walk away. You are the gift- He wants you to show him you know your worth! Then he will respect you. (or he will also walk away bc he knows you are too good and he dies not want to change)
If he does not follow and improve, a better man WIll. Have FAITH!!
Be blessed 👑 Queen
I know i feel so bad for you just find a man already he sounds like he wants you to date him.
Then tell her if you guys keep fighting your over your chose.
God god he is not for keeps leave him in the friends zone and forget about him, he is not worth your time
How do I make him smile when we’re far away from each other
If you have his phone number text him and maybe do something funny or somthing other thought was funny but do it to him i mean works for me except mine was painful
to make him smile when he’s far away. do things like singing but not at your best voice, try your best to add your own lyrics, pull your own key
for example
Rihanna sings I ve been every man looking for you babe searching for you babes
where have you been wow
are you hiding from me yeah
you could then say
why have gone so far
somewhere in the crowd n tried to pull the key and choke at it
then said i need some water cuz im trying to let the rain fall
but baby this is how bad i miss u i can’t remember the lyrics
My boyfriend doesn’t even give me the chance to apologize after a fight. He talks to me only when he’s done keeping malice.
Same here. That’s really very hard to deal with somebody like this. Hey but trust me, they have the most sensitive heart ever. The reason your bf avoid talking to you because he’s secretly avoiding to make you hurt from the words of his anger. Once he has been cooled down and back to normal, I’m preety sure he’ll act like nothing has happened and also might be asking sorry for that incident. So , try giving him some space, he’ll give a damn good comeback.
It helps me somehow to cheer me up. Thanks ♥️
if a guy keeps malice with you and you cant apologize, say nothing dont remind him of the past events go in a corner and pick up a book or watch your favorite movie. when he cools down and he is coming to sit next to you. listen
Same here and we’ve been
Married 12 years
my girlfreind dosent do this she always fight and blames me that i started the fight
That isn’t a good girlfriend
tell her how u feel and invite her to watch movies with similar traits with you and tell her about your romantic side
same but my bf does that
also he just walk away he says hes done for the day
what do you do when this happens, because mine does this as well
Hahaha I’m the same
Me and my boyfriend had issues I caught him calling a lady I told him not to call telling her different sweet thing and saying he is going to see her d next day and have a nice time together,so that got me angry and I started talking which got him angry about me yelling that lasted for about some hours,i know he is trying his best in the relationship even more than me but said he wants break up that am not a good woman,and been begging him for days now which he refused.
I don’t know what to do about it.