In contrary to what everybody thinks, girls are not that hard to understand as long as you’re willing enough to try and get to know how their mind works – especially if you want to win their heart. However, this doesn’t mean that making them fall in love with you is a walk in the park.
For starters, if you truly want to be noticed, make sure you have these qualities handy: your enduring patience, a gentle hint of confidence and most importantly, a solid grasp of reality. If you’re still having a hard time understanding these general concepts, let’s take a look at these specific ideas on how to make a girl fall in love with you.
1. Get to know her crowd or be a part of her circle.
Try to be a part of her world by making an effort to meet her friends – but don’t do it just because you want to impress her. You should also have the genuine desire to be with the people inside her social circle, especially if you have the same hobbies and interests.
However, if you think that you’re from two different worlds, don’t force it and just be true to yourself. There are still other things that you can do to get her attention.
2. Don’t mind first impressions – just be consistent.
It’s okay if you did not appear impressive the first time you met. Just prove to her that you have a lot more to offer. However, beware of pretending to be something you’re not. It’s exhausting to put on a mask every time you’re with her.
Again, just be yourself because everything likeable and lovable about you will just reveal itself without you forcing it out for everyone to see.
3. Prove to her that you can be a good friend.
Great relationships always start from good friendship. Prove to her that your intentions are pure and being in a romantic relationship with her is not your only end goal – it’s being there for her whenever she needs someone to rely on.
4. Express, don’t try to impress.
You’re not performing for a crowd to get your standing ovation. You’re trying to make a special soul fall in love with you. What you have to do is just try to express how you feel not in words but through your actions.
5. Respect her space and know your limits.
The most important thing to remember here is this: your feelings for her do not give you the right to force her to like you. Similarly, you should always see her as a person worthy of love and respect instead of seeing her as an object to be owned.
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6. Make her feel that she’s appreciated.
Make her feel that her existence matters and her presence in your life is a God-given gift. Appreciate her for who and what she is and lastly, make her realize how precious she is – as a person and as a woman.
7. Be a good and sincere listener.
Listen to her thoughts and show interest in her stories. Be a good listener and show her that you care about what she feels. This is also one way to get to know her better, to discover the real person behind that sweet smile, the soul behind those soft gentle eyes.
8. Let your sense of humor win her heart.
Even if you’re not so good at it, just try and do your best to make her laugh. Another way to a girl’s heart is to make her laugh out loud, to remind her that the world can be cruel sometimes but there are still things to smile and to laugh about.
Be the bringer of these reminders and she will surely remember you for it.
9. Make her feel beautiful, inside and out.
Make her feel that she’s the most beautiful soul in the universe.
Remind her that no matter how ugly and undesirable she thinks she is, someone out there genuinely thinks that she’s the most gorgeous and amazing person in the whole world.
10. Never lie to her or pretend to be someone you’re not.
Never break her trust by pretending to be someone you’re not. Being yourself is a good way to show her that your intentions are good and pure. Lies, deceits, pretensions: these are just some of the few things you shouldn’t rely on especially if you want someone to love you for who you are.
11. Be patient and don’t do anything out of desperation.
Good things come to those who wait, as a famous line says. Patience will help you get the good things – and the good people that you truly deserve. Just do your part and wait for the Universe to say yes.
12. Accept rejections and understand that a NO is a NO.
Again, respect her as a person and as a woman and learn to read the signs. Rejections are sometimes necessary to lead you to a new and better road. At times, they are reminders that you still have to grow to deserve whatever it is that you’ve been wanting to have.
Respect her NO and learn when it’s time to give up.
13. Learn to recognize the signs if she’s into you, too.
On the other hand, you must be observant enough to be able to see if everything that she’s done for you is a sign that she is also into you. However, beware of being delusional and too “imaginative”.
14. Don’t waste your chance and love her every day of your life.
Once you finally get that long-awaited YES, celebrate. However, remember that making a relationship last takes a lot of work and it’s a longer, more challenging process. Don’t waste your chance and prove to her that she made the right choice.
Falling in love should be a pure, genuine and effortless feeling. There’s a lot of ways to impress a girl but only a few can really win her heart. Make sure that you follow the advice that will make her feel appreciated, admired and most importantly, respected.
Lastly, you have to always remember that your need to express your feelings should never overpower her right to choose how she will respond to your intentions. Make her fall for you because she knows deep within that she loves you – not because she feels obligated to say YES.
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