Being in an intimate relationship is hard but being in a long-distance relationship is even harder. A relationship needs good communication, a ton of commitment, and a strong foundation of trust especially when the distance is the one interfering between two people. You may call yourself lucky if you will never find yourself in this kind of situation.
A long-distance relationship can either make you or break you. The space in between you and your partner may enable you to grow and value each other more or it can pull you and eventually make you drift apart. The common issue in this kind of relationship is trust. But how do you know if your boyfriend in LDR is faithful to you? Below are 10 signs to guide you:
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10 Signs Your Boyfriend in a Long Distance Relationship is Faithful
1. He is trustworthy.
First things first, how do you know? If you trust him as a person you will trust him to be faithful. You yourself have to trust him first in order to know if he is faithful. If your boyfriend has never given you a reason to doubt his loyalty, he never lied to you, or never cheated on you, then rest assured that he is faithful.
2. He is unafraid and open.
This means that he is not afraid to share his password to his social media accounts, his e-mails, or his messages. He is very open and feels free to share his contacts. Why? Because he has nothing to hide! The faithful boyfriend knows that if this is what it takes to make his girlfriend feel secure and happy, then he will happily oblige. Then again, he has nothing to lose anyway, right?
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3. He makes time for you.
The distance can be really tough especially if you and your partner are living on opposite sides of the world. Different time zones can be annoying, it is six-thirty in the morning and you are having breakfast yet he is getting ready for bed. There will be moments wherein time just does not seem to synchronize. Even though a faithful boyfriend will never fail to make time for you despite the differences, he will always make you feel like you are his number one priority.
4. He takes the effort to visit.
No amount of numbers can tear you two together! When he takes the effort to save money and book a plane ride just to even see a glimpse of you, then you can tell that he is faithful. No one would put that much effort for someone unless he truly cares for her.
5. He never makes excuses.
If you had a video date or you were supposed to call each other, a faithful boyfriend will never make up lame excuses for not being able to do so. A valid excuse is alright every once in a while, but if they keep piling up and each excuse is more ridiculous than the other, then you may be having second thoughts about where his loyalty lies.
6. He respects you even if you’re not there.
A faithful boyfriend will never act as if he is single. He will respect you and your role in his life as his girlfriend even if you are not there. When an attractive co-worker or seductive ‘friend’ tries to hit on him, he will politely decline because he respects you. Returning the actions would be unfair and hurtful for you so if your boyfriend is faithful, he will know when to say no.
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7. He makes you feel his support.
Despite the land or sea in between you two, he will always make you feel like he is right there beside you, cheering you on. If you have a major exam, he will give you time to review without interruptions and even send you a supportive message. When you are having a bad day, he will be there to call you while you’re having coffee alone and make you feel happier despite him not being physically there. He will let you know that he cares, another sign to keep a note of to determine if you have a faithful boyfriend.
8. He updates you on important things.
He does not have to necessarily message you every time he is going to do something, but he never forgets to tell you the important things. Whether he is going on a business trip with his co-workers or some girl tried to hit on him on the subway, he won’t hide it from you. He loves telling you about his day and feels that by doing this, you would not feel so far away from each other! Another thing to check off the faithful boyfriend list.
9. He makes effort to stay connected at all times.
Again, he does not have to call and message you every single hour, that is a needy and paranoid boyfriend, not a faithful one, but he stays connected to you whether by phone or by his love for you. Sometimes in this kind of relationship, couples make the mistake of allowing each other too much personal time. Because two people trust each other, they allow their partners to take time with their work or whatever important thing they are doing — they wouldn’t mind. This is not entirely a bad thing but if this is repeated through time, eventually, the couple will drift farther away from each other, physically and emotionally. That is why a faithful boyfriend will always try to stay connected.
10. He never fails to make you feel loved.
The most important thing to know if your boyfriend is faithful to you is that he never fails to make you feel loved. He does not need to send you roses every week, he does not need to call you every hour, he does not need to shower you with gifts or whatnot. All you need is a simple good morning text, a sweet ‘I love you’, a thoughtful ‘Take care’, and a longing goodnight and ‘I miss you’ to make you feel like you are the most beloved girl in the world.
Not every person is built for a long-distance relationship. Most of the time, couples don’t work out because they either grow apart or realize that their relationship was not really strong enough to withstand the distance. But if you and your partner arm yourselves with good communication, loads of commitment, and a heap load of faith for each other, then there is no doubt that everything will be alright in the end. Nothing, not even distance can tear two hearts passionately fighting to be one.
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I have a LDR boyfriend and we have been together for 5 months and we spend a lot of time of time together on the phone and all of a sudden he doesn’t have internet for a while and later on he starts telling me he likes another girl there… What do I do
Thanks for this. Put my mind at ease. My fiance is 18 miles away and has a very unsocial work schedule. Combined with the current situation ie Covid19 it’s not been easy but we’ve been together for 5yrs and despite the bad patches we’ve always been there for each other. I love him madly and I know he’s faithful. I’m so lucky.
This is a very good article but scared me to death. I believe i already know the answers since I can’t fully say any of those are our circumstances. I am so afraid to lose him or be without him that I can’t let go..even though I know what is going on. I am just a mess!
hello thank you for the information I am see my newly lis boyfriend is really trying inspite of his hectic working hour and yes he was supposed to travel the long way to spend time with me during to the epidemic he has promised as soon as it’s over e will be in the first plan out
thank you
Woow thank you for this am really Happy because am in a very long distance relationship. But my boyfriend almost does all of that and i the same which makes me feel that we are on the right track
I have been dating dis guy for two years nd he travelled witout telling me and later i found out frm his frnd and since then he hardly calls or reply ma chart and also there is another guy dat wanted to help me fix my relationship after i complained to him,later me nd my guy argued nd i broke up wit him so i told this other guy and he told me that he loves me and i knw that he truly does bt dat my guy came bk and appologise to me bt stil he hardly calls
pls i need advice
My boyfriend and i are ldr, when we first met, we would chat for hours and hours. He would often tell me that he can’t sleep because hes thinking about me. He also told me that he often dream about me and him getting married. But now that we’ve been together for quite a time, he would always tell me that he needs to go because he really needs to go to school. Also they have a company and would tell me that he needs to go help his dad from their company. Should I be worried?
My boyfriend got his ex girlfriend pregnant and claim he loves me dat it a mistake buh am confused …… Plz i need advice
He can’t claim that he loves you and went ahead to sleep wit his ex.
If he truly loved u,u would ve been okay for him
My advice find someone new . If he really loved you he would not hurt you and cheat. There’s someone out there that will really love you and not cheat
Been so helpful…Me n my lover are 3 oceans apart but we always talk in and out….This article makes me feel we can make it to the day he will come back..
Your suspicions might be true
Get the peace of mind you deserve!
I need assistance, I met a. Guy online n we met for the first time after 4 yrs of communication…he told me that he was seeing someone…a few days later he started telling me how much he loves me n wants to visit my home as we about 430 kilos away from each other…could this bring something crus or just a fling
Sadly it come just be a fling if he was already seeing someone
I have a LDR boyfriend and he study law, He’s busy if it’s his exam..we only talk once or twice if it’s his exam because he’s busy..And in normal days, after his school, he chat me.. if he has a few time, he will grab it and talk to me..We’re already 5 months..we have 2 hours and 30 mins time gap And I think our relationship is strong, He respects me everytime..When we argue, He’s the one who backs off and he will give me time to cool off and later on we will both explain our side..and when I read this article, this just made me so feel positive about our relationship. His family and friends know about us so I have nothing to worry about
We are LDR ,he is not a talker, but sometimes, if he didnt chat for a whole day, i feel bothered.But when we argue about it, he patiently explain everything to me, all the things im worried about, he answer it all patiently,and he always said “Even i dont keep in touch to u in a day, please dont think bad of me, bcs im not doing something here that might hurt u,im just tired from work” i dont know if our relationship will work..But i do love him..
This article was very helpful!
Hi thank you for this post.. it makes ke feel relieved that my ldr bf is faithful to me despites if his hectic scheds at work he always makea time to make me feel loved always.. more power!
Hello LG!
Thank you for reading this article and it makes me happy that it helped you gain reassurance. More power to you and your boyfriend! 🙂
Carisha Yabora
I can feel what u feeling. My ldr bf /to be husband is working his ass of to have alotta money so when he comes to my country he has money for when we go out. It’s gunna be our firsts time seeing each other in person. Trust me if he didn’t love me why would work/me be a priority?