Most relationships nowadays don’t last not because of the absence of love but because of one’s inability to stay loyal and true to the commitment they made with their partner. It’s a known fact that cheating is one of the top reasons why couples break up and the tragic part is, most guys who have been victims of this sad fate vowed to never believe in love again.
Ask around and many will agree that being cheated on by someone they have dearly loved is the most heartbreaking ending that anyone can ever experience.
While people learn their lessons the hard way, it doesn’t mean that you have to stop believing that someone out there can love you deeply and faithfully – especially if you’re already in a relationship. Instead of being scared to trust your partner, it’s always better to, first of all, be informed.
Let this article help you see the signs if your girlfriend is faithful, and not cheating on you.
1. She always wants to talk and just hang out.
Like every single day – and no matter how many times you talk about the same things over and over again, she’ll show an unending enthusiasm and interest in even the most mundane and ordinary topics you can think of.
She’ll never get tired of being with you, exploring places and just having a great time.
2. She introduces you to her friends and family.
You’re a part of her family and you know a lot about her social circle, and she’s always excited and delighted to introduce you to everyone she knows.
She’ll never keep you or your relationship a secret because she thinks that having you in her life is something to be proud of.
3. You’re all over her social media account.
While some girls are not really into posting their love life online, others find it sweet and romantic to express their love and affection through their social media status – and there’s nothing wrong with it.
If you’re all over her social media account pages almost every day, then you’re sure that she’s into you and she’s not afraid to tell the world that.
4. She tries to impress you almost all the time.
She always tries to show you the best and most special parts about her – not that she has to, because you already know that she’s amazing and extraordinary.
Nonetheless, she always wants to do or show something just to impress you. Make sure you appreciate this effort and recognize her actions.
5. She trusts you with her deepest secrets.
You’re not only her lover but also her best friend. If she is confident to talk with you about her deepest and most intimate thoughts, it means that she thinks of you as someone important and worthy of her trust.
In other words, it is an act of opening herself to you, showing how vulnerable she is because she believes that, just like how you can trust her, she can trust you, too.
6. She’s constantly and consistently honest.
She’s never lied about the things that mattered, especially about anything that concerns your relationship – even if it’s something that can hurt both of you.
A relationship built and supported by lies can never last – and she knows that.
7. The way she looks at you makes your heart melt.
It doesn’t have to be words – and she doesn’t even have to do anything. The way she looks at you will tell you that you are the love of her life, and no one else.
Being the windows to the soul, the eyes cannot lie and if ever you’re starting to doubt her, just look at her and you’ll find your answer.
8. She focuses on your relationship first.
She knows her priorities and she will always put you first. In other words, she will not do anything and make any decision that could destroy what you have. She knows that her family and her career may be important, but she also believes that you and your relationship deserve the same recognition.
You’re not just a part of her romantic life but a constant and essential part of her every day. No matter how busy she is, she’ll always find time for you.
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9. She’s there even if you’re at your worst.
One of the tests of true love is if someone is still there for you even if you’re at your worst. If you girlfriend is there at your lowest point, supporting and loving you, even if it means hurting herself in the process, then you’re the luckiest person in the world.
She’d rather be with you at your darkest times than be somewhere else bright and sunny. She’ll never leave your side even if she can easily find happiness with someone less damaged and more optimistic. She’ll always accept you at your worst and help you heal instead of finding someone “better”.
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10. She does her part – and she does it well.
As your girlfriend, she knows her role in the relationship and she’ll do everything to do her part not because she thinks it’s her obligation but because she wants to, genuinely and sincerely.
Being in a relationship means a lot to her and she’ll be there for you not just as a lover, not just as a friend but as a faithful and loyal partner for life.
11. You’ll hear random I Love You’s every day.
And sometimes you won’t hear them in words but through her actions. You’ll hear and feel random I Love You’s at the most unexpected moments, in the most unexpected places. More importantly, you’ll feel her love and care for you when you need it the most.
The fear of getting hurt and having your heart broken because of infidelity and unfaithfulness can be paralyzing and can convince you never to trust someone ever again. However, you have to give yourself a second chance and have a little faith in true love.
You have to believe that you are with someone different, someone more extraordinary, and someone who will do everything just to make you feel loved, every day of your life.
Photo by Leah Kelley