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Most relationships nowadays don’t last not because of the absence of love but because of one’s inability to stay loyal and true to the commitment they made with their partner. It’s a known fact that cheating is one of the top reasons why couples break up and the tragic part is, most guys who have been victims of this sad fate vowed to never believe in love again.
Ask around and many will agree that being cheated on by someone they have dearly loved is the most heartbreaking ending that anyone can ever experience.
While people learn their lessons the hard way, it doesn’t mean that you have to stop believing that someone out there can love you deeply and faithfully – especially if you’re already in a relationship. Instead of being scared to trust your partner, it’s always better to, first of all, be informed.
Let this article help you see the signs if your girlfriend is faithful, and not cheating on you.
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1. She always wants to talk and just hang out.
Like every single day – and no matter how many times you talk about the same things over and over again, she’ll show an unending enthusiasm and interest in even the most mundane and ordinary topics you can think of.
She’ll never get tired of being with you, exploring places and just having a great time.
2. She introduces you to her friends and family.
You’re a part of her family and you know a lot about her social circle, and she’s always excited and delighted to introduce you to everyone she knows.
She’ll never keep you or your relationship a secret because she thinks that having you in her life is something to be proud of.
While some girls are not really into posting their love life online, others find it sweet and romantic to express their love and affection through their social media status – and there’s nothing wrong with it.
If you’re all over her social media account pages almost every day, then you’re sure that she’s into you and she’s not afraid to tell the world that.
4. She tries to impress you almost all the time.
She always tries to show you the best and most special parts about her – not that she has to because you already know that she’s amazing and extraordinary.
Nonetheless, she always wants to do or show something just to impress you. Make sure you appreciate this effort and recognize her actions.
5. She trusts you with her deepest secrets.
You’re not only her lover but also her best friend. If she is confident to talk with you about her deepest and most intimate thoughts, it means that she thinks of you as someone important and worthy of her trust.
In other words, it is an act of opening herself to you, showing how vulnerable she is because she believes that, just like how you can trust her, she can trust you, too.
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6. She’s constantly and consistently honest.
She’s never lied about the things that mattered, especially about anything that concerns your relationship – even if it’s something that can hurt both of you.
A relationship built and supported by lies can never last – and she knows that.
7. The way she looks at you makes your heart melt.
It doesn’t have to be words – and she doesn’t even have to do anything. The way she looks at you will tell you that you are the love of her life, and no one else.
Being the windows to the soul, the eyes cannot lie and if ever you’re starting to doubt her, just look at her and you’ll find your answer.
8. She focuses on your relationship first.
She knows her priorities and she will always put you first. In other words, she will not do anything and make any decision that could destroy what you have. She knows that her family and her career may be important, but she also believes that you and your relationship deserve the same recognition.
You’re not just a part of her romantic life but a constant and essential part of her every day. No matter how busy she is, she’ll always find time for you.
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9. She’s there even if you’re at your worst.
One of the tests of true love is if someone is still there for you even if you’re at your worst. If your girlfriend is there at your lowest point, supporting and loving you, even if it means hurting herself in the process, then you’re the luckiest person in the world.
She’d rather be with you at your darkest times than be somewhere else bright and sunny. She’ll never leave your side even if she can easily find happiness with someone less damaged and more optimistic. She’ll always accept you at your worst and help you heal instead of finding someone “better”.
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10. She does her part – and she does it well.
As your girlfriend, she knows her role in the relationship and she’ll do everything to do her part not because she thinks it’s her obligation but because she wants to, genuinely and sincerely.
Being in a relationship means a lot to her and she’ll be there for you not just as a lover, not just as a friend but as a faithful and loyal partner for life.
11. You’ll hear random I Love You’s every day.
And sometimes you won’t hear them in words but through her actions. You’ll hear and feel random I Love You’s at the most unexpected moments, in the most unexpected places. More importantly, you’ll feel her love and care for you when you need it the most.
The fear of getting hurt and having your heart broken because of infidelity and unfaithfulness can be paralyzing and can convince you never to trust someone ever again. However, you have to give yourself a second chance and have a little faith in true love.
You have to believe that you are with someone different, someone more extraordinary, and someone who will do everything just to make you feel loved, every day of your life.
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Chinese Translation: 11个迹象表明你的女朋友是忠实的，没有欺骗你
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in a situation,where u have forsaken all others and decided to stick with one particular person and that person still does not see it that way,he believes u still have something with ur ex while u don’t what will u do in that case
I dated a girl for 4years she stays with me she was the best but suddenly she cheated on me with a guy and I forgive her we where back again and she also did the same thing telling me that because I have not gotten married to her she have been cheating on me with this guy for 3years our last quarrel lasted for 4months and I was about letting the relationship go and she came to apologise and I forgive her after 2weeks she still cheated on me with the same guy and now it’s worst she don’t give me attention any more am sure her elder sister is the one spoiling her
Do you know what you are? A he-goat. I’m sorry bruv
You were supposed to let her go the first time she cheated..be man.
I love my girlfriend she is respectful,nice,beautiful,smart etc.but I have trust issues and I moving from my school I have thoughts thinking she is going to leave me but at the same time I feel like she won’t leave me.what should I do
Long distances are always trouble. Even for those who are heavily in love, the fact is that once you’re away from someone long enough/consistent enough, it’s easier to generate feelings for others & it’s even easier to do something and get away with it. That does not mean long distances are impossible because they are, but I’ve seen enough men and women who were dating someone far away do some shady sh*t and never tell their partner. Talk to her and see what she says, a lot of answers can foreshadow the future.
I started dating this girl October last year.
We were really into each other texting ourselves everyday calling all the time then she did something terrible, cheating on me with some guy, and she told me and I forgave her thinking it was a mistake. The next 2 weeks after trying to get us back she did it again and she told me. I did the manly thing by confronting the guy, I was shocked Why my girlfriend denied to have a boyfriend when the guy asked her, still I forgave her we are dating, she doesn’t put my pics on social media or anything, she is constantly in this mood where she gets bored always telling me she feels sleepy not wanting to talk, we have had sex most of the time but I realize she isn’t into me like I thought although it took me a while to figure it out. I just want to know if I’m right to think like this, if breaking up is the right call.
Dude, out of all these situations I’m reading here, yours is the most obvious. Leave now. I know what it feels like to be with someone you believe is so right for you that you want no one else but the fact of the matter is she doesn’t feel even remotely the same and you’re just going to end up hurt again. You don’t deserve that, man. Find yourself someone who will love you like you love them.
Hi, my girlfriend broke up with me 1 month ago and break up occurred due to my fault only but I do apologised her for long time she is telling I will listen what my parents say and she have changed her number and new phone and last week I went with my friend to met her and when I saw her I can see her makeup was bright and I asked her phone number she refused to give to me and she have asked her friends to block me but she is not in social media when we are in relationship for 3 years. My mind says she will be another relationship ? But our parents know our relationship and her parents said they don’t need me anymore
I have a lovely relationship and most of the things you said I have seen in her but a few days ago we were talking about nasty stuff that turns us on like a threesome our having sex with an other couple ( just playing a game we would never do this stuff ) and then she said having sex with an other guy when your not home . I know she loves me but the thing she said really worried me
Brothers
Let me tell you what happens in Islam
There is no fear of infidelity because both of the partners give their souls to Creator of this world
She starts protecting herself from other by wearing hijab avoiding handshakes and non essential stuff
She daily medidates and exercise in Namaz (Muslim prayer)
Her major priority becomes her husband because Allah said
If there is anyone that a women should obey before his creator is her husband
Allah said in Quran
She starts fasting so if she stops doing sins and fear that her God will not forgive her if she ever think any wrong stuff about other man.
You go to vacation in Saudia ( HOME OF CREATER) once in year to revive your bielefs and religions
Brothers trust me I can give you 100 percent working formula of your marriage based on Best religion in which women has zero infidelity rate
Ahmed iftkhar
Ok so, I love my girlfriend, but it’s like everytime we talk or something she’s always talking about anon, and she’s making friends with new guys. And I’m like harcore in love with her but it feels like she never loves me the same
Being in love is quite different from being faithful, some girls can love you and still cheat on you for reasons best known to them.
People please help;
Hi is this a big deal and what do I do? Situation my girlfriend who currently lives with me has complete utter control. I pay for everything in her life and she gets to pay down debt. Granted I am retired and have been for four years. I have some debt and I do well enough to not really worry about money. Besides the point I have discovered that my girlfriend went to dinner st somebody house who was an ex couple lovers. She told me about the dinner and she never told me that they were ex-lovers. She has told me before that she won’t tell me about any of her ex-lovers. She has a commitment not and she says her past is her past. With all that said I found out that she went over to their house and had dinner. She insists she is faithful and integrity means everything to her as she says. What do I do is this all mine to carry and how do I approach this without making her wrong and do I approach this at all.
If u feel it to your core that she has cheated, you already no the truth!!….
How to find out?! Simple, don’t blame her or ask her if she is……as the answer would be, me no don’t be stupid, if u want the truth just simply talk about similar situations and ask her what she thinks, they love to have their say, until you blame, then they clam up and you get nowhere. Women control everything!!! Making men want them and letting them no they do is there power…hope all is well for u, and my thoughts help u out.
It sounds to me like she is either playing games with you to exploit your suspicions and insecurities, or your own suspicions have generated FEAR: False Evidence Appearing Real.
If you don’t trust her it’s time face facts and answer hard questions that only you can. “Do I love this girl enough for o work through this”?
“What can she do to assure me”?
FaceTime is tough, next time ask her to turn the phone around so you can see the room. If nobody is there, you’re an ass though.
Hello! I’d like to ask men some questions. Do you appreciate women’s fidelity? If you are asked to make a rating of the female traites that you value where would you place fidelity? If you know your girl is faithful how do you show that you appreciate that?
Thank you)
Speaking for myself, Fidelity is very important to me, top 3 important traits for me(the other two being honesty and trustworthiness). If my girl is faithful, I would positively reinforce that by spending more time with her, do fun activities together(Mario Kart FTW), and just constantly show that I really appreciate her ability to remain faithful to me. Tl;dr:- Faithfulness is extremely important for me.
Wow never thought id be here explaining this to the world about my love life, But like im to the point to where i dont know if i can trust any girl anymore. No matter how faithful she may seem to act. I’ve been with girls that do the social media stuff, the caring and loving and all of the above. And to be completly honest with myself. I feel like she tells me what i want to hear just to avoid fights and arguments down the road. Like she shows me off and tells me she loves me and screenshots my snaps (snapchat). But i mean she does it all and when i facetime her i feel like she still is hinding something and we talk about it all the time and being faithful and being there like a couple should but she gives me these vibes, to where ill notice her looking off into the distance of the part of the room shes in and tell me shes alone and wouldnt want to mess up what we have but she will sometimes make face gestures like shes talking to someone else and ill catch it and ill tell her whos there?? Or wyd?? And she’ll be like, no one babe or nothing why?. And i just love this girl with all my heart and i tell her and show her off everyday. And i feel like she doesnt feel the same like i do and i tell her all the time that its bothering me and she tells me shes faithful as it can get. But to be honest i really dont believe her still.
What should i do? Help me. Pleeease.
Man the things that have happened in the last 2 months has been a nightmare. Yet am still here with her. When u love someone it makes u blind. You only want to hear the things that make you happy. If she says she loves you then your happy yer. I think she has been cheating on me. Lies after lies. Yet I haven’t got the proof I need but there is enough there for me to lose all trust. I’ve been with her since we were 19. Have 2 kids together. We’re only 30 this year and my daughter is 10′ work that one out. Life’s hard and it’s not easy to find someone else. Put the foot down if she loves you she will care. If she doesn’t be men walk away to cry by yourself. Play smarter why force something out of nothing. Take it day by day until you find someone that u deserve.
My relationship is confusing like she says she loves me but then again she brings me down for no reason I admit I’m a jerk to her sometimes but not all the time plus she hides things from me and IDK what to do please help me
I recently found out my girlfriend had her ex on Snapchat. She also had a guy a specifically told her to delete off Snapchat because he was hitting on her. She has multiple guy friends and when I confronted her about her snapchat friends she said it wasn’t them, they were different people. But later I found out it was indeed them and she had no words to say. Instead she went on Instagram and followed her ex there too. She also liked one of his pictures. When I asked why she did this she said that she was merely trying to get my attention so I can text her back. I gave her a second chance and I’m not sure if it was the right decision or not. I need advice ASAP please.
U too involved. Get off her social media. A picture like is not real. Anybody can like a pic. My girl got tens of thousands of followers on her page. I don’t give a f**k. Guess who gets the keys to her place, the keys to her car, the keys to everything of hers, me. Guys even like pics of her dog but guess who the dog comes to. Me. I don’t think for one second about who she likes or who she follows. Don’t be insecure or u will make things that bother you turn into reality.
If you tell her you won’t stand for it anymore and force her to acknowledge the fact that it upsets you(without acting insecure, she will have no choice but to knock it off. I’m not a feminist in any way, but from my experience, when a women does stuff like that, especially in your scenario, it’s not gonna turn out good if you don’t put your foot down hard.
Best of luck man.
No. She’s definitely not much in love with you. She has just some sort of attraction towards u. You know u can’t love two people at the same time. She’s tryna get closer to her ex. And it makes it sure that she’s not much into you. Before she hurts you, leave her and move on. I know it’s really hard to. But if you do it now, you’ll be less hurt than later.
Bro, this might sound harsh but if shes trying her hardest to contact her ex and your having to find it out this way your better looking for someone else and ditching this girl i know its hard i had to do it myself but id rather break up than get cheated on again
Ima be straight up with you man …..Honeslty im having the same problem and it seems as if my girl is on edge and that she makes everything so dramatic and complicated yet that’s woman but she is so sketchy and I hate that because she always talking about other guys and I’m sitting over like hello and it doesn’t make sense how she has so many “guy friends” and why she does yet I hate the way they treat her and it makes me grind my teeth but you need to have a deep conversation and if she can’t own up to your standards cut her off because your probably and nice guy and you’d deserve better at that point …lmao I hoped this help
There is so much immaturity present on both sides that I am assuming that you two are still in high school and also no longer together. You TOLD her to delete people? Secret Snap Chat connections? She uses that crap to converse with exes, why’s and Zeroes in secret? You don’t trust her and she continues to do the things you say are harmful to the relationship without any hint of wanting to stop, so she lies and sneaks (poorly)?
There is ZERO trust here, ZERO respect for each other, ZERO maturity in working to resolve (immature) issues between the two of you and since you can’t make headway in resolving them, you look for anonymous people who you have no reason to believe have relationship skills any better than your own, who only know the small piece of what I am sure is biased information that reflects your truth (no doubt altered to make you the great guy and her the one who is in the wrong).
Trolling for random yahoo’s online to hopefully take your side and offer the advice you want your girlfriend to follow in a way she is manipulated to feel is unbiased and reasonable because others say the same as you in who is wrong and what SHE needs to do to fix it is such an adolescent tactic that screams “YOU ARE NOT IN AN ADULT RELATIONSHIP” and aren’t ready to accept constructive and adult advice to do the right thing here. She isn’t ready to be a kept woman at her young age and you’re not ready to be a man that treats a woman with respect yet.
Here’s a touch of what the right way looks like. You don’t tell her to do ANYTHING. You’re not her dad and she’s not 10. A woman committed to a man chooses not to stray and to respect her man. She doesn’t “behave” because she’s TOLD to by a clueless boyfriend.
Just be a kid. Have fun dating, getting to know how to function in a respectful way with females and grow from bad experiences. Otherwise you’re in for a long hard road of failed relationships and realities that kick a fat dent in your head.
I really hope that I manage to find this kind of love someday soon.
When I love a woman, I’m very much like this, but I seem to never find the right woman that will love me as I love her.
I am doing all these things for her, but she is not doing anything. I am simply confused does she really loves me or not. I can’t survive without her, so always try to make her understand how much I love her. I am ready for the commitment but she asked me to wait. Please say something what should I do.
Love can be confusing sometimes. What you want might not be what you get but it would have all started well. If you notice that the love you show is not reciprocated, then you have to tell yourself the truth that her love for you is “questionable”, not that it does not exist. Maybe you ain’t doing something right or doing something at all. But all in all, how I handle such feelings of uncertainty is remind myself that I am not the type of guy that if we break up, I can’t find someone better (regardless of if it is true or not at that moment). Having that in mind also stops you from cheating because the girls will always be there, whether you are ready or not. So, do not belittle yourself for someone that might not appreciate you the way you should be. What you need to do is focus on making more money than you have right now, regardless of if you have a lot or not enough. Your focus is too much on love. Split it up and your eyes and mind will be clearer.
well said buddy, we know this but sometime we also need some words to get relief. I am agree that if girl is bothering with her complicated behaviour or not geting same treatment back then just think something else to make your life better, convert that negative to energy to work on your dream or ambition so one day your parents will proud on you and who knows world will know you. So if someone dont feel the importance for your feeling doesnt matter, you are more than that take this chance and stop thinking about girl and focus on your girl. I assure you that on this way you have so many good people will come, so many experiences and you will realize your power. So stop focussing on what is wrong just focus on what is good for you.
Hai Shaun,
I would honestly back off. Let her process her feelings. Let her miss you. You’ve done your part.
Back off, give her space. While you do this, focus on yourself.
For real I 100% agree
Just wanted to say this. As someone who has been loved. When your partner Loves you Truly, YOU WILL JUST KNOW. There won’t be any confusion or doubt.
Completely agree, I did this for a whole month and I came back, turns out she missed me a lot and even though for her it is hard to say ‘I love you’ since she has never been in a real relationship and is not fully ready, in the end she does have strong feelings but it was my overthinking that made me doubt.
Do as she told you because forced love is not love , it may break something that can make you to be in love with her up to the end of your life so relax and wait for her
It would be interesting to know if there is still a relationship to comment on, or if the red flags leading to the obvious were as they appeared to be. If not, I imagine the first thing you can confirm is that you could in fact survive without her. If something doesn’t feel right, then it’s not right and needs to be either worked out, or accepted as an irreconcilable difference. Especially when one gives a hard line where you are given the options of “take it or leave it”.
Agreed ( take your time to think first and then make your decision based on whether it feels right for you or not
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