Has someone caught your eyes lately? Do you get insomnia thinking about that person all night and spend the whole day daydreaming about your first date? You probably can’t focus at school or work because that person keeps on popping up in your mind. The problem is, you’re not sure if all these distractions are worth it since that person may not feel the same towards you.
Falling for someone could cause you headaches—not just heartaches—especially if your crush doesn’t even know you exist. You feel butterflies in your stomach whenever your paths cross, but s/he doesn’t even throw you a single glance. So frustrating and disheartening, right?
Instead of waiting for nothing, why not try to find out if there could be a chance for your crush to like you. However, I’m not saying you confess your feelings or make it obvious to that person because it might cause him/her to repel you instead. Hmm.. maybe you could help him/her a bit to notice you.
10 Smart Ways to Get Your Crush Notice You
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10 Smart Ways to Get Your Crush Notice You
Here are 10 smart ways to do it:
1. Be a head-turner.
Physical appearance is not everything to look at when you like someone. However, you and I know that it’s the first thing that catches humans’ attention. That’s why, if you want your crush to notice you, being physically attractive can be the first step.
You don’t need to wear sexy clothes, bulky accessories, a lot of makeup (for girls), and expensive shoes. Simplicity makes a good impression, so don’t overdo it. What you need to do is put your best foot forward by being presentable, neat, and accentuating your assets.
An example could be letting your hair down if you got that long, beautiful hair (for girls). Wearing red is also attractive, especially if you’re fair-skinned.
2. Smell irresistible.
You don’t have to look like Zac Efron or Elle Fanning to be attractive. Your scent can play a big role in capturing the attention of your crush. Wear your favorite perfume or cologne so you will smell fresh and clean.
However, make sure that your cologne or perfume’s scent is not too strong because it can annoy the people around you, including the person you like.
3. Always wear a smile.
In this world full of stress and pressures, a bright disposition can be an attractive asset. People are drawn to those who have a positive outlook in life despite negative circumstances—and the best way to show that is through a constant smile.
Whenever you are down and then someone smiles at you, you feel better, right? And you get that grateful feeling towards that person. So, who knows? Smiling at your crush might actually help him/her develop that friendly feeling for you—that’s a good start.
4. Excel at something to impress.
Physical attractiveness is not everything. There should be something more about you than meets the eye. Therefore, find out what you are good at and strive to excel at it. This will make a good impression of how interesting you are as a person.
For instance, if you are good at painting, why not join or have your own exhibit? Or if you play instruments, you can be part of a band or perform in events. You can also attend workshops that can help you enhance your talents or skills.
5. Be friends with him/her.
Friendship is the best foundation for a good relationship. Therefore, if you wish to end up with your crush, do yourself a favor by making friends with that person. This will not only help you get noticed, but you will also have a good chance of knowing him/her in a better way.
To be friends with your crush, you should have the guts to say “hello”, offer some help if needed, or be part of the same group or organization. Act naturally as much as possible to avoid being obvious.
6. Find out his/her interests.
If you want to start a smart conversation with your crush, you need to find out what s/he is into. You might even discover that you have the same interests. When you talk about something you have in common, it creates connection and interest in each other.
This will also help you avoid topics that s/he does not like. Talking about this stuff will bore them, and it will create an impression that you are a boring companion.
7. Show sincere concern and interest in the person.
If you want your crush to be interested in you, you need to show that you have genuine care for him/her as well. When s/he talks, listen intently and give appropriate reactions. Asking questions about what s/he talks about gives the impression that you are really interested.
When talking to each other, put your cellphone in your bag or pocket to avoid distraction. Ensure your eyes do not wander around but maintain eye contact with him/her for undivided attention.
8. Give praises and appreciation.
Be generous in giving appreciation to your crush. Appreciate him/her even in small things. This will make the person feel that s/he has value. In return, s/he will feel appreciative and thankful towards you as well.
Say good remarks on how your crush looks (but please don’t overemphasize it, for you will be obvious). Thank him or her for little things as well.
9. Play mysterious.
Don’t throw yourself at his/her feet. Don’t share anything about yourself unless s/he asks you to. Divulging everything about you will remove the thrill of the getting-to-know stage, and s/he might think you’re too eager to disclose yourself to him/her.
Also, avoid posting too personal thoughts and feelings on social media. Your crush and everyone else would think your life is an open book.
10. Don’t show you’re head-over-heels.
It is a turn-off for most people when they find out that someone likes them so much—especially if that person does stupid stuff already just to get noticed. Once the person you like finds out you got a big crush on him/her, s/he might lose respect for you.
For this reason, keep your cool, especially if you are a lady, because guys don’t like easy-to-get girls. So, be careful with your actions.
Caution
If you’re still a student, though, I suggest you focus on your studies first. Having a crush can be fun and may even inspire you to do better at school. However, if you take it too seriously, you might only get hurt, and it will affect your grades and performance. That would be awful.
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I love dis guy and he also loves me but he his to shy to tell me but I don’t know if he likes me too but he usually disturb me and sometimes talk..
What should I do now ☺️
So I really like this guy, he and I are very good friends, we talk all the time and we have some classes together, he is also my brother’s friend. I have liked this guy seats 7 great and know I´m in 10. He and I are still good friends. He asks me who I like and I don´t know what to say and I ask him why he wants to know who I like and he always tells me that he does not know he just wants to know. It just really hard to see if he likes me or not. Sometimes I want to send him an email saying ¨It´s has always been you, you will know what this means when the time comes¨. I just don´t know what to do, I want to tell him, I just don´t want to rude our friendship that we have right now, but I relly want to tell him.
Some advice, please.
To be honest… Just do it already. You would never know if he is also doing the same.
Just do it!
I like this boy at school and he came in the door at school right when I was about to go to first period and as he went behind me I felt something like a hand on the back of my thigh and it was him! I didn’t know how to react so I just stood still before I left it is hard because I have liked him since last year and I don’t know if he likes me back!
I have been crushing on this guy for 2 years and he said he likes me but he never answers my txts Idk what to do. <3
He might be playing hard-to-get, so you might want to try to play the same game (if you know what I mean). Also, if he said it, he might be too nervous to say the wrong thing. Instead of texting, try to have a real conversation and see if he’ll keep the convo going. Hope this helps! 🙂
i hv like so many crushes
I think this helped lot I am already friends with my crush but I don’t know his best interests I mean I know he works real hard
Same apply to me
hey guys i need help ok see i like a girl in the class alot so yea we are best frends of each other almost so yea i tried a idea some how it worked i switched to my alt account messaged her we are frends in alt accounts so i asked her do u have a crush on some one she said yes and unfortunately the name that she said was not my name
I love my classmate and I don’t know if he does the same
but the problem is that he loved my best friend and he knows that she doesn’t love him
I am really shy and in our school, it’s not good to tell someone that you love him
+ someones say that I am little to love
I am 13 years old
your opinions, please
just go and tell her what your feeling about her before you are late as like me .
Just go to his shop and like ask his help picking out something and try to start a conversation. Don’t get me wrong tho I get jelly knees Everytime I’m around my crush ughhhh.
Wow amazing thanks
Thank you it really helped
1. I feel like myself tbh
2. He finally notices me
3.You helped me show my inner talent :3
bruh if i could use these tips i would but literally, at my school, its wierd to talk to guys or even say hi to themmmmm :((((( idk what to do but ill figure it out soon i hope :((
Wow. I just read it. I can’t wait to see how it works. By the way. Thanks for the tips. I’m looking forward to work these tips out. Like the picture.
Hello please I really need a reply
I have a crush on a guy on my street but I have never spoken to him before. I think he likes me but I’m too shy to even say hello to him each time I pass by his shop. Please what can I do to find out that he truly loves me back 😔
I really can’t stress this enough, if he isn’t making the first move, it doesn’t mean he doesn’t want to!! He is probably shy, like you! Just group to him, introduce yourself, then ask if he wants to go to a movie or something. The key is DONT SHOW YOUR NERVOUS! But don’t be to cocky either. If he rejects you then that’s his loss, you’ll find another guy. So don’t stress it, just go for it!
hello bright,
all you need to do is have faith and be confident! im always scared especially when it comes to boys. good luck!!!
It’s okay stay strong and you will be able to handle anything
I have a crush on a guy on my street as well. Imagine having severe anxiety like me.
Just go to his shop and like ask his help picking out something and try to start a conversation. Don’t get me wrong tho I get jelly knees Everytime I’m around my crush ughhhh.
I have a crush on this boy I have for a year and I have made no progress. I’m a very outgoing person who doesn’t get embarrassed easily but when I’m around him I’m super shy and he’s so out of my league I feel like and I just don’t know what to do I am friends with another boy (I do not like him) and he knows the boy I like b I’m scared he will tell him. My friend knows him bc they are on the same football team and I’m pretty sure he has his number but I’m scared my friend will tell him
There is this guy who I really like… I have liked him for like 4 years without hesitation. He’s so perfect 👌 he is really funny and kind and also can be quite serious tho which is good. He has blonde hair green eyes, really tanned and is older and taller than me, so… 😍 we are kind of like family friends and every time I see him we kinda get closer with friendship. I know he doesn’t like me tho. Because he always spends most of his time with one of my good friends☹️
He has the best lopsided smile that is sooo gorgeous🤩 when ever I see him even if he is in the distance my heart literally starts thumping so fast and hard, when he smiles even if it’s not at me I stop breathing and when he is like near me I’m dead!!🥰😍
I really just needed to tell someone cause yeah!👍😂
This boy I like well I go to school with him and I feel like he doesn’t and wont know that I like him I mean he is the best but I feel like he is too good for me and when he finds out I like him he will just laugh at me.
i am so scared to talk to my crush thanks for the advise i hope it work i never really thought i would like someone
I have a MAJOR crush on this guy and have had for a long time but i know that he doesn’t like me 😭
will he ever look at me?!?
Don’t worry about it. Things only happen once. You can’t change it. I feel really sorry for you.
thanks. what should i do though he likes my best friends sister!(i think) im going to try just be really good friends with him first next time i see him, im trying to look more nice lately and i dont think im doing a bad job! he ticks all the things on my list though, sometimes i cant sleep because im thinking of him too much! any more advice???????
I really enjoyed this and hope to see more by this website in the future. These steps helped me with my relationship with my crush. I also took this test and it told me that I should just go for it and tell him I like him. Thanks for inspiring me.❤️🥀
omg thank you i got a hoodie for his hockey team is that overdoing it
Ah! Same here! Actually multiple people I think like me. They all do similar things that other websites have said. Do they actually like me?!?
Soo I did already try making a conversation with my crush but it just ended up awkward. I wanna be their friend so badly but I don’t wanna seem too eager, either. They’re popular and I’m not, actually his friends make fun of me a lot. But I still desperately wanna be his friend at least…I just don’t wanna seem desperate but I don’t know how! Please…someone help me
I do all these and she still dont see me as what i want her too or atleast notice me
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Im hopless
I am a student of class 10 and i like my neighbour……for now i just want to be her best friend…..what to do?? Please tell…
I have a huge crush had a 10-11 year gap and she’s you know she’s been a bad mood cuz I was starring at her literally and I chat her but she is doesn’t like to chat if there unimportant unless an important saying or anything. What was that mean?
Hi I’m 13 years old ad I’m in year 8. I like this guy called micheal and I sit next to him in science. We arecommend already friends and we laugh and joke around a lot. Hes interested into gaming namely fortnite and said he’d take me to a win but mum says I’m not allowed a play station. What should I do?? Please help
That is sad. Even I’m not allowed a play station. I am also 13.
I don’t complain though. And now I am locked in my house due to Covid-19. So boring
If you have a phone like a newest galaxy or iphone you can play. and even on cromebook, the newst ones. Dont let this be a stop to you and your forever.
thxx..but i like this girl and we have been friends for a while now but l dont know if she likes me. we do talk alot in some classes and she laughs at alot of stuff i say . but im not sure because she found out i like her but nothing really changed but it get akward sometimes and i caught he gazing at me a couple times. what should i do now???
thank you I am only 11 and I have the biggest crush ever this helps me a lot thank you so much
lol same
I’m 2 years older. But I’m also the same.
OMG! I’m 11 and in LOVE with my neighbor who is SOOO cute! 🥰 🥰
Tank u very much……
But am not sure if my crush has notice me yet and is making me sick cause I think about him all the time we are not even friends yet because I first meet him at his sister’s wedding then we meet again on sunday at an event but we did not talk please help me and tell me what to do cause I can’t help it anymore.
Thanks
Dang, I’m really bad at eye contact wpig3nj3kf here we go
Hello! Please give me some advice for my case. I know this boy who is only in my vocal class and is two years older than me. I like or love him, but the first time I actually talked to him after I liked him, I asked a lots of kind of personal questions that I really, really, and I mean really regret asking those. He did answer me though, it’s just that when I talked to him again, the look on his face was kind of or pretty much serious. I’m not sure if he like me or dislikes me, or is it because maybe just maybe he got a bad mark on his theory test??! I mean when I preformed my solo before all of this (of me asking him infinity questions that may be a bit too ridiculous) he gave me two thumbs up. I am so annoyed at myself, and really depressed. What should I do now??! I’m kinda shy-ish to talk to him in front of our class because I didn’t want anyone to think that I like him, so I only talked to him after the class bell. I think I maybe should start saying hi and smiling at him when I see him. I so regret all of the kinda stupid things that I did that I could just die right here seeing him again. (Maybe!) So, I am wondering if I should talk to him again, like should I keep trying??! Or should I just stop??! Please reply as soon as possible! Thank you very much!!
Yeah that same type of thing happened to me and I was just friends for a while then I started acting flirty around her and now we’re dating 😍😍😘
Good luck. 😊 Bruh I’m too scared to talk to my crush too. Why do men have to be so lovable I mean sometimes tho. Just maybe try to act cool or something Idk I’m pretty useless
Me and her are really good friends and she does some of this stuff and I do to and me and her never read this!!
I have a crush and he is in my advisory. He has a heart full of spirt. He knows I exist, but we aren’t even exactly friends. Well, from is POV (assuming…) I try to talk to him at study hall, and he talks back, but I’m not sure if it would work out, especially with my parents. He doesn’t have the best, reputation. (Threw pie at 2020 graduates, breaks school rules *a tad bit*) But something is that and he dedicates his life to sports. I love soccer, and so does he. He also plays base ball. He loves video games, and so do I. I knew him for about since we were in elementary, and he knew me, but he didn’t pay much attention to me.
Uhmmm…. I might think this is too silly but, I really am falling for someone and basically he don’t know I exist😂 even though I do this it won’t work… Or maybe I’m just too ugly..
I think you are wrong about the ugly part. You see you are just perfect being you. But maybe you should talk to him??! I don’t really know, because I’m struggling to get my crush to like me, but the thing is that I might have asked too many questions and I kinda blew it. Just maybe! Whatever! Be confident in you.
I’m falling for someone as well, and she know I exist, but I just want her to know that I am more interested in having a more personal relationship, rather than being just friends, and I’m just really sad because I have supported her in all her previous boyfriend’s, and no she is not a hoe🤣 she’s only had 2. But anyway it’s been 3 years and I have done so much for her and we are real good friends, but I just want it to be more. And it makes me really sad to see her every day at school knowing that, “yeah, I’ll see her at lunch and all” but I won’t get any closer to being something more to her. So I just have to tell somebody, and I was desperate to do something to interest her, and I hope I can. She is literally the most perfect girl I have ever met ❤️ She is perfect in every way possible…not to be creepy, but I will always be there for her as just her guy friend 😭
Hey bro I’m single and take it from me you’ll be alone forever
no Ian You will get that girl i’m sure
dont be like that. There is plany of girls out there trust because there will be a time a cute girl walks up to you and says hi.
Thanks it was really helpful
I would love to talk to my Crush I’m just to shy to even make eye contact with him… I have never been around people that much because I am homeschooled… What should I do If I want to be friends with him but I just don’t know what to say? Be aware I am 15 and he is 16.
Well if you see him get to know him and maybe you just might get some luck 😏
Yh that’s what I did and he asked me out week later
Love, go for it because you’d be surprised of what happens between the two of you just be carefull and when you feel like there is a problem, talk to that person , communication is key to every relationship.
This was totally helpful any other advice. Because my crush is four years older than me and had someone break up with him so what should I do??
You should totally go for him I mean if you have known him for a period of time, just saying. And also if he’s older than you try not to let him think that you are too desperate, then he will think that you are just an annoying little girl, or just too young for him. Trust me, I’ve been through the exact same thing. Good Luck!
“Wearing red is also attractive, especially if you’re fair skinned” Seriously? According to what?
idek there’s just some study they did that found red is attractive on women. I guess if you think about it, red is kinda like the color of “love” so maybe that’s why people associate it with the same thing but i really dont know.
I tried to wear red,and I hang out with a friend and she said I look good :))
Literal science, that’s what
I hope she loves me too, i’m gonna confess my feelings very soon.
Aww, I hope you do!!
I’m 8 and I have a crush who’s also 8 and I’m much too shy to talk to her, it’s sad for me really
I did the stupid thing already by sending him a movie ticket. He sent back with handwritting that he couldn’t go. 🙁 I think he and a group of his friends might think I was a play girl and a type of easy to get.
Same! I mean for me our first encounter I asked him lots or a bit too much questions that were maybe a bit too personal. And now I think I blew it. So sad, because I only knew him for almost two months which is pretty annoying. I suck so much that I think he might think that I am a play girl or a type of easy to get. I’m just really mad at myself. So stuck on the spot, without know if he likes me or not!
Hmmm…every relationship starts with friendship,I guess be friends with him???
Thnaxx buddy but iam a student so what should i have to do?
Well, I would have to say to just consider your teacher as a crush and not move to the next level of having an ongoing relationship… That could have consequences that you may not like in the end.
What if he is a teacher?!? Its hard to do that😥
its not the best thing to like a teacher
i would advise not to do anything but to just regard him as a crush cause things might turn out bad in the end
Just be nice and don’t disrespect that teacher… and obviously you can’t date that teacher so you might have to think about someone else
It is best to not attempt to get a teacher’s attention. If they do give you that type of attention, run away and tell a trusted adult.
It is better to focus on school and crush on people that are around your age.
Hmmm…I recommend someone else who is in your age or close to your age,well,you can be a teacher’s pet 🙂
I hope My Crush Likes Me back 🙂
Same but this girl can only dream since her best friend likes the same guy 🙁
that happened to me too, but then it turns out he didn’t like any of us that way lol
I’m really scared to be around my crush because I’m scared they won’t like me or that I would over do it but it’s messing with my mind because I like him so much. And I am also scared that he might think I’m ugly. Any more advice?🥺
Ya girl I really like my crush to he’s hot I get you. I have advice for you if he acts nervous around you or blushes around you or is constantly staring at you or flirts with you he prob likes you. My crush he does all that except we never talked and we haven’t flirted yet.
Ya I haven’t done it either but i do think about that one a lot I want to do it with him though. If i ever get their.
i realy apprecate this my crush justice i am to scared to talk to him but now i know some ways for him to notice me YAY XD sempie
Is any one a child
Me
Me and my crush likes both me and my friend so that’s why I looked this up
you what
I am kinda if you consider 16 a child
Thanks! Really helpful to me personally
Wow nice one
I think it would help me
Oh my gosh thank you so much!?
You’re welcome. Thanks for reading, Lovelle. =)
Omg this has helped me so much! Xx
Thank you I am in 6th grade and my crush is in 7th but he has only looked at me a couple times I really needed it and I promise I will still pay attention to my studies
Impresive
Mam I want to say my feelings to my crush but to shy to do it . Can you please provide some tips? When is the right time?
She learns boxing in the same club where I do. Please tell….
OMG! DID IT WORK FOR YOU SIS?! I’M SO SHOCKED!