These days, women find it harder to trust men. Although I am not generalizing, you and I are aware that more men than women are caught cheating and playing around with others’ hearts. In many cultures, machismo is still a big thing for men, and for them having many girlfriends is one way of proving it.
Now, is it still possible to get true love from a man? Can you still find a boyfriend or husband who will offer you real, faithful, and lasting love?
Well, there are still a lot of men who can be trusted. You just have to be careful in choosing the person to love. Here are some clear signs that can tell you if your man truly loves you.
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1. He respects you.
If your boyfriend loves you, he would not force you to do things you do not want just to fulfill his desires. Also, he will respect your decisions and not compel you to follow his. He would honor your principles and not cause you to compromise.
2. He is patient and not rude.
A man who truly loves you would be patient and gentle despite you being annoying sometimes. Let us admit that women are so unpredictable and emotional. Sometimes, we become so whiny and noisy. However, if a man truly loves you, he would understand your moments and keep himself from being rude to you. He does his best to remain a gentleman even in your tantrums.
3. He is humble.
In connection to being patient and gentle, a man who loves you will keep his pride down. Love would make him selfless to the point of being humble when you are at the peak of your pride. When in a conflict, even if it is not his fault, he would choose to be the one to say sorry just to patch things up. His fear of losing you is greater than his desire to prove he is right.
4. He is not self-seeking.
A man in love is selfless towards his special girl. Your needs always go first for him. He would work hard to help you in any way. He is willing to sacrifice time, sleep, money, and even everything, just to make life comfortable for you. Moreover, he would not use you to fulfill his own needs.
5. He protects.
Do not be annoyed if your boyfriend doesn’t want you to wear revealing clothes. He knows how the male mind works, so he just wants to keep you from being the center of men’s lust. It is not jealousy. He simply does not want anyone disrespecting or thinking hateful thoughts toward you. Also, do not take for granted his effort to take you home every night. Do not say it is his duty as a boyfriend. He could actually make excuses not to show up at your office.
6. He does not compete with you.
The man who loves you would never compete with you. He would not get insecure just because you earn much more or you have more achievements than him. It is natural for men to be competitive, but when it comes to you, he is selfless. He celebrates with you in your ups and would encourage you to reach for your dreams. You are not a threat to him, but rather an inspiration to work hard for his own goals.
7. He is sensitive to your feelings.
If your boyfriend loves you, he would be careful not to do anything that might upset or hurt you. He would always consider how you feel. Therefore, when making major decisions, he would always ask for your opinion. He would do his best to stop doing what you dislike such as vices because he cannot afford to disappoint and cause you headaches.
8. He would not hurt or abuse you in any way.
If he loves you, he would never abuse you physically, emotionally, psychologically, or sexually. No matter how he gets irritated with you, he would never dare to hurt you physically nor let out offensive words. He wants to protect you from any harm, so he would do his best not to be the cause of it.
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9. He runs away from temptations.
Men are visual beings. It is normal for them to get attracted to beautiful and sexy women. However, if your man truly loves you, he would not go beyond appreciating beauty. When given the chance to flirt and hook up with an irresistible lady, he would run away from it. He makes determined efforts to stay away from temptations. He eliminates any possibility of hurting you.
10. He proudly introduces you to his family and friends.
One of the indications that a man is serious with you is when he lets you into his world. He introduces you to his family and closest friends. Aside from being proud of having you as his girlfriend, this is also a sign that his intentions with you are pure. He really wants you to be part of his life for good.
11. He does not stop pursuing you even after being together for a long time.
Many men stop being sweet once they get the ‘yes’ of their special girl. However, true love would keep your boyfriend from pursuing you even after the courtship stage. He keeps and even doubles his effort to serve and make you feel special. This is because he does things not to impress you, but because he wants you to experience his love.
Do not be blinded
It is only you who can determine whether your man loves you or not. Do not try to deny things if you can sense that he is just playing around. If you cannot see these signs, then maybe it is time to open your eyes to the possibility that your boyfriend does not really love you. You need to assess your relationship better.
If he is not the one for you, do not lose hope that someday you will be truly loved. There are still a lot of trustworthy men out there who are also looking for their true love.
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Chinese Translation: 11个男人的真爱信号
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Eating unhealthy food results in transforming our physical bodies fat,but on the contrary we need to learn to make our heart fatter and fill our hearts with kindness,care,selfless,love and other qualities that will cause us to attain these qualities when we truly love someone.The problem we search for this true love more than often in all the wrong places and in things that are tangible,when we should prioritize love first then the rest shall be spontaneous with a little effort hoping for the best in the right directions.
That’s beautiful and so true!
My girl friend stays away in another province Morobe, one of 22 provinces in Papua New Guinea. While I am studying here at the University of Papua New Guinea in the country’s capital Port Moresby. My girl friend usually converse with me over phone calls. It happens usually that we lost ourselves in our own world during conversation. One interesting is that she knows my family very well back at home. Sometimes we discussed about my little siblings, in which she would highly boast and talk about them and my mum. Though, we come from the same Kerowagi district I have proposed to introduce her to my family because she loves them, and I believe that she would appreciate plans and be more comfortable with it.
I’m confused. I give my all to my partner yet he still disrespects me in front of others. Makes me feel worthless. So I just go with it because, why not. Someday he’ll look back and understand what happened when he finally loses me. Then again he may not even ever grow up and realize why he’s alone.
Thank for this. but do you know that no body is 100% right? meanwhy, if you fined 5% qualities out of 10%, you are advice to go ahead and marry such a man because,because of five righteous people god said, he will not distroy a place. thank for understanding.
Hello, a guy here. I’m curious, if guys cheat more than gals…. well, isn’t there a one -to- one match for every sex act!? I mean really. This is like saying sticks and stones may break my bones…. but when we think about it … especially by midlife…. we know that “words” can damage much more than a sprained foot. In fact, a compound fracture will heal and the injured may be running a marathon within a year. But the hurtful word can last a lifetime. Just sayin.
I had the same thought but I also want to differ. It is true more men cheat but they do so with mostly single ladies..who may not be in relationships. They keep it from these ladies that they are in arelationship or are married. Personally that’s how I can come to terms with the statement above.
Excellent! For my man, 10 out of 11 signs. Hope the last one will happen.
Number 5 is not true. Not all men think that about women’s clothes and way of dressing. A man who wants to change your clothes is not doing it to protect you, but his own feelings of possessiveness. He wants to control you, which could be a sign of not physical but mental violence. Women will always be at the centre of men’s lust irrespective of their own behavior, and it is not a matter of what they wear, burkha or bikinis. Truly strong men set women free. A truly couragious man who is worried about how women’s dresscode is perceived would go against the condescending comments and attitudes he hears and sees when other men comment women’s bodies and outfits.
Love does not need to possess, it just accepts and supports.
Also, women are not whiny, noisy, emotional and unpredictable per se. Some can be, others are not. I would rephrase it as everyone possessing their unique strengths and weaknesses, which will inevitably irritate your SO. Therefore we need to forgive others for some of their shortcomings, but also do the same ourselves.
On top of that, it is unfair to ask your partner even to change their bad habits or vices or assume they would do it for you. Why? Acceptance is love, support is love. You can never change another person. They will always know that they were not enough for you as themselves and resent you for it. If you cannot be yourself, you are not loved for yourself. You just need to get a partner who does not have those vices or bad habits if you simply do not accept them.
@Lifelessons Says
Welp, we got ourselves a feminist here. 🙄
Are you serious as young man replying to this I absolutely agree with a lot of these points feminism is a good reason why relationships are destroyed. What’s wrong with protecting someone you care about I wouldn’t want a woman friend or girlfriend being leered over by other men
Love is not only acceptance it is time for changing for us for our beautiful future if he chain smoker then girl should ask him to leave not only for her it’s for him for them…if he is drinker then also he should leave because that is not good for health ……if she wear short dress that is not bad thing and also if he behaves like protective that is also not bad if she is sure about people who are around her r good people then if she have confidence she can protect herself what situation may happenes no matter how worst it would be then girls need to make him confidence high and let him show protective towards you….. Love is love we can’t predict
U may be rie100%, but girl does not have transparent heart ♥ honesty
I think u need to clean ur eyes or else ur brain and heart… If you have any doubt any particular girl go and ask her why she did like that or y she do like …everyone has their own problems or different ways of thinking or perspective of life….. don’t be judgemental….
I agree with the point that when he is in love he introduces you to his family, particularly his mother as mothers and sons share a great bond. In fact, I believe that men generally take their partners to meet their mother only when they feel something serious about them and have plans to share a future with them. Great article indeed! Thanks for sharing 🙂
I believe that’s true. One of the signs he’s serious about your relationship is when he’s proud to introduce you as his girl to everyone else especially his family. Thanks. =)
that is true,true love is something special towards two people but its hard to find it
Need some advice…2 yrs in relationship still havent met his parents. ;( sadly. I did not know he living with someone for a while. I accepted it..forgave him.. But 2 yrs in … Im afraid his family hates me and judges me now for something I did not do and he was not happy as he was ready to move forward with his life.Any thoughts? I cant see past the fact that i feel uninvited.. I do love him greatly but theres more putting in than putting out..any advice…
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My parents have no idea but they ask me if i met them already i avoid it
Don’t ask others opinions or don’t go others advices… Because that’s ur love u know him better than others don’t be judgemental… Don’t think to much keep urself happy for ur sake if you loves self if you trust ur self then only others can shows love towards you and trust you… Give love to him alot make him to admit what he is thinking about you don’t ask directly do it indirectly be urself if he is not angry man and create a good atmosphere make moment special then sit ask him ur questions or doubts about his other relationship if he admit then ask him who he wants or stay away from him few days after that silently watch him for away be sure he won’t catch u ….do it very carefully because it’s very sensitive matter men have to much ego …give time urself be calm