Treating a girlfriend like a queen is a must for every boyfriend. Giving her the royal treatment after getting the long-awaited “Yes” from her is a guarantee that your relationship will last long. We all know that no one is perfect, and boyfriends have lapses too. But as a good partner, you should always double the effort and let her feel like she’s royalty.
20 Ways to Treat Your Girlfriend Like a Queen
Now, if you are wondering if you treat your girl this way or not, don’t worry we got your back. Here are 20 tips on how to treat your girlfriend like a queen:
1. Pamper her.
Pampering your girl is a way of telling her that you always care for her. It doesn’t have to be cheap or expensive, as long as you make an effort to make her happy. You could give her a massage especially if she had a tiring day or if she’s on her monthly period, give her anything she likes to eat. Always remember it’s the effort that counts.
2. Communicate with her.
One thing that is needed in a relationship is communication. Be sure to establish good communication with your girlfriend. If something is bothering her, let her express it and understand her afterward. In this way, she will be able to feel that you always have an ear to listen to her worries and other stuff that’s on her mind.
3. Defend her.
There will be circumstances that some people will be against her. Be her knight in shining armor. Defend her from them and stand up for your girl. Always protect her from others who are trying to let her down. Be there to be her shield no matter what happens.
4. Be a gentleman.
They say chivalry is dead, but to some girls they still want their significant others to treat them like a queen. Opening the door for her or just by being polite when you speak to her is never too old and trust me, she’ll find it romantic. Being a gentleman is a plus. Doing this to your girl will let her feel that you are really a good man most especially when you are with the people close to her.
5. Give her unexpected gifts.
Giving her little surprises will make her heart flutter. It doesn’t have to be grand as long as it will show her that she’s always on your mind. You could give her a bar of her favorite chocolate with a note attached saying you are reminded by her whenever you see this stuff or you could give her favorite flower on a random day just to let her know that she is as beautiful as it.
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6. Cook for her.
You could express your appreciation towards your girl by cooking food for her, especially her favorite one. Most girls really love it when they are spoiled with their fave food. This is also to show that you love her and you are willing to do a lot for her.
7. Know her likes and dislikes.
Every girl is different, in comparison to what most men say that they are all the same. Some girls don’t actually like flowers or sweet stuff. Since she is your queen, you should be able to distinguish what are her likes and dislikes. It will be easier for you to do the things that will please her.
8. Notice every detail about her.
Every single detail to your girl is very important. If you want to treat her like a queen, pay attention to the little things she has or she does and nothing should be left out. It could be her new nail polish color, or just how her laugh sounds like.
9. Always compliment her.
Nothing would make your girl feel that she is your queen but complimenting her always. Tell her that she is always beautiful even if she is in her worst state. Through this, it will give her confidence in herself and your relationship.
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10. Respect her opinions.
There are times that the two of you have a different point of view on something. Always respect her opinions. Giving her the freedom to think differently on many things is also respecting your differences as individuals.
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11. Always make her a priority.
Always make her your top priority. Put her needs before yours. If you want to treat your girl like a queen, be her servant first. In this way, she will be honored every single day and eventually, she will reciprocate respect to you.
12. Don’t let her get jealous of other girls.
Don’t let her feel insecure with herself and envy other girls. When you talk with others, make sure she won’t have a reason to feel jealous. What you don’t understand with her is that when she gets jealous, it’s not just about overreacting because deep down she will think that someone is better than her and it could lower her self-esteem. Constantly remind your girl that she is your only one and that no one could be compared to her.
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13. Be understanding.
Learn to understand what she feels. It is true that women tend to be complicated, but sometimes, they just want more understanding of what they think and how they feel.
14. Give her space if she wants.
Give your girl space if she tells you to do so. Let her enjoy her life outside your relationship. This will also help build a good foundation in your relationship since she, your queen, will grow and develop as an individual.
15. Care for her.
Remind her that you always care for her. Be there whenever she needs you especially if she is having a tough time. A shoulder to cry on is the best thing that you could give to her.
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16. Always be in touch with her.
Don’t ever forget to keep in touch with her especially when you’re apart from each other. Let her know what you’re up to. This will make her feel secure and that her feelings matter a lot to you.
17. Always trust her.
One thing a relationship needs is trust. You should always trust her, may it be her decisions in life or the things she does. It will also build a connection between the two of you, thus, making your feelings for each other grow.
18. Be loyal to her.
As a servant to your queen, you should give your loyalty to her. Don’t ever hurt her with any form of disloyalty, thus, cheating is a big NO. Reassure her that you will always be right by her side even in the toughest times.
19. Always remember important dates.
For girls, special dates are really important and you should never forget about them. Birthdays, months and anniversaries are just some of the dates that you should always keep in your mind. These really means a lot them because it has special memories and should always be remembered.
20. Never take her for granted.
If you want to treat your girl like a queen, you should never ever take her for granted. Always be grateful to all the things she has done for you even for just a simple gesture. Appreciate her efforts towards you. Give her compliments whenever you got the chance.
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There is a saying, “If you treat your woman like a queen, she will treat you like a king”. This is true. If you want to be her king, treat her like how true royalties treat their royal queen. Eventually, a woman who was given the love and care she deserves will give back far more than what she had received. Don’t be afraid to take risks just for her to be happy. It’s the effort that counts anyway.
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Coming from experience when a guy treats you badly for a long period of time he will never get those good feelings back with that guy. And if someone has a “try “to be a nice guy it will never end well. I know this is not the answer you want to hear but if she ends up meeting a guy who treats her great she will realize how bad it was with you and will not want to ever go back. A woman deserves to be treated like a queen in most cases.
Written by a woman. 20 ways sounds like men are supposed to be everything a woman while women do what they want. This is a new generation women want everything and give absolutely nothing or what they give is worth nothing.
You have women with multiple kids making demands … Sorry these are your and the other guys kids. Y’all had the hot and steamy s*x to bring them here. Not the other guys.
You want to be treated like a queen? Then act like one … you want to be pampered? Make the guy feel like that he wants to pamper you, you want all the attention? Be the woman that will make him want to put all of the attention to you. Nobody watches a bad movie, people watch and pay attention to good movies. To tell men today that they have to do this things for a woman in a feminist, men bashing environment is enablement.
If woman behave like female dogs, then give them back the same energy. If they treat you like you want to be treat then treat them like they want to be treated. Very simple.
What about when the MAN, Treats his Woman Like a Queen, and keeps Putting Her & the Kids Needs before Himself? Who Supports him? The Biased against Good Men is Ridiculous, Especially when Kids are Involved! There are Men that want to be a FATHER/Husband & Not Just a Baby Daddy! But Society always blames them when Relationships/Marriages fall apart. Women have the Power to take your Kid Away from you, & don’t care how bad it will hurt the Father or the Child. Communication is Key, women can’t expect a man to know when they are not happy if they are not told when he asks her; are you ok? We are not Mind Readers, & we shouldn’t have to ask you everyday b/c you communication is poor. It’s hard for Men to find help when the Majority of Relationship articles put the blame solely on the Man, and the Woman the Faultless Victim…
KASH, I Agree there is to little importance given to just how impactful a father not being in a child’s life can be,as well as the continued development of a father growing and becoming a man and passing on his positive traits. Too few realize just what a negative impact it can taking the father away or limiting his interactions can have one our children, their growth both mentally and
emotionally, as well as our society in both criminal and being a positive member of society. Doing so adds to to the # of crimes committed across the board from rape to drugs. Our leadership, “false government employees, not all are bad” fails to realize this and just what a negative impact it has had on our growth as a society, as well as the decline in what was once a Great Nation. Years before this great decline Family meant something to one another as well as the term relationship and marriage. I understand there are time when a marriage can’t and won’t work out, but far few try to make them work out and it takes one person making a false quote to ruin a fathers life or loose his kids. L
Everytime i want something done he always says no.. it should be this way. And it create a huge argument. Havent mens ever heard of the saying ‘Always give the lady her way,’.? Do things the way she wants. Let her know shes right and your wrong .
You won’t hear her b*tch about them later.
Compromise and communication are a huge part of a relationship. Too many times we forget that our partner has an opinion as well as feelings and we focus only on what we want. Relationships grow by communicating and being understanding not focusing solely on one person’s side. Doing this makes the other feel less important and the feeling that their opinion is of little value.
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yea itz really true but only wen u cm to nigeria u would knw itz just a kids play, some countries galfriends
behaves lyk demon….
My girlfriend left me because i have been mean to her the last year. Now I am trying my best to be a better boyfriend. I really hope i will get her back sometime. Thanks for the tips!
I can tell you from first had experience that by changing the way you act, talk, even your whole outlook on life might not ever bring your girl back. Sometimes when we treat people like this they tend to put walls up that they may never be able to let down. Her past can also play a huge factor in how she sees you and the ability to let her walls down. If she truly loves you and you truly love her it will work out in time, it may take a very long time and it may leave you wanting to pull your hair out but time does heal all wounds. Just remember why you changed and don’t allow yourself to return to the negative guy you once were or all your efforts will be for not. Good luck
This is how every woman should be treated if you love her.. You said queens I’m confused.
So, I’m a girl…how do I treat my girlfriend like a queen in a girlxgirl relationship, more than this? It’s okay if no one is able to find an answer.
No difference.. treat her like u would want to be treated
So, I’m a girl…how do I treat my girlfriend like a queen in a girlxgirl relationship, more than this? It’s okay if no one is able to find an answer.
Omg this helped me so much now I don’t hit my girls 🥊
hiya em, I also have a gxg relationship and I find that girls really care about dates, so if she has a dream date and it hasn’t already happened yet then that would be a great start! number two, idk how your queen is but mine loves hoodies! let her have one of yours or buy her one but the first option (giving her yours) is in a way, nicer. number three, find out your common interests and use them! for example, me and my girlfriend both love musicals and dancing so we went to see this performance (before covid) I hope you and your girlfriend are well, and it’s nice to have bumped into another queer on the internet!
COMUNICATION IS KEY! Love one another as you would want someone to love you
Sharon Simangele Moobokazi is indeed my queen I’ve done all of this and our relationship is so strong😊
I ALWAYS MAKE HER MY TOP PRIORITY AND PUT HER NEEDS FIRST
When 2 people love one another they always take pleasure in putting the others needs first.
Her needs should be a priority but your absolutely have to matter as well. If not and your needs suffer it can cause issues in the relationship over time. If both persons needs are meet then the relationship will bloosom.
I hurt my woman alot and she’s really mad at me but the truth is I really love her I don’t want to loose her
How can I correct my self
as a girl speaking , i only came on here to see if its right to keep my boyfriend . he hasnt treated me right at all and its making me upset and insecure . he call other girls pretty in front of my face , he says my butt is flat , and lastly whenever i get a haircut he calls me ugly . He put himself first and it hurts me . he acts like everythings a joke . i understand hes telling the truth but he could keep it in .
THIS IS A TOUGH ONE,,If he calls you ugly then there is a good chance that your relationship may not work out. For some they never learned how to talk to their partners and it can stem from their upbringing and how they seen their parents act. If you have told him how you felt and he hasn’t changed or made any attempt then chances are you should walk away.
I think a girl should treat you like a King, first. So she could then own-up to the title of a Queen through virtue of her actions towards you. Then, and only then, you should definitely treat her like the most beautiful Queen in the Universe and beyond. Otherwise, you will run a risk of becoming her peasant. And no one likes peasants (romantically).
Guys are razed stupid while women elevated. Please change your perspective on courtship.
I agree 100%
Max i believe that it should be equal, if its not equal then we run the risk of having feelings hurt or leaving one side feeling less than enough.
Yep, following this article is a great way to be taken advantage of and if you think a girl wouldn’t do that, you’re a fool. Girls are just as capable of being abusive as men are.
Max, you said it perfectly. Show me you’re worthy of being treated as a queen, quit the entitlement and do your part.
thank a lot I will try by God willing
11. Always make her a priority.
Always make her your top priority. Put your needs before hers. If you want to treat your girl like a queen, be her servant first. In this way, she will be honored every single day and eventually she will reciprocate the respect to you.
If you read this and it says put your needs before hers, it makes no sense.
Hello Pete. Thank you for the heads up. It was really a typo error, and we have already corrected it. We are glad and grateful that you shared your comment.
Thanks for the useful info. This will definitely help me. My girlfriend is 13 and I am 12 but we are in the same grade.
what 13 years
child go to school.
Me too im 13 and shes 12
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Lol.. Pete you’re the one who wrote that sentence wrong and saying infront!
Information technology:”Put her needs before yours”
Pete: “put your needs before her”
Lol see yourself
Lol… Debasis if you actually read the comments you would know the typo was corrected long before you decided to type your comment
Too many times we do this and one side takes advantage and uses it against the other. There are some people in this world who try to take advantage of others and use their “pull” to get what they want, especially if you are the giving type with a huge heart.