14 Tips to Make Your Girlfriend Love You More

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Keeping the love alive and passionate means you want it to last forever. If you’re in a relationship and want to make it work, it’s worth putting some thoughts into action so you could take the next step to make your girlfriend love you more.

Check out these 15 tips on how to make your girlfriend love you even more than she does now.

1. Be yourself.

You don’t have to pretend to be someone you are not because when the truth eventually comes out, your girlfriend will not be happy. In fact, you want her to love “You”, and not someone you’re pretending to be. So, simply be open and honest, appreciate who you are, be confident, and don’t aim to please others.

2. Show her real appreciation.

Instead of focusing only on appearance or giving compliments for the obvious things. Try paying attention to her strengths; compliment her on things she is most proud of. Also, don’t forget to appreciate the simple things she does for you by saying “Thanks for bringing in the paper”, or “Thanks for always being there for me.” After a while, you will develop an appreciation habit.

3. Be kind.

Just as you offer a smile and hold the door open for a stranger, you must also remember to develop this habit in your relationship. Try doing simple things like, patiently listening to her, avoiding an angry reply, or apologizing for the nasty things you said. Your kind words and actions will bring out kindness in your girlfriend and will make her love you even more.

4. Respect her.

Respect in a relationship means upholding the basic right that every person has to make their own choices and feel safe in their own daily lives. Hence, be that person who’ll value her feelings and needs, talk to her honestly, build her up, compromise, and support her interests.

5. Give her the gift of understanding.

When you think she’s feeling down or upset, listen to her, put yourself in her shoes, and offer support rather than trivializing her feelings.

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6. Make time for fun.

In your busy lives, having fun together is essential to keep the glow going in your relationship. Talk about what each of you finds fun and try new things. You can visit new places, discover things together, embark on a memorable adventure, or simply realize any of your relationship goals.

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7. Give her freedom.

You don’t have to be together every day. Although she is your girlfriend, you still don’t have the right to control her in any way. Give her the freedom to be alone, to spend time with her family, encourage her to hang out with her good influence friends, and respect her time when she’s at work.

8. Be faithful and trustworthy.

A girl will love you more if you continue to believe in her and do the things that will also make her continue to believe in you. So don’t just trust her but also keep her trust you. Be a man of your words and keep your promises, don’t lie to her, keep your eyes only to her, be honest, and be authentic.

9. Be her support system.

Every girl needs someone she can turn to when things do not go her way or even when things go right. Be that guy, who will be there for her when she needs a companion, ask what she needs, be a good listener, encourage her to pursue her passions, and offer your shoulder to cry on when she’s in pain.

10. Be romantic.

This doesn’t necessarily mean you need to spend lots of money just to please your girlfriend. Doing little things like, make her favorite meal, buy her favorite chocolate, bring her flowers, give her your jacket when she’s cold, carry her bag, leave her sweet notes, or do something for her without her asking you to do it. Those simple things will mean so much to her.

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11. Accept her flaws.

Loving someone means accepting the flaws of your significant other. Be that guy who’ll adore her make-up-free face, accept her irrationalities, understand all her complaints, and whatever imperfection she has.

12. Make her laugh.

A girl’s smile and laugh are a sign that you’re doing right. Humor makes things comfortable for her. Your jollity can make her happy and have a great time with you. So, if you’re going to add the ability to make your girl laugh, make sure to use circumstances around you to say something funny, you can also tease her, and tell funny stories.

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13. Learn to love things and people important to her.

Learn to value those things and people she treasures the most. If she loves to stay in a coffee shop and read books, be with her. If she wants to spend time with her long-time friends, hang out with them and take time to know them personally because aside from you, her friends are also her source of happiness.

14. Put God first.

“Seek his will in all you do, and he will show you which path to take.” —Proverbs 3:6

If you’re a believer, one thing to consider as a goal in a relationship is to keep God first. If your girl sees God in your heart and lets Him be the center of your relationship, what else could she ask for? Thus, make a commitment to place Him first in your life and in your relationship, serve and give as He leads you, trust His promises, and enjoy the freedom that comes from trusting Him.

If you want your girlfriend to love you more, don’t give her any reason to doubt you. Instead, be that guy who will make her believe in love and won’t give her any reason not to love you.

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Marydel Mitch Flores
Mitch is a writer and photographer. She also does screenwriting for independent film producers and joins various film competitions. Mitch believes that “You don’t have to be great to start, but you have to start to be great.”
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Yusuf
Yusuf
February 13, 2021 6:23 am

Thank you you are educated

MTjara
MTjara
January 19, 2021 5:51 pm

It’s really educational!

John
John
January 4, 2021 10:56 pm

Please I need your help. My girlfriend cut me with someone else, and she’s really mad at me but I have cool her down. Please how can I make our relationship stronger again even more than before.

mshana emma
mshana emma
November 7, 2020 11:56 am

am Tanzanian guide thanks a lot

Pc
Pc
April 14, 2020 6:59 am

It really helps, I love the articles, but what of on the process of giving her freedom and meets someone new whom if you were with her, she wouldn’t have met him, then this guy starts to stick on her steady like every moment he is with her and she really likes it, suddenly she begins to loose interest in you, what could be done about this?

eugene konadu
eugene konadu
March 8, 2020 10:16 pm

thanks so much

Emperor
Emperor
February 4, 2020 2:28 pm

Lovely
Nice tips

Lesia
Lesia
January 30, 2020 5:01 pm

Wow !!! I wish all people can do researches to save thier relationship

Tumph
Tumph
January 28, 2020 8:24 am

Funny thing is I do all this aside the “Give her freedom” n that stuff really affected my self esteem .

Umaru Kanneh
Umaru Kanneh
December 29, 2019 11:27 am

wow, I learned alot from this tips. Thank you!!

Frank
Frank
November 5, 2019 12:31 am

Thanks so much you are Super B

ciaheim gaither
ciaheim gaither
April 10, 2019 2:46 am

Will this actually work

Young joe
Young joe
Reply to  ciaheim gaither
January 3, 2021 1:30 am

Wow very educative but I have a problem with the freedom giving my girl freedom has caused me alot in my relationship the last time I deed she ended up dating another guy without me noticing

kelvin
kelvin
March 30, 2019 9:23 am

loved it thank you so much it helped alot

Badru
Badru
August 1, 2018 2:43 pm

It really help me a lot 👍 thumbs ups bro

Stanley Chigozie
Stanley Chigozie
July 22, 2018 8:45 am

Wow! Am impressed