When you truly love your girl, you’d do anything in the world just to make her happy. You’d make every effort and grab every opportunity to make her feel that she’s the luckiest person on earth. You’d do all that because you know very well that she’s special and she deserves all the good things that life can offer.
As a boyfriend, it’s your job to show her that she is loved, so you have to do everything right. While some people find it easy to show their girlfriend that they care, others are not so good with words. Sometimes, they don’t even know where to start or what to do.
Should you give her flowers? Should you buy her favorite chocolates? Is it a nice idea if you spend a day at the beach or just stay at home and watch movies?
If you think you’re one of those guys who have no clue on how to show their girlfriend that they care, don’t worry. This article will give you some sweet and interesting tips on how to be the most romantic and caring partner that you can be.
Here they are:
1. Spend time with her no matter how busy you are.
Even if your life should not revolve around your relationship, you should make sure that you’re not taking your girlfriend for granted. No matter how tight your schedule is, always make the time to ask them how they are or how their day was.
This advice is really important, especially If you’re in a long-distance relationship. Read these 25 Pieces of Advice Couples in a Long Distance Relationship Should Know
2. Show interest in the things and activities that she likes.
You don’t have to love shopping, makeup or dressing up, just appreciate her effort to look and feel good. Shower her with compliments and just be supportive of everything that she likes doing.
If you have the budget, buy her something special – something that will surely put a smile on her face. If you have extra time, try to know more about the activities and hobbies that make her feel excited about.
3. Love her – especially when she’s at her worst.
She’s not going to be a sweet little angel all the time. There will be days when she’s going to annoy you or irritate you. Sometimes, she’ll be difficult to talk to and during these moments, your conversations might always end up in a fight.
Nonetheless, love her and make her feel that you’ll stay. Show her that no matter how difficult she is sometimes, you’ll never change your mind about choosing to be with her every day, all the time.
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4. Value her opinion and respect her decisions.
Respect her own views and never force her to follow your advice. If you really care about her, you’ll never make her feel that her ideas don’t matter, or that her goals are too ambitious.
Furthermore, trust in her decisions and give her the freedom to choose her own path. You should always know your limits especially when it’s about matters concerning her personal and professional goals.
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5. Try to say YES no matter how much you want to say NO.
As long as it won’t harm or hurt her in any way, give her your approval especially if it’s something that will truly make her happy. Be a supportive boyfriend and trust her that she’ll figure things out on her own.
A part of caring is by letting her know that even if you don’t agree with what she wants to do, you love her enough to give her that freedom and support.
6. Introduce her to the important people in your life.
She’s a part of your life and you should make her feel that you want her to be in it for good. This includes introducing her to the important people in your life: your friends, your social circle and most importantly, your family.
In order to show her that you care, you have to let her in your world.
7. Show up and try your best to be always present.
If there’s a will, there will always be a way – no excuses. Show up on your dates, be there for her and be present especially in the most important moments of her life.
Caring is simply being present. Give her all your time and attention especially when you’re together.
8. Be proud of her and don’t hesitate to show it.
Showing your girlfriend that you care also means acknowledging her achievements and congratulating her in every job well done. More importantly, don’t hesitate to tell everyone about how lucky you are to find someone so amazing.
9. Remember the dates that matter.
Add them to your to-do list, buy a journal and even mark the days on your calendar. This point is very important: caring is remembering the most special days and doing something that will make such moments unforgettable. You have no idea how happy you’ll make her.
10. Be her number one cheerleader.
She’ll need your support and your encouragement especially if she’s going through a rough time. Be her number one cheerleader and never make her feel that she’s alone.
Show her that you believe in her. Be her strength and inspire her to confidently reach for her dreams.
11. Make her feel wanted.
Make her feel that she’s an important part of your life, that her presence matters a lot to you. Show her that you want her, not just as a girlfriend but as a friend and as a life companion.
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It’s easy to make a list of the things that you can do to show your girlfriend that you care but you have to understand this: it doesn’t count if you’re not sincere about everything you do. Your every effort will only matter if you, too, feel happy whenever you see your girlfriend happy.
It must be genuine and not forced; it must always come from the heart, something that you really want to do – and lastly, it should not feel like it’s an obligation but a pure willingness to make her feel that someone out there genuinely loves and cares about her.