You do not have to be the most romantic guy on earth to make your wife feel really loved. All you need to do is be sincere in keeping this special woman happy. To help you do it, here are some simple ways you can do to express your genuine love for her and make her feel truly loved.
1. Start and end your day with an “I love you” for her.
Never let a day pass without letting your wife know how much you love her. Make it a habit to tell her “I love you” upon waking up and before you close your eyes while cuddling in bed.
2. Share the house chores without being asked.
Your superwoman can get tired too. So, even if she does not ask you, willingly help her with the responsibilities and chores at home. Do the laundry, cook dinner, and wash the dishes. She will surely appreciate these efforts.
3. Appreciate her in front of others.
Anyone would feel great if appreciated in the public, especially by someone dear. Thus, praising your wife in front of your friends, colleagues, or whoever, would surely make her blush. It will make her feel that you are proud of her.
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4. Flex her on your timeline.
Talking about being proud of your wife, women feel special and loved when their partners post about them on social media. You may post a sweet anniversary, birthday, or congratulatory message for her on your timeline. Or you can simply post a picture of you being together.
5. Buy her a new dress.
Are you thinking of buying your wife a gift? She would surely love a nice dress. This could mean a lot to her, especially if she has not bought anything for herself lately because she always puts the needs of her family first.
6. Treat her to a movie.
Who says only boyfriends and girlfriends could go on a movie date? You may be doing this with your kids already, but it would be more romantic for her if you could go by yourself. Make her feel that somehow you still want her alone to yourself sometimes.
7. Speak gently to her.
In the Bible, husbands are commanded to be gentle with their wives (Colossians 3:19). One of the ways to uphold this is by being sensitive with your words. Always be mindful of what you say to her, especially when you are stressed, upset, or angry. You can never take back the harsh words you throw at her.
8. Do not yell at her.
In connection with no.7, never ever yell at your wife. You are ought to be gentle and respectful towards her, especially in front of your kids. If you are too angry already, just leave and go somewhere else where you can cool down.
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9. Never hurt her physically no matter how pissed off you are.
If you truly love your wife, you would never lay a hand on her. Yes, some men get to hurt their wives ‘unintentionally’ because of too much anger, but it will never be good enough to be an excuse. Therefore, if you know you have the tendency to lose self-control when you are at the height of your emotion, then you better leave the scene right away.
10. Listen to her ideas.
One of the ways through which you can make your wife feel valued is by listening to her. Whenever she gives you a piece of advice or a suggestion, show her that you are willing to listen and consider her thoughts.
11. Support her goals.
Be your wife’s no. 1 supporter. Encourage her to follow her dreams and help her to get closer to them. Be proud of her success.
12. Send her sweet messages.
Whether you are just at work or somewhere farther away, make her smile with thoughtful messages. You can text, chat, or even send her a video message. It does not have to be a long one. It is just meant to let her know that you remember her throughout the day.
13. Surprise her to a romantic date.
Women love surprises. One way to make her feel truly loved is by setting her up on a date. This should be different from your regular or planned dates. It does not have to be expensive too. For instance, you can prepare a romantic candlelit dinner on your rooftop or in your garden.
14. Tell her you would choose her over and over.
One of the most romantic words that a woman could hear from a man is when he tells her that he would still choose her even if given the chance to turn back time. Never get tired of reminding her that she is chosen.
15. Take care of her when she is sick.
One of the best opportunities to serve your partner is when she is sick. Your care would surely help her feel better.
16. Always tell her she is beautiful.
Even if she is not dressed up for any occasion or she looks so disheveled, assure her that she is still beautiful. This will help boost her confidence and, of course, be more secure in your love.
17. Be the first to say “sorry” whenever you fight.
It does not matter who starts the conflict. As a gentleman, be willing to be the first to apologize and reconcile. This does not necessarily mean that you are wrong, but this would show her how willing you are to set your pride aside just to keep her by your side.
18. Choose her over your friends.
The moment you have married her, your wife becomes your first human priority. Meaning, whenever there is a schedule conflict between your time together and your time to be with the gang, you must choose to be with your wife. This would mean a lot to her.
More Love in Return
The love that you give your wife will bounce back to you. The more that you keep her loved, the more that she will make you feel loved too. This is the secret for keeping the love in your marriage alive.