Keeping your girl in love with you is not that difficult if you really love her in the first place. She only wants to feel loved. She also needs a strong, confident and honest guy to make her feel safe. You have to win her over and keep the flame alive. If you’re worried that the spark might die soon, here are 12 ways to keep your girlfriend in love with you.
1. Make her feel beautiful.
Girls want to feel beautiful and confident about themselves. So, go about setting your girl free into the world. Compliment her soul, look her in the eyes when you tell her how much you love her, hold her hand, and be her beacon. When she wakes up in the morning, tell her she looks great, let her soar, and admire her in flight.
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2. Be her hero.
Some girls are independent; they feel as if they don’t need anyone’s help. However, there will be some instances when she will need your help. Let’s just say, she unexpectedly experienced her monthly period while she’s in the classroom and unfortunately, she doesn’t have an extra pad. She’ll probably call you to buy one and that would be a great time for you to show her that you can be the hero she’s always wanted but never knew she needed. Thus, always be willing to be there for her even if it seems like your girl is independent.
3. Make her feel safe.
Girls like having arms wrapped around them, simultaneously holding them close and pushing the world away. The desire to be protected covers feeling physically, emotionally, and spiritually safe. If you can make your girl feel safe she’ll overlook a lot of other faults. So, let her feel comfortable every time you’re together because helping your girl feel secure empowers her to do the things that her heart tells her to need to be done.
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4. Be willing to take the blame.
Even if it is not your fault, be willing to apologize. A simple “I’m sorry” won’t cut it, it has to be deep and real for her to know you mean it. So be a little creative, you may send her a dozen roses, buy her favorite food, or leave her sweet notes that she may actually think how sincere you are.
5. Make her laugh.
When life is too serious, the bravest thing you can do is to laugh. Goof around, be playful, have fun, find some grass and do some somersaults. Love will surely sit next to you, it’s head on your shoulder, smiling all the while, for where there is laughter, there is love.
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6. Make her feel involved.
If you want her to adore you more, you have to share and make her feel involved in your life. Always ask her opinions on whatever decisions you’re going to make, when asked about “how’s your day” reply with more than just a “fine”, and if you have any problems, don’t hesitate to open up about it.
7. Be nice to her family and friends.
Learn to love those people who have been part of her life. Don’t just brush them off without asking the time to really get to know them. Instead, ask them how they are, share something about yourself, and show that you care about them.
8. Listen to her.
The next time she talks to you, you should really listen to her and absorb every word she says. Put away all the distractions and look into her eyes while she’s talking. Don’t interrupt her, just be there to listen and understand what she’s telling you. This will make her see that you really care about her.
9. Be honest with her.
Honesty is the best policy and it also attracts girls. So, as much as possible, talk openly with her, tell her everything that happens to you, and don’t ever lie.
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10. Trust her.
Trust isn’t just given out of nowhere. When you know you can trust your partner, it removes a large potential for worry and also builds your internal security. Open your mind, get rid of your bias, don’t jump to conclusions, be positive, know her deeper, and learn to love her better.
11. Prove to her that she’s your only one.
Girls won’t fall in love with someone who will not catch them when they fall. Hence, be loyal to her. Never ever cheat or do something that will give her a reason not to trust you again. Make her fall in love with you over and over again by proving to her that you will always be there for her, waiting to catch her, and only her.
12. Make sacrifices.
Your big sacrifice will prove how big your love for your girlfriend is, while your series of sacrifices (small or big) will prove how consistent your love is for her. Girls will definitely feel more loved and will certainly fall in love with their boyfriend if they realize that their guy is sacrificing something important just to make them happy. Therefore, be selfless and make sacrifices for her. Sacrifice your big ego, get rid of your hard-to-break bad habits, or even let go of your personal ambitions for the betterment of your relationship with her.
If all you want is to be a guy she falls in love with, try to follow the tips above to make her stay in love with you and happy to stick with you for life.
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Thanks I have my first girlfriend and I don’t really know how to go about this. Just wondering (I mean idk why not but) this works when we’re both girls right?
Give her space,she need time to sort things out.
this doesn’t work i tried and she still left why are girls like this 😭😭 its like the more I try to love her she just keeps pushing me away i really wanted this girl cause I’ll be honest I’m done with the same thing happening i keep getting played please guys tell me what I’m doing wrong I’ve never been so hurt over a girl before not like this:( i mean she’s everything I’ve wanted but it feels like she’s not taking me serious. i really need help cause honestly I’m ready to give up on life i wish iwas never alive:(
Man down, I repeat Man down! abort mission!
This is a very informative blog, thanks for sharing about ways to keep your girlfriend in love with you. I liked and it is wonderful to know about so many things that are useful for all of us! Thanks a lot for this amazing blog!!
Facts💯. This is great advice. I’m so gonna implement that in my relationship
I will try that am rowing her for no reason and it’s not right but I don’t want to lose her I love her to much how can I break that habit tho
This really helps alot. I just got a girlfriend and i needed some advise on how to keep her in love with me. We’ve been together for 2 weeks and we have been a little akward with eachother sometimes. This will help me alot in the future! Thank You!
What does this mean?
Here applies a wise saying:
If you want to learn how to fish (or keep a fish), don‘t listen to the fish, listen to the fisherman.
For sure, i have enjoyed the article but i also pray that my wish come true that way.I have all the qualifiers to ashtonish all the loyal ones but everything is just discombobulating in my ways ever.
I have done all most 90|%, but she still takes me to be a friend yet i told her how i feel about her. She is going with another man that she has seen for 1 month, what should i do over this. we have been together for 1 year. I have been their for her in every thing she needed till to date. we spend most of the evenings walking together talking going for dinner and last night when i asked her that wanted her to be my baby Mamma she got made.
let her go and never turn back. You cant be friends with someone you love. There are plenty girls out there just get over her and chase another. Best of luck!
This was absolutely amazing. Really life changing… I think my girlfriend will finally fall in love with me now!
Oh mine. Very really good articel. Pls say why I get the boaner but my lady love no not mine boaner? I am wish why my gorl and my world r the same but she not see that????
my girl like a peach, soft andf soft but she see me like a spider, SCARRY.
pls adivise, wen I haff the pototer salaad she say NO.
thanks for the idea
Really i let her go cause didn’t know how to treat a lady, only when she gone i start realizing my mistakes, now i see what means love , will not do thesam mistakes any more
Love, love , God help me
Kinda funny, I have done all of these things for the past two and a half years. I’ve made many mistakes in past relationships. I’m not gonna let this one get away
Pls don’t let it go. Wish how u feel when they gone bro,
Push , same to me have done allot of mistakes , now i just need correct my errors
Indeed I have leant a lot how I would handle and wine my girl friends heat, in fact their is a lot we hide from them yet every thing needs to share, I was not used of showing her how much I love her but am to start to show her and so more care to her bambi.
I really don’t see what I’ve never done here, one minute she’s close and the next minute she’s so Far Away
Hi, thank you for this article. I have been doing this but my girlfriend has said to my that she needs time to think over everything now so I’m confused about it now.
Patience and consistency will do the magic. Just keep doing it and I believe there will come a time where she would turn around
Thank you so much for this article. I’ll try my best to impress my girlfriend and I’ll try to show how much I love her.
This Article showed me some things what I did wrong . But reading I understood my problems and Im ready to change.
I think that everyone in a relationship can improve something and this article where to find ideas where to start.
Thank you !
I will do all of the things mentioned above.Hope my girlfriend would be in love with me throughout my life.
I will also do all this..just hoping for the best
You probably are already broke up
haha…I am sure… when they have to leave they leave….grow the f**k up young kings and learn to let go. you deserve better.