15 Signs Your Crush Likes You

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Are you trying hard to find out whether your crush likes you too? Are you confused whether his/her actions towards you mean anything or you only overanalyze?

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15 Signs Your Crush Likes You

To help you resolve your inner conflict, and so you would know if it is time to forget about your feelings for him/her, here are 15 signs that show a person’s interest in you. Find them out and use them to assess your crush’s behaviors.

1. Steals glances at you

This is probably one of the most obvious clues that someone is into you. If you have caught your crush staring at you not just once or twice, then maybe those were not coincidences. Just keep observing if this will happen again.

2. Sends and responds with long messages

If you happen to have communication with your crushes like thru phone or social media, observe how long his/her usual messages to you are. If oftentimes s/he sends lengthy messages even when responding to a ‘yes’ or ‘no’ question, then it means s/he wants to keep your conversation going.

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3. Interested to know more about you

In a normal friendship or acquaintance setup, a person would not be too eager to know trivial information about you like the name of your pet and your favorite color. If your crush keeps on asking you such questions, then probably s/he is researching about your life.

4. Knows details you never told him/her

If your crush surprisingly knows your birthday or your middle name even if you never mentioned them to him/her, then probably s/he is doing research about you. This means only one thing—s/he is interested in you. It is quite flattering, right?

ALSO READ: 10 Sweet Things to Say to a Girl

5. Notices even small details about you

This is connected to #3. If your crush is interested to know everything about you, then expect that s/he is observant even to the tiny details of your being. For instance, s/he would ask you how you got the scar on your hand, or comment on your handwriting.

6. Appreciates you even in little things

If your crush is too grateful to you even just for passing on the tray of cookies or picking up his/her pen, then it could be a sign—unless s/he normally do it with everyone else. Furthermore, a person who likes you appreciate or praise you for almost anything like your haircut, being an early bird, or how you dress up.

7. Always willing to help you

The person who eagerly offers you help for just anything may actually like you. So, if your crush is always available to lend you a hand whenever you need it, then there could be a chance that s/he is trying to be impressive.

8. Can stand long conversations with you

You have to wonder if your crush keeps on engaging in long talks with you. Normally, unless you are BFF’s with the person, you would not waste hours of idle conversation with an ordinary friend. A fifteen to thirty-minute chitchat is long enough, but how about an hour or two of an unplanned sitting on the bench together and talking about anything under the sun?

9. Asks for your contact details

When a person asks for your mobile number and asks permission to add you on Facebook or Instagram, it does not automatically mean s/he likes you. However, this should be on your checklist, because the person who likes you would eventually do this. If this person asks for these details after a long time of being casual or friends with you, then it could be that s/he had to gather enough guts to finally do it. It is normal and easy for new friends to do this, but it is a bit weird if you have known each other for quite a while already.

10. Responds to invitations

Another behavior of a person who likes you is his/her automatic willingness to join you or your cause. In case you invite him/her to volunteer in a socio-civic organization, then s/he would not say ‘no’. If you invite him/her for dinner to discuss a business proposal, you would get an excited, positive response, even if the person is actually not business-minded.

11. Shares secrets with you

If your crush comfortably shares secrets with you even if you are not best friends, then it could be a sign that s/he likes you. This behavior could mean that s/he wants to open up about his/her life with you because s/he wants to get your acceptance and trust.

12. Unusually presentable when s/he knows you would be around

When you like someone and you know you would meet him/her, you exert greater effort to make yourself attractive, right? That is the same as the person who likes you. So, if you notice that your crush looks unusually more decent during expected meetups than when you only accidentally bump into each other, then s/he is probably trying to catch your eye.

ALSO READ: 10 Smart Ways to Get Your Crush Notice You

13. Finds ways to be near you always

If you notice that, even without you making an effort, you always end up in one group with or sitting beside your crush, then it is either the work of destiny or your crush. Just observe how your crush behaves whenever you are around. Does s/he pass by in front of you all the time or approach a friend who is in close proximity with you? Is it just coincidence and timing?

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14. Becomes awkward, timid, or hyper when you are around

How do you feel whenever your crush is nearby? Usually, it is either you tense up and become conscious of yourself or you get too excited and happy to the point that you overact. If your crush likes you too, then it is expected for him/her to feel the same. You can try to observe his/her behaviors in different situations: when you are around and not. You can ask for help from friends for this mission.

15. Changes mood when you hang out with someone else

How does your crush react whenever s/he sees you in deep conversation or walking side by side with someone else from the opposite sex? If you notice that every time this happens s/he becomes unusually gloomy, then maybe it is because of you. Other signs of jealousy are when s/he interrupts or joins you; passes by in front of you several times, or walks out or leaves the place.

Physical Signs Your Crush Likes you

1. Pupils dilate when they look at you
2. Smiles more at you than at others
3. Blushing and flushed skin when around you
4. His Voice Deepens When He’s Talk to You
5. His body language is open to you
6. Leaning closer to you
7. Mirroring your behavior
8. His body temperature Increase
9. Keeps glancing at you even if nothing is interesting to see
10. They Aren’t Blinking As Often
11. They Angle Their Bellybutton Towards You
12. He has clammy hands.
13. His eyebrows raise when he sees you
14. He points his toes toward you

Please visit Powerful Signs of Male Attraction for the details.

Can a Crush Turn Into Love?

1. You get to know the person better.
2. Your friendship grows over time.
3. You find out that you have compatible traits.
4. You realize that the person is also fond of you.
5. You see that your crush can help you grow as a person.
6. You feel special and cared for when you are together.
7. You develop mutual trust.
8. You become closely attached.
9. You feel comfortable and happy around the person.
10. You can see yourself growing old with that individual.

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9 Differences Between a Crush and a Friend

1. A crush makes you self-conscious; a friend makes you comfortable with your own skin.
2. A crush inspires you to do better; a friend encourages when you are unmotivated.
3. A crush is someone you want to impress; a friend is someone you can get real with.
4. A crush gives you butterflies in the stomach; a friend makes you nervous in a different way.
5. A crush keeps you daydreaming until late at night; a friend is someone you brainstorm ‘business plans’ with.
6. A crush is perfect in your sight; a friend is accepted for who s/he is, vice versa.
7. A crush is someone whose messages excite you; a friend is someone whose messages cheer you up.
8. A crush is someone you want to talk about interesting topics with; a friend is someone you can chat with about anything–and it is still interesting.
9. A crush can be temporary; a friend can stay for a lifetime.

Please visit the differences between a crush and a friend for the details.

10 Ways to Get Your Crush Notice You

1. Be a head-turner.
2. Smell irresistible.
3. Always wear a smile.
4. Excel at something to impress.
5. Be friends with him/her.
6. Find out his/her interests.
7. Show sincere concern and interest in the person.
8. Give praises and appreciation.
9. Play mysterious.
10. Don’t show you’re head-over-heels.

Please visit ways to get your crush to notice you for the details.

13 Ways to Impress Your Crush and Get Them to Like You

1. Wear your invisible crown.
2. Stay independent.
3. Groom yourself.
4. Stay fit.
5. Talk about your passions in life.
6. Show that goofy side of you.
7. Have a sense of humor.
8. Keep genuine interest.
9. find common ground.
10. Be kind.
11. Be a friend.
12. Be spontaneous.
13. Be yourself.

Please visit ways to impress your crush and get them to like you for the details.

12 Signs Your Crush Doesn’t Like You

1. Doesn’t stare at you for more than a second
2. Doesn’t give you a second glance
3. Can approach you without any hesitation
4. Doesn’t initiate or sustain communication with you
5. Is not available for you
6. Doesn’t seem impressed by whatever you do
7. Gets irritated by your constant presence
8. Rejects your offers
9. Doesn’t share personal stuff with you
10. Avoids you
11. Intentionally gets sweet with someone else whenever you are around
12. Ignores your messages

Please visit signs your crush doesn’t like you for the details.

17 Noticeable Signs She Wants You to Make a Move

1. She Makes an Effort to be Extra Beautiful Whenever You are Around.
2. She Acts and Talks Too Carefully.
3. She Seems Awkward Whenever You Are Around.
4. She Blushes When Others Tease You To Each Other.
5. She is Always on The Go Whenever You Want to Take Her Out.
6. She Makes Excuses to Be Alone with You.
7. She is Never Too Busy to Respond to Your Messages.
8. She Does Not Mind Having Long Phone Calls with You.
9. She Gives You a Hint That She Wants to Go Out with You.
10. She Calls or Messages You First for Random Reasons.
11. She Locks Eyes with You And Does Not Shy Away.
12. She Teases You a Lot.
13. She Invites You to Her Place.
14. She Opens Up About Her Past.
15. She Asks You About Your Ideal Girl.
16. She Likes to Know Your Impression of Her.
17. She Tries to Make You Jealous.

Please visit here to find out the Signs She Wants You to Make a Move.

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Warning: Do not assume

Even if you can see most of the signs of your crush, please do not presume that s/he likes you. It is okay to feel good about the attention you get from this person, but unless s/he directly states it, do not assume anything. It may cause you to be aggressive, overfamiliar, and territorial, which could turn him/her off instead.

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Cyril Abello
Joan is a freelance blogger who loves writing about personal development. She also loves learning and teaching languages. A Communication Arts graduate, she now pursues a masters degree in Language Teaching. She is into mobile photography, writing poems, and reading for leisure.
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Aanya
Aanya
June 1, 2020 12:16 pm

Loved looking at ur signs!!!…

Minsoo
Minsoo
April 7, 2020 4:03 pm

So I confessed to my crush 2 years ago. Around the end of the passed year we started talking more and we have been playing games everyday while chatting. I don’t think that he likes me but everyone that I told about him are saying that he is feeling the same. And according to their proof he likes me what should I do?

jasmine
jasmine
March 25, 2020 2:39 am

when im at school and my crush savon is bye his friends and he keeps looking at me every 3 seconds and his friends laugh. and i ask what’s so funny and they say ” he likes you” and then he tells everyone we are dating when we are not.. and he says he doesn’t like me and but tells his friends he does but when i ask them if he does like me. they say no it’s just a joke but then i ask him and he says its not a joke but then after awhile he says it’s a joke when his friends are around i need help its making me really sad, confused and angry ?

txttaehyun
txttaehyun
March 21, 2020 5:03 am

So I like this guy and my friends ask him if he likes me he doesn’t say no or yes he just blushes. Also he’s always looking at me even staring. His friends tease me and we tend to be shy/awkward to each other.

Josie
Josie
March 18, 2020 12:50 am

hey anyone one wants
to be my bf

Emma
Emma
Reply to  Josie
March 19, 2020 8:33 pm

Hey guys. I’ve had a crush on this guy for 4 years. He’s my cousin’s cousin. (WE ARE NOT RELATED!!) He lives hours away from me and I don’t see him that often. But whenever I see him he’s always listening to what I’m saying, laughing at things I say, always staring at me, he even asks my sister question about me! I added him on Snapchat and he started a streak with me, but I don’t know what to do! Does he like me? Should I tell him? What if I tell him and he doesn’t feel the same way! That would be so awkward! Please give me advice!! Please! (He’s 2 years older than me too, is that weird. I’m in 8th he’s in 10th pls help.

Josie
Josie
March 11, 2020 8:13 pm

hey is someone a boy thats loking for a gf im here if u need me

Josie
Josie
March 8, 2020 1:47 am

hey guys what do you think i sould do

Liew Jayrett
Liew Jayrett
March 8, 2020 12:57 am

Well, I have a crush that Really like but i never get the symptoms from her. We are good friends and that does help a little . I get nervous on the inside when i am close to hear because I don’t want to do an action that messes things up

Josie
Josie
March 8, 2020 12:46 am

hey my crush dose not like me and I’m relay scared so what should i do. and i like him im so scared to ask him out because he likes a 7 year old when hes ten and she said she was 8 but he belived she was 8 Im 8 and shes 7 she is stilling my bf and Im so done with that little idot that keeps stilling my bf.

Josie
Josie
March 7, 2020 8:46 pm

hi i like this boy named Jacob he dose not like me but i like him how do i get him to like me…

John
John
March 3, 2020 1:38 am

There is a boy i like and he knows that i like him and sometimes he gives me signs. Like call me a funny name or when he talks about me to someone else he’ll get happy. But the thing is he says he likes someone but i never see him with the person or even have a whole conversation with them. So, what am trying to say i don’t know if he likes me.

Can i please get advice?

Unkown
Unkown
February 27, 2020 8:27 pm

so i like my friend and i don’t even know if he likes me or not. because sometimes he always tease me not in the bad way and he touch me and his hyper when i’m around. But i’m just confuse

Mia
Mia
February 27, 2020 4:45 pm

I have a crush and he has been in my grade for about a year. But here’s the thing, I have never ever talked to him but I really want to but don’t know how…..what do I do?

Aubrey
Aubrey
February 27, 2020 1:55 pm

So there is this boy named Spencer in my class, were both in sixth grade. He always asks me if I need help, I have caught him staring at me, he always complements me, one time all the sixth graders were playing dodge ball and I do not know how many times I got out ( almost a million ) and he complemented me and said I was amazing at dodge ball. Prior to this day, our school was doing Tech Test jr. and I am so stupid because there were these office chairs that spun and I tried getting on the chair and I fell down in front of the other local midle school Seven Hills, except he immediately said “Oh my gosh Aubrey are you okay” and I got up saying that I was okay trying to brush off what just happenend. The really sweet thing is that every day before I leave school, I can always depend on him to say “goodbye Aubrey” and I will say goodbye back to him. So, I am almost positive that he likes me, but I am still not sure, I switched schools in early Decemember and I am talking about the school I am in currently.
At the begining, of when I came there I did not have a crush on him, but now it is all coming to me that I like him. Every since I have been wondering if he likes me I have been smiling and just cannot stop thinking about him. I am trying to have the guts to ask him if he likes me, or if we could hold hands, if we could just do something together, but if he does not like me then I will and look like a fool. The reason I am writing for some insight is because I need to know what to do. I really like him because he opens up doors for me he is kind, courteous, and practically perfect. I want to from another perspective on how to go about this.
P.S. I go to a private Christian school * Spencer if you are reading this I want you to know that I care about you and I really, really like you. If you do not feel the same way I totally understand and support you in whatever you do, and to just let you know that I love you.

Anastasia
Anastasia
February 25, 2020 12:06 am

I think he likes you, and you should ask him out

Anastasia
Anastasia
February 25, 2020 12:04 am

So there’s a boy in my school, who I think likes me because he’s always staring at me in the lunch room, in the hallway, and in special. I don’t know if that’s a sign that he likes me or not.

P.S. I like him I just don’t know what to do? “HELP”

lilyana toth
lilyana toth
February 24, 2020 7:02 pm

you should ask him out guuuurl! if u know he likes you just git out there! im rooting 4 u

Giorgia
Giorgia
February 22, 2020 7:11 am

My crush told me the 2 names of his apparent crushes dles this mean he likes me?

abbie
abbie
February 5, 2020 7:37 pm

There is this guy I like and hes a senior at my school but im to scared to talk to him and he wants to hang with me and says he likes me what do i do im only a freshmen

I hate life
I hate life
January 30, 2020 10:05 pm

I like this boy and i think he likes me because he always stares at me and when I look at him he looks away blushing so do you guys think he likes me and if so should i ask him out

Pickle
Pickle
January 28, 2020 10:55 pm

I have this crush, and I really like him but, idk if he likes me, he talks to me when i need it and is very open and friendly, he also gets into LONG conversations with me, texting, but, he says he like this other girl, and one time i was on a feild trip with him and some other friends and i had the window seat, i was cold and he lent me his jacket, i was laying against the window with his jacket on and he thoughht i was aslppe, but i was just trying to sleep, and when other people were trying to wake me up as a joke he said to let me sleep, and then the bus moved and i fell on him, OMG, and i have had a few dreams about him when i sleep at night, he also hangs out with me and is super nice, and valentines day is in 17 days, and i want to tell him, but i dont want to get hurt, because i see him almost everyday. I dont know waht to do, i neeeed advice i really dont kno wether to tell him and potentially get my hart broken or just not tell him and not now for shur.

Pickle
Pickle
Reply to  Pickle
January 28, 2020 10:57 pm

oops there is 2

Pickle
Pickle
Reply to  Pickle
January 29, 2020 5:22 am

Also sometimes he will come over, and we’ ll have a small conversation, and he will ruffle my hair, he says it is soft, and he does it to some other people but, not as much as me…

XxcopyninjaxX
XxcopyninjaxX
Reply to  Pickle
April 20, 2020 8:13 am

bruh i wish that could happen to me and MY crush even though we “dated” for three days starting at the end of the school day on Friday to Monday god I hate 7-grade boys

My life=Drama
My life=Drama
Reply to  Pickle
June 4, 2020 9:16 pm

I feel like u should (sorry this is after valentines day) but first, try asking him about the other girl but at least your crush is w u, my crush is changing school to the other side of the city.

Shashwat Bakare
Shashwat Bakare
January 26, 2020 11:56 am

So I noticed my crush started to ignore me since a couple of days…
But I still don’t know if she likes me…
I try to be friendly but she keeps ignoring me…
So what should I do??

My life=Drama
My life=Drama
Reply to  Shashwat Bakare
June 4, 2020 9:12 pm

I (a girl) think that you should give her some space and in about 1week or 2weeks try again is she’s still like that then tell her what you feel, good luck!

anonymous girl
anonymous girl
January 22, 2020 9:44 pm

So there’s this guy I like, and I think he likes me to but there are some problems I can’t talk to him without being shy, and I don’t like being around a lot of people. He checks me out when we hangout he would do little jesters like opening doors, he’s too shy to start a conversation and I feel he’s not into me anymore what do I do.

Blessing
Blessing
January 15, 2020 4:41 pm

So like there’s a boy in my class that I really like and we’re friends but I feel like he’s giving me mixed feelings.Some times, he’s nice,caring,sits next to me and given winks at me sometimes and on to occasions he said he likes me and that he had a little crush on me but other times he ignores me, can be mean atimes and tends to sit next to other girls or his friends and likes being in a conversation with them and gets bored when next to me.He said I was the first female friend he had and that he considered me to be like his bff or sister.But he doesn’t show it,he doesn’t even have my number.what do I do?

Jayden
Jayden
January 15, 2020 5:49 am

I like this guy and I like him so much I’ve tried to hid my feelings and I know dang well he doesn’t like me at all… and I wanna tell him I can’t hide my feelings anymore but I don’t want people talking about us and he doesn’t even like me….

No one
No one
January 2, 2020 12:49 am

In so I have this crush and he is so cute and I only met him last year and we’ll we are friends and it looks like he likes me but I’m not sure and in one year we move to middle school his brother already is in middle school and his little brother my crush
Going is going to to his older brothers school with is the one I will not go to.

Jayden
Jayden
Reply to  No one
January 15, 2020 5:53 am

Girl I say go for if you think he is the right person go for it don’t be like me hiding my feelings if he says no he doesn’t know what he’s missing.

Lorelei
Lorelei
January 2, 2020 12:08 am

Maybe she wants someone else to ask her out, or she is playing hard to get

Savanna herrington
Savanna herrington
December 31, 2019 6:52 am

I have feelings for this guy. He’s in my most of classes, he helped me a lot. He treats me differently than other girls at school. He gets annoyed when the girls aggravated him a lot. But I also aggravated him and he looked at me in the eyes and smile at me. We been friends for 2 months now and I told him that I like him and has feelings for him. Since that day, he been sitting right next to me at the table with my group and asks me if I’m okay and how am I doing. I helped him with his studies. The girls asked him to study for njrotc before he’d get kicked out and he ignores it. When I asked him to study, he looked at me in the eyes and said I will study with that bright smile at me. He broke my umbrella and he fixed it t for me. He asked me to try his shoes on and i did. He gave me that same smile again. We talk and text a lot at school and breaks too. We getting know each other. We have a lot common in hunting, fishing, families problems, everything. He asked me if I wanted a soda while I was studying for a test. I love him and I have a lot of feelings for him. What should I do? Should i continue being friends with him?

Savanna herrington
Savanna herrington
December 31, 2019 6:39 am

Theres this guy always asking me if I have a boyfriend and he been sitting next to me since the day that I like him. He helped me a lot. He fixed my umbrella, he helped me stay awake in my class and he always there when I cried and he cheered me up in a funny goofy way. He asked me if I want a soda. We talk and text a lot during school and breaks. He knows everything about me. I really like him a lot and I have a feelings for him. But the problem is I don’t know if he like me too. Also he treats me differently than other girls. He gets annoyed cause girls keeps aggravating him. But when I aggravate him, he look at me and smile at me. What should I do or think about? Should I continue being his friend or not? I don’t want my heart to be broken again.

Savanna herrington
Savanna herrington
Reply to  Savanna herrington
December 31, 2019 6:39 am

*since the day I told him that I like him.

Noooooo
Noooooo
December 30, 2019 5:49 am

Ok I like this guy I work with, we’ve known each other for almost a month now and I’d really like to go out with him eventually. Whenever I come in to work (when I’m not scheduled) to talk to other friends working and he sees me he always stops and comes over to talk to me and “steal” me away from talking to them. I think he’s cute, funny and a good listener but I have a hard time knowing when he’s being serious. I can’t always tell whether he’s being serious or not when he tells me anything about him because he likes to joke around a lot. My friends think he likes me because he does look at me a lot and when I catch him he sometimes either quick looks away or looks away and smiles to him self. Also because when he’s around me he just wants to make me laugh, talk till our shifts are over, tease/joke with me and embarrass me in front of other customers and other employees we work with. He’s not good at responding on snap, like it might be 2-3 hours before he responds back but people tell me “that’s a guy thing”, “lots of guys do that” makingbit seem like that’s normal so I go with it. What makes me not sure if he likes me is that when we’re around some of his friends at work sometimes it feels like he ignores me just a little bit. Like we’ll be standing there and he’s talking to them but he won’t really look at me too much or direct his attention to me. Sometimes he does but sometimes he doesn’t so I don’t know how to go about that. Also this might be kind of weird to ask but he wears a band on his right ring finger, I’m pretty sure I know what it’s for but how can I ask him about it without offending, making him think I’m making fun of him for wearing it or something?

Thanks to anyone who actually reads this and tries to give me a little advice on what to do about Christian. 🙂

49ers
49ers
Reply to  Noooooo
August 14, 2020 5:05 am

just go for ask him you got this