15 Signs Your Crush Likes You

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Are you trying hard to find out whether your crush likes you too? Are you confused whether his/her actions towards you mean anything or you only overanalyze?

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15 Signs Your Crush Likes You

To help you resolve your inner conflict, and so you would know if it is time to forget about your feelings for him/her, here are 15 signs that show a person’s interest in you. Find them out and use them to assess your crush’s behaviors.

1. Steals glances at you

This is probably one of the most obvious clues that someone is into you. If you have caught your crush staring at you not just once or twice, then maybe those were not coincidences. Just keep observing if this will happen again.

2. Sends and responds with long messages

If you happen to have communication with your crushes like thru phone or social media, observe how long his/her usual messages to you are. If oftentimes s/he sends lengthy messages even when responding to a ‘yes’ or ‘no’ question, then it means s/he wants to keep your conversation going.

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3. Interested to know more about you

In a normal friendship or acquaintance setup, a person would not be too eager to know trivial information about you like the name of your pet and your favorite color. If your crush keeps on asking you such questions, then probably s/he is researching about your life.

4. Knows details you never told him/her

If your crush surprisingly knows your birthday or your middle name even if you never mentioned them to him/her, then probably s/he is doing research about you. This means only one thing—s/he is interested in you. It is quite flattering, right?

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5. Notices even small details about you

This is connected to #3. If your crush is interested to know everything about you, then expect that s/he is observant even to the tiny details of your being. For instance, s/he would ask you how you got the scar on your hand, or comment on your handwriting.

6. Appreciates you even in little things

If your crush is too grateful to you even just for passing on the tray of cookies or picking up his/her pen, then it could be a sign—unless s/he normally do it with everyone else. Furthermore, a person who likes you appreciate or praise you for almost anything like your haircut, being an early bird, or how you dress up.

7. Always willing to help you

The person who eagerly offers you help for just anything may actually like you. So, if your crush is always available to lend you a hand whenever you need it, then there could be a chance that s/he is trying to be impressive.

8. Can stand long conversations with you

You have to wonder if your crush keeps on engaging in long talks with you. Normally, unless you are BFF’s with the person, you would not waste hours of idle conversation with an ordinary friend. A fifteen to thirty-minute chitchat is long enough, but how about an hour or two of an unplanned sitting on the bench together and talking about anything under the sun?

9. Asks for your contact details

When a person asks for your mobile number and asks permission to add you on Facebook or Instagram, it does not automatically mean s/he likes you. However, this should be on your checklist, because the person who likes you would eventually do this. If this person asks for these details after a long time of being casual or friends with you, then it could be that s/he had to gather enough guts to finally do it. It is normal and easy for new friends to do this, but it is a bit weird if you have known each other for quite a while already.

10. Responds to invitations

Another behavior of a person who likes you is his/her automatic willingness to join you or your cause. In case you invite him/her to volunteer in a socio-civic organization, then s/he would not say ‘no’. If you invite him/her for dinner to discuss a business proposal, you would get an excited, positive response, even if the person is actually not business-minded.

11. Shares secrets with you

If your crush comfortably shares secrets with you even if you are not best friends, then it could be a sign that s/he likes you. This behavior could mean that s/he wants to open up about his/her life with you because s/he wants to get your acceptance and trust.

12. Unusually presentable when s/he knows you would be around

When you like someone and you know you would meet him/her, you exert greater effort to make yourself attractive, right? That is the same as the person who likes you. So, if you notice that your crush looks unusually more decent during expected meetups than when you only accidentally bump into each other, then s/he is probably trying to catch your eye.

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13. Finds ways to be near you always

If you notice that, even without you making an effort, you always end up in one group with or sitting beside your crush, then it is either the work of destiny or your crush. Just observe how your crush behaves whenever you are around. Does s/he pass by in front of you all the time or approach a friend who is in close proximity with you? Is it just coincidence and timing?

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14. Becomes awkward, timid, or hyper when you are around

How do you feel whenever your crush is nearby? Usually, it is either you tense up and become conscious of yourself or you get too excited and happy to the point that you overact. If your crush likes you too, then it is expected for him/her to feel the same. You can try to observe his/her behaviors in different situations: when you are around and not. You can ask for help from friends for this mission.

15. Changes mood when you hang out with someone else

How does your crush react whenever s/he sees you in deep conversation or walking side by side with someone else from the opposite sex? If you notice that every time this happens s/he becomes unusually gloomy, then maybe it is because of you. Other signs of jealousy are when s/he interrupts or joins you; passes by in front of you several times, or walks out or leaves the place.

Physical Signs Your Crush Likes you

1. Pupils dilate when they look at you
2. Smiles more at you than at others
3. Blushing and flushed skin when around you
4. His Voice Deepens When He’s Talk to You
5. His body language is open to you
6. Leaning closer to you
7. Mirroring your behavior
8. His body temperature Increase
9. Keeps glancing at you even if nothing is interesting to see
10. They Aren’t Blinking As Often
11. They Angle Their Bellybutton Towards You
12. He has clammy hands.
13. His eyebrows raise when he sees you
14. He points his toes toward you

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Can a Crush Turn Into Love?

1. You get to know the person better.
2. Your friendship grows over time.
3. You find out that you have compatible traits.
4. You realize that the person is also fond of you.
5. You see that your crush can help you grow as a person.
6. You feel special and cared for when you are together.
7. You develop mutual trust.
8. You become closely attached.
9. You feel comfortable and happy around the person.
10. You can see yourself growing old with that individual.

Please visit can a crush turn into love for the details.

9 Differences Between a Crush and a Friend

1. A crush makes you self-conscious; a friend makes you comfortable with your own skin.
2. A crush inspires you to do better; a friend encourages when you are unmotivated.
3. A crush is someone you want to impress; a friend is someone you can get real with.
4. A crush gives you butterflies in the stomach; a friend makes you nervous in a different way.
5. A crush keeps you daydreaming until late at night; a friend is someone you brainstorm ‘business plans’ with.
6. A crush is perfect in your sight; a friend is accepted for who s/he is, vice versa.
7. A crush is someone whose messages excite you; a friend is someone whose messages cheer you up.
8. A crush is someone you want to talk about interesting topics with; a friend is someone you can chat with about anything–and it is still interesting.
9. A crush can be temporary; a friend can stay for a lifetime.

Please visit the differences between a crush and a friend for the details.

10 Ways to Get Your Crush Notice You

1. Be a head-turner.
2. Smell irresistible.
3. Always wear a smile.
4. Excel at something to impress.
5. Be friends with him/her.
6. Find out his/her interests.
7. Show sincere concern and interest in the person.
8. Give praises and appreciation.
9. Play mysterious.
10. Don’t show you’re head-over-heels.

Please visit ways to get your crush to notice you for the details.

13 Ways to Impress Your Crush and Get Them to Like You

1. Wear your invisible crown.
2. Stay independent.
3. Groom yourself.
4. Stay fit.
5. Talk about your passions in life.
6. Show that goofy side of you.
7. Have a sense of humor.
8. Keep genuine interest.
9. find common ground.
10. Be kind.
11. Be a friend.
12. Be spontaneous.
13. Be yourself.

Please visit ways to impress your crush and get them to like you for the details.

12 Signs Your Crush Doesn’t Like You

1. Doesn’t stare at you for more than a second
2. Doesn’t give you a second glance
3. Can approach you without any hesitation
4. Doesn’t initiate or sustain communication with you
5. Is not available for you
6. Doesn’t seem impressed by whatever you do
7. Gets irritated by your constant presence
8. Rejects your offers
9. Doesn’t share personal stuff with you
10. Avoids you
11. Intentionally gets sweet with someone else whenever you are around
12. Ignores your messages

Please visit signs your crush doesn’t like you for the details.

Warning: Do not assume

Even if you can see most of the signs of your crush, please do not presume that s/he likes you. It is okay to feel good about the attention you get from this person, but unless s/he directly states it, do not assume anything. It may cause you to be aggressive, overfamiliar, and territorial, which could turn him/her off instead.

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Cyril Abello
Cyril is a personal development blogger and content writer. She is also an online language teacher. She has a degree in Communication Arts and loves everything about writing. Being a full-time mom, she enjoys freelancing.

188 thoughts on “15 Signs Your Crush Likes You”

  1. I have a crush on this boy not a long time ago. They owns the apartment where I live and his room is just behind mine. The first time I saw him I didn’t got attracted and just ignored him. But I started to got infatuated with him when he first talk to me, I felt comfortable and entertained talking to him. We got close to each other and we’re always together that’s why other people thought that we’re in a relationship. Though I am certain that I like him, I’m not sure if he feels the same towards me. I want to confess my feeling but I am afraid that he can’t reciprocate my feelings. I am afraid of the thought that he might dump me. what should I do?

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  2. don’t be surprised if I say ur crush likes you not just like but lo*ves u trying finding more about him or her and get close to his/her friends to know more about him or her I will like to know u

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  3. I had a crush on a girl that I know her for almost 10 years and I told that I’m into her and she said she will think but the weird thing is that she doesn’t talk to me a lot like old days… She is now talking to her ex and I’m afraid that she doesn’t like me at all… What should I do… I’m dying

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  4. So I really like this guy he is in my tennis class we are great friends, he is very confident but he is younger than me a bit but I still like him. Since he is confident he speaks to other girls in tennis but he always speaks to me. Sometimes when we talk he mentions about other girls like “do you know where is*****? I don’t know where she is” then he stops talking. Once we even had lunch together it was good. We hung out at the park together and he always tries his best to get close to me, like so close. He always wishes me luck and we friended each other on Roblox lol and we always chat with each other.
    HELPPP DO YOU THINK HE LIKES ME!?

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  5. OK STORY TIMEEE!!!!!
    SOOO about a year ago i have a huge crush on this guy and i have only spoke to him once just in a lecture and goodness he has a godly sweet voice hahaha… so the thing is that i always bump into him meteorically speaking like we meet coincidence after coincidence ( i kinda stalked him after the coincidences lol ) and he realizes that but still ignores me and I have heard him said to his friends “like this guy is following me or is always around me weird ay ” . i felt a lil bad about it ngl but i still like him idk why cause he really makes me kinda happy with his presence . So i started to avoid him for a while and GUESS WHAT I started to see him even more like idk if its a sign or destiny sh*t like that but it is happening whether im in a lift or stairs or in the corridors he’s just there and I get anxious af around him and only around him … He knows i like him and he’s not bothered about it . So basically i cant express mah feelings to him cause idk if he’s straight or not and im scared of rejection . Idk if im not his type or sexual orientation but still What should i do ? i mean we have seen each other alot of times so should confront him and start as friends or what?

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  6. ok so I have this crush on this guy and he said in a group chat of friends when I told him I like him in a private chat that, “I don’t like you” and then he wrote this long message in the private chat on if we can go meet up at the park and it is because he wants to get to know me better.

    Is he hiding a secret of liking me?

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  7. So im starting to like my boy best friend and he is always flirting and hanging out with me and teasing me and he gets over protective when i talk to his friends but i don’t know if he really wants me and his mom loves me and when i’m not at his house she talks about me all the time and i am friends with his siblings and his dad loves me so i mean if i dated him his parents would be happy and my mom knows him so i just wanted to know if he really loves me

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  8. i like my crush and he knows I like him and hes all ways staring at me but we don’t talk and he sits at the other end but when he gets up he gose my way not his way and he all ways smile at me and hes really nice we used to be really close last year but now hes all shy around me and when we walk out of class he comes really close to me and when we are pairing up and he sees all of my friends are are partnerd up he tells people not to choose him and then when me and him are the last one left he comes up and gose u want to be my partner and hes asked me a lot of times do u have a boy friend yet and I say no hes like idk how u don’t and hes been asking me if I want to go to the moves with him but I don’t know what to do and lately hes been coming up to me by behind and scaring me and then giving me a huge by behind and when it was book week he new I was going as Rapunzel so he went as rider of tangel and when we go to the movies all the time he asidentlys toches my hand

    what do I do

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  9. I’m having the same problem here too my crush idk if I like him or I’m in love we hang out everyday, we both like each other a lot but he is scared to be in another relationship we were separated from each for a week Bc we didn’t know this is was going to end but what can I do should I move on and go and hang with another dude or what ? Haha

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  10. i like this boy but idk if he likes me but he did tell my friends that he likes me but idk if she is telling the truth because me and her off and on friends ships and sometimes she likes so should i trust her that he likes me or not but i have also told him the i like him

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