15 Signs Your Crush Likes You

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Are you trying hard to find out whether your crush likes you too? Are you confused whether his/her actions towards you mean anything or you only overanalyze?

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15 Signs Your Crush Likes You

To help you resolve your inner conflict, and so you would know if it is time to forget about your feelings for him/her, here are 15 signs that show a person’s interest in you. Find them out and use them to assess your crush’s behaviors.

1. Steals glances at you

This is probably one of the most obvious clues that someone is into you. If you have caught your crush staring at you not just once or twice, then maybe those were not coincidences. Just keep observing if this will happen again.

2. Sends and responds with long messages

If you happen to have communication with your crushes like thru phone or social media, observe how long his/her usual messages to you are. If oftentimes s/he sends lengthy messages even when responding to a ‘yes’ or ‘no’ question, then it means s/he wants to keep your conversation going.

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3. Interested to know more about you

In a normal friendship or acquaintance setup, a person would not be too eager to know trivial information about you like the name of your pet and your favorite color. If your crush keeps on asking you such questions, then probably s/he is researching about your life.

4. Knows details you never told him/her

If your crush surprisingly knows your birthday or your middle name even if you never mentioned them to him/her, then probably s/he is doing research about you. This means only one thing—s/he is interested in you. It is quite flattering, right?

ALSO READ: 10 Sweet Things to Say to a Girl

5. Notices even small details about you

This is connected to #3. If your crush is interested to know everything about you, then expect that s/he is observant even to the tiny details of your being. For instance, s/he would ask you how you got the scar on your hand, or comment on your handwriting.

6. Appreciates you even in little things

If your crush is too grateful to you even just for passing on the tray of cookies or picking up his/her pen, then it could be a sign—unless s/he normally do it with everyone else. Furthermore, a person who likes you appreciate or praise you for almost anything like your haircut, being an early bird, or how you dress up.

7. Always willing to help you

The person who eagerly offers you help for just anything may actually like you. So, if your crush is always available to lend you a hand whenever you need it, then there could be a chance that s/he is trying to be impressive.

8. Can stand long conversations with you

You have to wonder if your crush keeps on engaging in long talks with you. Normally, unless you are BFF’s with the person, you would not waste hours of idle conversation with an ordinary friend. A fifteen to thirty-minute chitchat is long enough, but how about an hour or two of an unplanned sitting on the bench together and talking about anything under the sun?

9. Asks for your contact details

When a person asks for your mobile number and asks permission to add you on Facebook or Instagram, it does not automatically mean s/he likes you. However, this should be on your checklist, because the person who likes you would eventually do this. If this person asks for these details after a long time of being casual or friends with you, then it could be that s/he had to gather enough guts to finally do it. It is normal and easy for new friends to do this, but it is a bit weird if you have known each other for quite a while already.

10. Responds to invitations

Another behavior of a person who likes you is his/her automatic willingness to join you or your cause. In case you invite him/her to volunteer in a socio-civic organization, then s/he would not say ‘no’. If you invite him/her for dinner to discuss a business proposal, you would get an excited, positive response, even if the person is actually not business-minded.

11. Shares secrets with you

If your crush comfortably shares secrets with you even if you are not best friends, then it could be a sign that s/he likes you. This behavior could mean that s/he wants to open up about his/her life with you because s/he wants to get your acceptance and trust.

12. Unusually presentable when s/he knows you would be around

When you like someone and you know you would meet him/her, you exert greater effort to make yourself attractive, right? That is the same as the person who likes you. So, if you notice that your crush looks unusually more decent during expected meetups than when you only accidentally bump into each other, then s/he is probably trying to catch your eye.

ALSO READ: 10 Smart Ways to Get Your Crush Notice You

13. Finds ways to be near you always

If you notice that, even without you making an effort, you always end up in one group with or sitting beside your crush, then it is either the work of destiny or your crush. Just observe how your crush behaves whenever you are around. Does s/he pass by in front of you all the time or approach a friend who is in close proximity with you? Is it just coincidence and timing?

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14. Becomes awkward, timid, or hyper when you are around

How do you feel whenever your crush is nearby? Usually, it is either you tense up and become conscious of yourself or you get too excited and happy to the point that you overact. If your crush likes you too, then it is expected for him/her to feel the same. You can try to observe his/her behaviors in different situations: when you are around and not. You can ask for help from friends for this mission.

15. Changes mood when you hang out with someone else

How does your crush react whenever s/he sees you in deep conversation or walking side by side with someone else from the opposite sex? If you notice that every time this happens s/he becomes unusually gloomy, then maybe it is because of you. Other signs of jealousy are when s/he interrupts or joins you; passes by in front of you several times, or walks out or leaves the place.

Physical Signs Your Crush Likes you

1. Pupils dilate when they look at you
2. Smiles more at you than at others
3. Blushing and flushed skin when around you
4. His Voice Deepens When He’s Talk to You
5. His body language is open to you
6. Leaning closer to you
7. Mirroring your behavior
8. His body temperature Increase
9. Keeps glancing at you even if nothing is interesting to see
10. They Aren’t Blinking As Often
11. They Angle Their Bellybutton Towards You
12. He has clammy hands.
13. His eyebrows raise when he sees you
14. He points his toes toward you

Please visit Powerful Signs of Male Attraction for the details.

Can a Crush Turn Into Love?

1. You get to know the person better.
2. Your friendship grows over time.
3. You find out that you have compatible traits.
4. You realize that the person is also fond of you.
5. You see that your crush can help you grow as a person.
6. You feel special and cared for when you are together.
7. You develop mutual trust.
8. You become closely attached.
9. You feel comfortable and happy around the person.
10. You can see yourself growing old with that individual.

Please visit can a crush turn into love for the details.

9 Differences Between a Crush and a Friend

1. A crush makes you self-conscious; a friend makes you comfortable with your own skin.
2. A crush inspires you to do better; a friend encourages when you are unmotivated.
3. A crush is someone you want to impress; a friend is someone you can get real with.
4. A crush gives you butterflies in the stomach; a friend makes you nervous in a different way.
5. A crush keeps you daydreaming until late at night; a friend is someone you brainstorm ‘business plans’ with.
6. A crush is perfect in your sight; a friend is accepted for who s/he is, vice versa.
7. A crush is someone whose messages excite you; a friend is someone whose messages cheer you up.
8. A crush is someone you want to talk about interesting topics with; a friend is someone you can chat with about anything–and it is still interesting.
9. A crush can be temporary; a friend can stay for a lifetime.

Please visit the differences between a crush and a friend for the details.

10 Ways to Get Your Crush Notice You

1. Be a head-turner.
2. Smell irresistible.
3. Always wear a smile.
4. Excel at something to impress.
5. Be friends with him/her.
6. Find out his/her interests.
7. Show sincere concern and interest in the person.
8. Give praises and appreciation.
9. Play mysterious.
10. Don’t show you’re head-over-heels.

Please visit ways to get your crush to notice you for the details.

13 Ways to Impress Your Crush and Get Them to Like You

1. Wear your invisible crown.
2. Stay independent.
3. Groom yourself.
4. Stay fit.
5. Talk about your passions in life.
6. Show that goofy side of you.
7. Have a sense of humor.
8. Keep genuine interest.
9. find common ground.
10. Be kind.
11. Be a friend.
12. Be spontaneous.
13. Be yourself.

Please visit ways to impress your crush and get them to like you for the details.

12 Signs Your Crush Doesn’t Like You

1. Doesn’t stare at you for more than a second
2. Doesn’t give you a second glance
3. Can approach you without any hesitation
4. Doesn’t initiate or sustain communication with you
5. Is not available for you
6. Doesn’t seem impressed by whatever you do
7. Gets irritated by your constant presence
8. Rejects your offers
9. Doesn’t share personal stuff with you
10. Avoids you
11. Intentionally gets sweet with someone else whenever you are around
12. Ignores your messages

Please visit signs your crush doesn’t like you for the details.

17 Noticeable Signs She Wants You to Make a Move

1. She Makes an Effort to be Extra Beautiful Whenever You are Around.
2. She Acts and Talks Too Carefully.
3. She Seems Awkward Whenever You Are Around.
4. She Blushes When Others Tease You To Each Other.
5. She is Always on The Go Whenever You Want to Take Her Out.
6. She Makes Excuses to Be Alone with You.
7. She is Never Too Busy to Respond to Your Messages.
8. She Does Not Mind Having Long Phone Calls with You.
9. She Gives You a Hint That She Wants to Go Out with You.
10. She Calls or Messages You First for Random Reasons.
11. She Locks Eyes with You And Does Not Shy Away.
12. She Teases You a Lot.
13. She Invites You to Her Place.
14. She Opens Up About Her Past.
15. She Asks You About Your Ideal Girl.
16. She Likes to Know Your Impression of Her.
17. She Tries to Make You Jealous.

Please visit here to find out the Signs She Wants You to Make a Move.

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Warning: Do not assume

Even if you can see most of the signs of your crush, please do not presume that s/he likes you. It is okay to feel good about the attention you get from this person, but unless s/he directly states it, do not assume anything. It may cause you to be aggressive, overfamiliar, and territorial, which could turn him/her off instead.

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Cyril Abello
Joan is a freelance blogger who loves writing about personal development. She also loves learning and teaching languages. A Communication Arts graduate, she now pursues a masters degree in Language Teaching. She is into mobile photography, writing poems, and reading for leisure.
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David
David
December 28, 2019 1:29 pm

So I like this girl at school, and I asked her out a long time ago but she said she didn’t want a relationship at that time, I think she likes me back but I’m not sure and it’s killing me on the inside, your thoughts

My life=Drama
My life=Drama
Reply to  David
July 22, 2020 11:28 am

try now time passed and if she truly likes u then she should say yes .-.

Sophie
Sophie
December 21, 2019 10:07 am

Ummmm so I like this boyyy
And all his friends say he likes me
But he says he doesn’t
Although I always catch him staring at me and he always wants to talk and then he keeeeeeeeps in talking to me (which is nice) sooooooooooo
I don’t know
He always seems to find me at recess, and we are playing hand ball so he joins in. He always seems to want to be near me and likes physical contact

Helpppppppppp

Courtney
Courtney
December 16, 2019 4:13 am

Ok I had a dream about a boy and I am obsessed with him what do I do please respond fast my dream was we were getting married and he kissed me in the hall on the cheeks and my friend were looking at me like you go girl😂

Frozen
Frozen
December 14, 2019 12:51 pm

I like this boy and I don’t know if he likes me back Help what should I do my friend told me to tell him during the volley ball game but I am too shy and nervous what should I do please help. And he might like this other girl but IDK.

Lorelei
Lorelei
Reply to  Frozen
January 2, 2020 12:16 am

Show him signs that you like him and if he likes you be will ask you if you like him

Anna
Anna
December 9, 2019 4:20 pm

I like this boy but I don’t know whether he likes me back. What should I do

Lorelei
Lorelei
Reply to  Anna
January 2, 2020 12:20 am

Don’t do anything like me I’m just watching for signs

Hazel Centeno
Hazel Centeno
December 7, 2019 11:48 pm

I need help bcuz he stares at me but idk if he likes me can you give me some advice plz

Lorelei
Lorelei
Reply to  Hazel Centeno
January 2, 2020 12:22 am

Just stay calm and watch

Lou
Lou
December 7, 2019 3:12 am

Okay I like this guy he is cute and he is my neighbor and he has a girlfriend and he always looks at me and finds ways to be by me and he always comes outside when I ask he is nice and sweet and caring to me do you think he likes me

Lorelei
Lorelei
Reply to  Lou
January 2, 2020 12:27 am

Yes but he has a girlfriend just wait it otherwise it will be a disaster and you will not get a chance with him

kendrick
kendrick
November 22, 2019 12:20 pm

I have this crush who i loved since like a year ago.I tried to keep it a secret but i eventually told my best friend. She went ahead and broke one of our trust rules and told another girl who was really close to him. The girl is a blabbermouth so she told everyone in class. It took me a year to realize that something was wrong. My friend confessed later when the damage had been done. She also told me that she liked my crushes bestie. The BL(blabbermouth)told me that my crush also liked me and was fighting for me with his pal and things were getting bad between them. My crush broke up with his longtime gf only to prove to me that he was interested but then the girl knew what was going on and tried to make me pay. My crush stopped her just in time. Then his sister got really sick and had to be in ICU so things kinda cooled down. Then we had these tests that i flunked and now i think he hates me cause he’s a straight-A student and does not tolerate ”idiots”. Please help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Lou
Lou
Reply to  kendrick
December 7, 2019 3:14 am

Talk to him have him tutor you

Lorelei
Lorelei
Reply to  Lou
January 2, 2020 12:31 am

Yes do that it’s perfect

Carmella Jones Brook
Carmella Jones Brook
Reply to  kendrick
February 6, 2020 4:56 pm

If he is willing to break up with his girlfriend,fight his best friend, and defend you from his girlfriend that he broke up with for you, you have nothing to worry about.One test is not going to ruin it all and as long as you have good grades then you have nothing to worry about.One bad test does not make you idiot.Some test are harder than others,and everyone has there academic weaknesses.Mine is history and I am sure he struggles in a class too he just doesn’t show it so don’t worry girl you got him wrapped around your finger.

Simplicidy
Simplicidy
November 22, 2019 7:35 am

So I’m a girl and I like this girl I don’t think she likes me but I really like her my dad doesn’t know I like girls and my cousin is her ex girlfriend both my cousin and the girl I like lives with me and the girl I like sleeps in my bed with me please help so I know what to do any advise on telling her and my dad and my cousin

Zer0
Zer0
Reply to  Simplicidy
September 28, 2020 2:38 pm

I have some advice for you but,you will have to reach out more if you want advice

Jayla
Jayla
November 16, 2019 9:42 pm

And she always Pat’s me on the head @/////@
But I wish she’d like me back what do I do?!?!

Jayla
Jayla
November 16, 2019 9:39 pm

I met this girl but I’m not sure if she likes me because she has a crush on sombody else and she does all of these alot

i dont give my name
i dont give my name
November 15, 2019 3:24 am

i have a crush who is my best friend and whenever i walk past my crush in the hall he smiles at me and heads off i look behind me he told me that he smiles in the hall when he see’s me only whenever i’m at his house he comes up behind me and tickles my sides. he also tell’s anyone sitting next to him to move so i can sit by him my other friend told me that at my soccer game my crush cheered for me and blushed so idk.

Lorelei
Lorelei
Reply to  i dont give my name
January 2, 2020 12:34 am

That is so cute😻

Ali Bernhardt
Ali Bernhardt
November 10, 2019 10:00 pm

How do I ask my crush to hang out without being to conspicuous if i’m to shy to actually talk to him and i want to ask in person?

Juliana
Juliana
November 10, 2019 3:44 am

wow, I am happy for you!

Juliana
Juliana
November 10, 2019 3:41 am

maybe he’s shocked? I dunno sorry I am confused as well.

Juliana
Juliana
November 10, 2019 3:24 am

I like someone and he acts like he likes me I guess. We would like accidentally like brush hands against each other and stuff. And we talk a lot. Oh! He also sits next to me in the one class we have together. Like when the teacher is done explaining a project he lets us go wherever and sit wherever. So the person I like would get up from his seat and sit right next to me. I get like so happy! XD! So anyway, anyone out there do y’all think he’s into me? because I see him walking down the hallways next to like two girls, so that gave me some doubts. Like maybe he acts the way he does to me to every other girl out there. I just dunno. Help? Anyone?

Faith-Coffel-Lewis
Faith-Coffel-Lewis
November 8, 2019 9:53 pm

How come my crush always walks me home and gives me a hug before i get inside my home
and he is always saying the same things i say like with problem at home. i’ll say that one of my siblings did something and he would say that his sibling did the same thing before.

HELP ME PLZ

Jordynn
Jordynn
November 3, 2019 2:54 pm

I like this guy we are also friends and idk if he likes me back or not I have a lot of classes with and I always see him looking at me and we always push each other for fun and he’s always around me when we would have assemblies he would make whoever is sitting next to me move so he can sit next to me. But he’s also told me he only likes me as a friend he’s also told me he loves me as a friend. So idk

Juliana
Juliana
Reply to  Jordynn
November 10, 2019 3:29 am

I think he’s maybe shy to admit that he likes you. But, by the way you described how he acts towards you I would definitely say he likes you! Anyway, just my advice, Good luck!

Maddie
Maddie
Reply to  Juliana
January 15, 2020 1:10 am

Hey so I asked my crush if he has a phone number and he said mabey with a smile.I dont understand what that means or how to respond.

Anonymous
Anonymous
Reply to  Jordynn
November 25, 2019 4:36 am

It depends on the age you guys are! Not to be creepy, you of course don’t have to tell us, but it eould help both of us understand better. Guys, of different ages react differently. I hope this helps. And don’t find this creepy too.

I don't give my name
I don't give my name
November 3, 2019 7:39 am

I have a crush on this guy and my friends thinks he like me but i dunno if that’s true, he is being nice and he asked me for my phone number. I still haven’t answered cause it was on a note and stuff so ye what should i do???
Email and stuff ain’t real.FYI

Anonymous
Anonymous
Reply to  I don't give my name
November 25, 2019 4:33 am

I think you should open up with your feelings! He doesn’t know how he feels, maybe he just needs a little nudge and know how you feel. I hope this helps! Sorry, for this late advice. 💙💛

Nik
Nik
November 1, 2019 11:32 pm

I like a guy I work with but he is with someone so I know nothing can happen

Kelly
Kelly
November 1, 2019 5:54 am

I recently like two guys… One of them I like and the other makes me have butterflies in my stomach! The first one is really funny, nice, and charming. The other is the same but intimidating. Who should I pick? Here’s some information about some of them…

the first guy has been a little weird lately and would unexpectedly just switch seats with the person I’m sitting next to at lunch. One time, he dared to look straight at me and cut 4 people to sit next to me. It made me wonder if he’s doing it to tease me or him taking interest in me.. Also, I think he caught me looking at him more than 5 times–

BTW, both of them are popular, so they’re so out of my league, and the first guy likes a girl who’s more attractive and talented than me.

The second dude… Oh boy. Yesterday, out of nowhere, he asked me to help him with his homework after school and I agreed. Out of all people, he would ask ME. He could’ve asked his friends to help him…

Weird to say, but they’re just too much for me to handle! What should I do?! Should I try to stick to like one person?

Alexia Mentzel
Alexia Mentzel
October 27, 2019 7:04 pm

I really like this guy and wish he would like me back like badlyyy how do I do that ?😂😂
We play squash together every weekend! I want to tell him how I feel but I don’t think he feels the same way !! What do I do!?!!??

lillian
lillian
Reply to  Alexia Mentzel
December 1, 2019 3:20 am

my crush gives me gifts or hugs and evens says that he loves me

Hannah
Hannah
October 23, 2019 4:53 pm

Am I the only one here who has a crush on a girl?
It’s not really cool cause we’re in the same class and she’s really social and she’s good to everyone so u can’t even tell if she considers u as a friend.
Do u have any idea what should I do?
BTW she’s like a popular kid and I’m a totally normal one so..

The girl
The girl
Reply to  Hannah
February 25, 2021 10:24 pm

I think that I have a crush on a girl too. But you can just act like a friend and you will be happy with that, I know.

Pineapple
Pineapple
October 20, 2019 8:14 pm

So, my crush called me saying he was just calling random people. In my experience I only do that when i want to call someone and don’t have a good enough reason. I don’t really know what to do but I did befriend his best friend. Any tips?

nickname: av
nickname: av
October 20, 2019 4:32 pm

it all started with him liking me, which lasted for over 2 months. i could tell by the way he looked at me or acted around me. but when i started to like him… i think it was too late, he doesn’t make same effort anymore. is it possible for him to ever in future like me again?
i really don’t know what to do. Pls help.

Juliana
Juliana
Reply to  nickname: av
November 10, 2019 3:36 am

Honestly, I’m sorry to tell you and I am someone who tells people good news but anyway, I think he… moved on. Maybe he thought that you would never like him and he just moved on. Idk. Just my opinion. I really hope I am wrong. But maybe what you can do is to make it just a little bit obvious that you like him and maybe he might acting like he likes you again. Ya never know!

Angelina
Angelina
October 20, 2019 5:32 am

So there is this guy that I like
We talk a lot and I heard that he talk about me in good way with he’s friends but he told me he like other girl but I don’t get how he like other girl and when ever he see me he talk to me and he like to be with me all the time but I tell him no because others will know I like him what should I do

Anonymous
Anonymous
October 15, 2019 10:51 pm

So there’s this guy in class i have it so bad for him…i don’t want to get ahead of myself because it could be just a coincidence…so we’re working in the same group and but there’s been a couple of occasions where i find him pretty close to me and there was this one time where our eyes just locked onto each other and I don’t know maybe it’s my imagination but I’ve seen him stealing a glance at me and at times i move aways from him but i find him near me…but we never had a serious conversation i always avoid him…

Col
Col
October 7, 2019 3:48 pm

So I like this woman she is amazing person but am not sure if she likes me back.

Kay_kay
Kay_kay
October 2, 2019 10:50 pm

I think if you take it slow and come around more often they will get to know you more and I think when they get to know you they tend to make it more and more obvious that they like you

Kookie qwq
Kookie qwq
October 2, 2019 10:42 am

So yeah, I have a crush on this guy, but he’s from the other section… Everytime I see him, I always become nervous, and when I’m near him, I pulpitate, and my hands are getting cold… TwT

My friend knew who was his crush, but she can’t say it to me, idk why. ;w; She only said 2 clues, and I asked her if she was our classmate, or his classmate. She was smiling but she said she can’t reveal it qwq

I was actually assuming and thinking he likes me, but I feel like he doesn’t too, and I sometimes catch him looking at me, then when I look at him, he looks away :,))

But I feel like he doesn’t like me… can someone give me advice, should I confess? :,((

Nobody
Nobody
Reply to  Kookie qwq
January 25, 2021 6:38 am

Anything happens by now…..pls tell…. and give me some hope cuz I also feel that he likes me back…