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Long Distance Love: How to Keep it Strong Despite the Doubts

Last Updated on: May 15, 2022 by Charm Villalon

Many people who have experienced being in a long-distance relationship know the struggle to keep their love alive. The problem does not come from their willingness to try, but it springs from the challenges and obstacles that continuously make them feel emotionally exhausted. In other words, instead of being happy and inspired, sometimes an LDR …

11 Important Qualities of a Good Friend

Last Updated on: May 15, 2022 by Charm Villalon

Good friends are not that hard to find as long as you know how to recognize them. But, unfortunately, sometimes, most people don’t even realize that they are already in the presence of one just because they’re too busy hanging out with the wrong crowd. The best people you can have as friends may vary, …

12 Ways to be More Understanding in a Relationship

Last Updated on: June 27, 2022 by Charm Villalon

There’s a reason why Understanding is one of the top qualities of a good partner in a romantic relationship. Aside from the fact that this trait allows your partner to be who they want to be without the fear of being judged, it lets you see things from other people’s perspectives. If you’re still struggling …

11 Ways to Remain Faithful in a Relationship

Last Updated on: June 27, 2022 by Charm Villalon

Faithfulness in a romantic commitment especially if you’ve already been together for a while can be one of the most important qualities that will determine whether a relationship can last or not. This is because, as you add more years to your time of being together, there are moments when you no longer find the …

10 Differences between Loving Someone and being in Love with Someone

Last Updated on: May 25, 2022 by Charm Villalon

Do you think there’s a difference between loving someone and falling in love? While these phrases have been used synonymously to describe a typical love story, they are actually two totally distinct experiences. Knowing what makes them similar and what distinguishes them can make a huge difference especially if you’re in a new relationship. Here …

How to Resolve Trust Issues in a Long Distance Relationship

Last Updated on: June 27, 2022 by Charm Villalon

Love cannot survive without trust – and this is true especially if you’re in a long-distance relationship. Trust is the most difficult to build in any type of commitment and yet, it’s also the most fragile especially if you just hit it at the right spot. Just like that, a single crack has the power to destroy the strongest relationship into ruins.

If you’re in an LDR and you did something that made your partner lose their trust in you (or if you’re trying to forgive a lover who failed your test of honesty and loyalty), then this article is for you.

Here are some of the ways on how you can resolve trust issues in a long-distance relationship.

How to Make Your Long Distance Relationship Last Longer

Last Updated on: May 15, 2022 by Charm Villalon

It’s always a challenge to keep a long-distance relationship from breaking apart. Aside from the fact that it can become complicated because of the limits that both time and distance can set on your relationship, an LDR will also test your patience, love for your partner, and, most importantly, love for yourself. If you think …

How to Fix a Long Distance Relationship After a Fight

Last Updated on: May 20, 2022 by Charm Villalon

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While some fights are simple and too powerless to ruin a beautiful love story, there are types of arguments that can cause even the most committed couples to break up. For instance, triggers such as lack of trust, infidelity, overprotectiveness, and clinginess can easily weaken a long-term relationship – most especially if it’s a long-distance relationship.

If you are currently in an LDR and would want to know if your arguments are slowly destroying your relationship, answer these questions first: Did your previous misunderstandings change something about your relationship? Second, do you feel that something is different after failing to fix an argument properly? Lastly, do you think things will never be the same again after those fights?

If you answered YES to even just one of these questions, then you do need help. Here are some tips on how to fix a long-distance relationship after a fight.

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11 Types of Bad Relationships You Must Avoid at All Cost

Last Updated on: May 26, 2022 by Charm Villalon

There are several qualities of a good relationship and many people can easily tell if they’re with the right person or not. The ones that are difficult and often confusing to figure out, however, are the actual characteristics and clear descriptions of a bad relationship. Love is blind, they say – and this poses danger …

How to Have a Successful First Date with Someone You Met Online

Last Updated on: May 26, 2022 by Charm Villalon

So you’re finally meeting that special someone in person, after talking to them for quite a while online. While it sure sounds exciting, at the same time, it can be nerve-racking. You get excited that you’ll finally be able to see them in the flesh and somehow scared that they might be different from how …

12 Smart Online Dating Tips for Women

Last Updated on: May 1, 2022 by Charm Villalon

Have you ever tried online dating or are you too scared to give internet dating platforms a chance? While this method of meeting potential partners doesn’t have a perfect reputation, it has its advantages and can be a good alternative to regular, traditional dating – especially in this day and age. Whether you want to …

12 Dating Tips for Shy Guys

Last Updated on: May 14, 2022 by Charm Villalon

Finding that special someone is a challenge for everyone. This is true especially for shy guys who don’t know how to overcome the anxiety of going on a date with someone special. In contrary to the usually confident image of most guys, there are some who feel the opposite about themselves, and that’s why it’s …

11 Tips for Your First Date after Meeting Online

Last Updated on: May 8, 2022 by Charm Villalon

Unlike older generations, younger people nowadays consider online dating as one of the best ways to find a romantic partner. While this option of meeting someone new has its disadvantages and risks, it also presents several advantages and opportunities that have helped many people finally write their own love story. There are successes and failures …

11 Tips to Make Your Life Easier and Less Stressful

Last Updated on: May 9, 2022 by Charm Villalon

Is there such a thing as a perfectly easy and stress-free life? If you have lived long enough, you’ll probably just laugh at this question because you know the answer very well. Yes, it’s true that anyone who says their life is perfect and free from worries might be lying – but it doesn’t mean that you can’t find the peace of mind that you want to experience on a daily basis. As long as you know where to start, living a relatively easy and carefree life is possible.

Here are some pieces of advice and helpful tips to live an easier and less stressful life.

30 Quotes about Trust in a Relationship

Last Updated on: May 13, 2022 by Charm Villalon

You can never fully say that you love someone if you don’t trust them. Trusting someone means that you believe in that person to never betray you and your relationship. It means that you have confidence that they are capable of keeping the promise you’ve made to each other and that they value your relationship …

14 Ways to Make Your Relationship Grow

Last Updated on: May 9, 2022 by Charm Villalon

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Growth in a relationship isn’t something that can be easily achieved. It is a product of hard work, patience, and true commitment. It is not just being happy and staying together. A relationship can grow if the people in it learn how to work together, take care of each other, and most especially, value themselves.

Most often than not, many relationships fail because they become boring and stagnant. To prevent such a thing from happening in your own relationship, you have to learn how to improve yourself first. In other words, you have to discover how to become a better person not just for yourself but for your relationship – because once you are happy with yourself, you become a better partner to your significant other.

Here are some inspiring ways to make your love and relationship grow:

How to Be a Loyal Partner in a Relationship: 11 Tips to Remember

Last Updated on: May 16, 2022 by Charm Villalon

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How do you define ‘loyalty’ and what roles does it play in making a relationship last? Most importantly, what are the things that you should remember if you want to learn the true value of loyalty?

These questions can be difficult to answer especially if you’re new to the world of romantic relationships. Young couples don’t truly understand what loyalty is not because they lack the experience but because they don’t really know where to start.

To help them out, this article will discuss some of the tips on how to be a loyal partner in a relationship:

14 Signs Your Long Distance Relationship is Working

Last Updated on: May 19, 2022 by Charm Villalon

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A long-distance relationship can be challenging especially if you are not aware of the dos and don’ts of managing this type of commitment – and even if you know your LDR basics, it’s also essential to figure out if they are actually doing their magic. How?

Here are some of the most important signs that your long-distance relationship is working.

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1. Nothing changed – except for the distance between you.

Although there have been a few adjustments here and there during the first weeks of being apart, one of the signs that your relationship is doing excellent is that nothing changed except for the fact that you live far from each other.

For instance, you still do the same things you enjoyed when you were together except for the activities requiring your partner’s physical presence.

14 Characteristics of a Healthy Relationship

Last Updated on: April 29, 2022 by Charm Villalon

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Being in a relationship can either break or make a person. Sometimes, you don’t realize that you are holding onto a toxic relationship or that you are already hurting yourself, or your partner, by just trying to make it work. What’s worse is, staying in this kind of situation does not only affect you emotionally but can also influence how you live your life.

That is why it is important to know if the relationship is good for you or not – but how will you know if you’re in a healthy relationship or in the complete opposite? Here are 14 characteristics of a healthy relationship you should know to figure it out.

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20 Qualities of Relationships that Last

Last Updated on: May 26, 2022 by Charm Villalon

You don’t find a happy and long-lasting relationship – you create one. Unfortunately, many couples don’t realize this because they are too occupied with the thoughts of finding perfection in an obviously imperfect world. Instead of spending their energy on finding ways to make their relationship last, they tend to focus on the burden of …

14 Simple Secrets of a Happy Couple

Last Updated on: May 14, 2022 by Charm Villalon

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Happiness in a relationship doesn’t always come easy but there are just rare and special circumstances where two people effortlessly make it work – and it’s not because they’re soulmates and they think that they’re destined for each other. In fact, most of the time, it’s the opposite.

The happiest couples in the world are made up of two people, strengthened in a union in which one complements what the other lacks; a partnership composed of different and dissimilar traits that perfectly fit like unique pieces of a puzzle.

It may sound too good to be true, but this article will help you understand this concept of such beautiful irony in love. If you want to know how happy couples find and maintain happiness in their relationship, this list is for you.

Here are the simple secrets of a happy couple that you should learn from:

12 Long Distance Relationship Advice for Guys

Last Updated on: April 29, 2022 by Charm Villalon

Some guys don’t pass the test when it comes to making a long-distance relationship last. Why? It’s because they tend to act like little boys who easily get excited about new things and new people – even if it means letting go of what they already have or hurting someone they love to have “fun”. …

12 Long Distance Relationship Advice Every Girl Should Know

Last Updated on: May 14, 2022 by Charm Villalon

Long Distance Relationship Advice Every Girl Should Read

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Are you currently in a long-distance relationship and having a tough time adjusting? Are you happy and in love with someone who is miles away from you or, are you just barely surviving and desperately holding on? If you’ve answered yes to any of these two questions, then this article is perfect for helping you manage and stay true to this challenging commitment.

Here are some pieces of long-distance relationship advice for girls in love.

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9 Tips for Starting a Long Distance Relationship

Last Updated on: April 27, 2022 by Charm Villalon

Couples often face challenges that will test not only their love for each other but their commitment to their relationship. One of the biggest events that young lovers often experience is to spend time away from each other, and sometimes for a long time. A long-distance relationship is not an easy stage but most couples …

11 Romantic Valentine’s Day Date Ideas for Couples

Last Updated on: April 28, 2022 by Charm Villalon

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There are many ways to express your love for someone every day, but there are some of the year when you have to double your effort and make your declarations of love more special and exceptionally unforgettable – like on Valentine’s Day.

There’s a long list of activities that couples can turn to when celebrating this occasion. However, others often ditch the traditional dinner dates and try to be creative by thinking and planning of other more unique options.

How about you, how are you planning to celebrate Valentine’s Day? If you still don’t know the answer to that, this article will help you plan for that perfect moment.

Here are the most heartwarming Valentine’s Day date ideas for you.

11 Valentine’s Day Ideas for Long Distance Couples

Last Updated on: May 17, 2022 by Charm Villalon

Valentine’s Day celebrates the magic of love, reminding couples to express and accept it as a manifestation of life’s greatest miracle. During this day, we do everything just to make our loved ones feel special: we give them flowers, buy them gifts, take them out on a date, anything just to make the moments memorable. …

11 Ways to Show Your Girlfriend that You Care

Last Updated on: May 18, 2022 by Charm Villalon

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When you truly love your girl, you’d do anything in the world just to make her happy. You’d make every effort and grab every opportunity to make her feel that she’s the luckiest person on earth. You’d do all that because you know very well that she’s special and she deserves all the good things that life can offer.

As a boyfriend, it’s your job to show her that she is loved, so you have to do everything right. While some people find it easy to show their girlfriend that they care, others are not so good with words. Sometimes, they don’t even know where to start or what to do.

Should you give her flowers? Should you buy her favorite chocolates? Is it a nice idea if you spend a day at the beach or just stay at home and watch movies?

If you think you’re one of those guys who have no clue on how to show their girlfriend that they care, don’t worry. This article will give you some sweet and interesting tips on how to be the most romantic and caring partner that you can be.

Here they are:

How to Accept Someone for Who They Are in a Relationship

Last Updated on: May 17, 2022 by Charm Villalon

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One of the ways to a healthy and successful relationship is genuinely accepting your partner for who they are. However, most couples fail to recognize this fact because they are either too busy looking for perfection or too occupied focusing on their partner’s flaws.

If you’re currently facing the same challenges in your relationship, don’t worry. This article will help you figure out different ways to help you overcome them.

Here are some inspiring tips on how to learn to accept someone for who they are in a relationship.

1. Treat your partner as an actual human being.

And not just as an object to be admired and to be possessed. Accepting someone for who they are, does not mean treating them as a prize or an accessory to be displayed in front of your peers.

How to Save a Dying Long Distance Relationship: 8 Uplifting Tips

Last Updated on: May 11, 2022 by Charm Villalon

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So you’re in an LDR and you’ve never seen each other in a while. You’re starting to grow apart and it’s not only because you are miles away from them but because you’ve met new people and discovered exciting experiences outside of your relationship.

While your current life seems fun and thrilling, you know deep in your heart that it’s just a matter of time before you lose the person you love for good – and you don’t want that because you know that at the end of the day, no matter how much you enjoy your present life, you still feel incomplete and alone.

Most long-distance relationships die and fade away in this process. Sometimes, it’s a slow and painful death and other times, it just catches you by surprise. Regardless of how it happens, both are heartbreaking.

If you’re going through the same thing, you still have time to fix it. Take a look at some of the ways to help save a dying long-distance relationship.

10 Ways to Save Your Relationship from a Breakup

Last Updated on: May 13, 2022 by Charm Villalon

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Most people believe that breakups are the easiest way out especially if they’re going through a painful stage in their relationships. Some of them think that in order to avoid the hurt and suffering of the present, they have to say goodbye before it’s already too late. While this kind of mentality seems practical, it’s actually one of the reasons why we lose the chance to be truly happy with the person meant for us.

Easily giving up on something just because it’s hard and sometimes painful will not help you find true happiness in a relationship. Just like how the famous line goes, nothing good comes easy. You have to take on a lot of obstacles first before you can finally get what you have always deserved: true love and a genuinely happy relationship with someone who is courageous enough to face it all.

The point is, it’s unfair to give up on love just because you can’t handle the challenges thrown at you. If you think you don’t have the strength and the faith to keep going, read on.

Here are some of the ways that you can do to save your relationship from a breakup.