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How to be a Humble Person: 20 Ways to Get Rid of Pride

Last Updated on: May 16, 2022 by Cyril Abello

Proud people are annoying, right? They are those who always think they are better than others and never get tired of flaunting their accomplishments. Worse, they can be aggressive if you outshine them—they would not accept defeat. As you do not like prideful people, you have to be careful not to be like them so …

16 Good Reasons Not to Fall in Love

Last Updated on: May 21, 2022 by Cyril Abello

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Being in love is one of the most beautiful feelings you could ever feel. It could take you to cloud nine and make the world and time standstill. This feeling is so powerful that it could stand against all odds and cause you to swallow your pride.

Nevertheless, like fire, being in love can be either constructive or destructive. If it inspires you to be a better person, then it is something to treasure. On the other hand, if it causes your world to fall apart, then it is tragic.

Love is beautiful and everyone needs it. However, it does not mean that falling in love with anyone, anywhere, and anytime is always right. If your mind tells you it is wrong, then you probably have to listen.

Here are 16 good reasons why you should not fall in love.

How to Put God at the Center of Your Relationship: 17 Ways

Last Updated on: May 13, 2022 by Cyril Abello

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Women are often told to look for men who love them more than they (these girls) would ever love these guys back to make sure they won’t be cheated on. However, isn’t this a bit unfair for men? I believe they deserve to be loved as much as possible too. Well, if you want a …

20 Signs God is at the Center of Your Relationship

Last Updated on: May 3, 2022 by Cyril Abello

An ideal relationship is not only romantic and Instagram-worthy. It should motivate the couple to be holistically better and productive. Also, it must be founded on commitment, respect, trust, and true love. Putting God at the center can help a lot in keeping a relationship healthy, strong, and harmonious. It is a good foundation that …

Love vs. Like: 21 Differences between I Love You and I Like You

Last Updated on: May 4, 2022 by Cyril Abello

How do you know if you love someone? Is it true Love or mere attraction you feel? What is the difference between “I love you” and “I like you”? Many thought they had already found the Love of a lifetime only to end up with so many tears. Some say they do not believe in …

40 Effective Pieces of Love Advice Every Couple Should Know

Last Updated on: May 5, 2022 by Cyril Abello

Is there a way to keep your relationship going and growing as time passes by? How can you keep your love long-lasting when breakups seem to be the trend these days? Love is a gamble that has no assurance. It always takes a risk—but is worth it. As a couple, if both of you want …

60 Powerful Love Tips for a Lasting Relationship

Last Updated on: April 27, 2022 by Cyril Abello

No relationship is perfect. However, if couples would only learn to put up with each other’s flaws and willingly work together, then romantic relationships can last. Check out these 60 powerful love tips on how you can create a long-lasting relationship. 1. Make your relationship a triangle among God, your partner, and yourself—with God at …

30 Ways to Forgive Yourself and Move On from the Past

Last Updated on: May 22, 2022 by Cyril Abello

Have you hurt someone you love because of wrong decisions? Are you being tormented by guilt because of the terrible mistakes you have done? What the ‘victims’ and ‘commentators’ do not know is that the torture experienced by those who committed the ‘crime’ is usually double or triple the suffering the ‘victims’ go through. Aside …

100 Ways to Make Your Life More Meaningful

Last Updated on: May 26, 2022 by Cyril Abello

It is not enough that we live. We have to live a meaningful life so that during our last moments on earth, we would not regret anything. That means everything we do should have a purpose, and every decision we make must have a goal to reach. Wealth, fame, and position do not guarantee a …

100 Tips on How to Move on after a Breakup

Last Updated on: April 27, 2022 by Cyril Abello

I know moving on the tips are easier said than done. No amount of comfort from friends and family can erase the pain you are feeling, let alone self-help tips. Only time can tell you when the struggle would completely end. However, encouragements and nuggets of wisdom can at least guide you to positive results, …

100 Simple Ways to Make Your Life Happier

Last Updated on: May 17, 2022 by Cyril Abello

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Some people believe that success is what can make them the happiest. Some are willing to let go of their dreams just to be with their loved ones, and that is enough to make them happy. There are those who measure their happiness by the material things they possess—and some would call them shallow. However, happiness is a personal choice. It is subjective and relative. Meaning, it all depends on your values and mindset.

If you think you have been unhappy for quite some time, and it seems like you have forgotten how to find happiness, then I suggest you read these 100 simple ways that can make your life happier. These are grouped into categories. Let us start from the most superficial down to the most spiritual. One, five, or all of them could be effective on you.

10 Things You Should Stop Doing in Your Relationship Immediately

Last Updated on: May 13, 2022 by Cyril Abello

Are you in a toxic relationship with your boyfriend/girlfriend? Toxic means it is draining your energy, giving you a headache, and choking you. You love him/her, but sometimes you want to break loose from the relationship. Before considering a breakup, you have to find out what makes your relationship toxic and try your best together …

30 Bible Verses to Help You Move on After a Breakup

Last Updated on: May 25, 2022 by Cyril Abello

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You may feel like you are alone and unloved because the person you hold close to your heart left you. However, that is not true. If you look around you, you will find a lot of people who truly care about you, especially your family and friends. Aside from them, there is Someone above who loves you—and He understands what you go through. He is no other than your Father in heaven.

If you will read the Bible, you can find many of God’s promises that are meant to guide you in this life. Some of them also give assurance that at times when we are down and hurting, the Lord cares and He is willing to help you up. Only that, you need to allow Him to enter and work in your life. He does not push Himself on anyone.

Here are Bible verses that I hope can encourage you during this painful time. Read and believe them. They will make you stronger.

15 Things You Should Never Do After You Break Up with Someone

Last Updated on: May 8, 2022 by Cyril Abello

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Fresh from a breakup? Yes, it is surely painful, but it is not fatal—unless you, yourself, decide you want to end everything already. Remember that you are not the first, not even the last, person on earth who would get his/her heartbroken. However, most of the people who have experienced breakups are able to live a successful and happy life at the moment. That means you can survive this too.

Now, what you need to focus on is handling your heartbreak properly, so that you will not regret anything in the future. What are the things you should NEVER do after a breakup?

10 Obvious Signs Your Friend Likes You Romantically

Last Updated on: May 18, 2022 by Cyril Abello

Are you suspecting your friend is crushing on you? You probably feel like s/he treats you more than a normal friend. You might be afraid to confirm this because it could ruin your friendship. However, of course, you want to find out the truth, so you will know how to treat him/her to avoid hurting …

Read This If You Are Feeling Depressed and Suicidal

Last Updated on: May 7, 2022 by Cyril Abello

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If you feel too much sadness, and you lose interest in the things that you were normally passionate about, then you are probably going through depression. It could be because of a failure, loss of a loved one, or an illness. If this situation is not dealt with properly, this could lead you to destructive situations like negative habits or being suicidal.

Depression may make you feel that your life is worthless. However, regardless of this feeling, you actually have many reasons to keep holding on.

If you feel depressed and suicidal, please keep on reading and be reminded of why you should continue living.

You are Blessed to Have Him if He is Like This

Last Updated on: May 1, 2022 by Cyril Abello

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Wishing you had a better husband or boyfriend? Well, there is no such thing as a perfect partner. There will always be someone more handsome, intelligent, or talented than him. You can also find a lot of better and more dependable men around. Just so you know, replacing your partner with one of them would only lead to the same dilemma in the end.

What is the point here?

Instead of complaining about what your boyfriend or husband lacks, look at him on the positive side. For sure, there was something that attracted you to him when your love story began, and that time you were so in love and all you could see was his goodness. Maybe the attraction stage of your relationship is over, so you see him now as a real person.

However, it is still possible to see your partner as the best man in the world. If you realize how blessed you are for having him, then there would be no reason for you to compare him to others.

You are blessed to have him if:

46 Ways to Respect Your Parents

Last Updated on: May 15, 2022 by Cyril Abello

Sometimes, we think our parents cannot understand us and they get in the way of our happiness. This is why many of us have experienced rebelling against our parents at some point, especially when we were still teenagers. However, we should not forget that our parents love us, and all they want is the best …

15 Ways to Love Your Siblings

Last Updated on: May 17, 2022 by Cyril Abello

Your brothers and sisters are usually—or supposedly—the first friends you have had since you shared the same home growing up. However, the reality is sometimes you consider them the most annoying people on earth, probably because of overfamiliarity and personality differences. In some instances, you might have even thought of them as competitors. Despite these, …

What True Love Really Means in a Relationship

Last Updated on: May 15, 2022 by Cyril Abello

So, what is true love? How do you know if you and your partner truly love each other? Or if you want your relationship to last, how should you love each other?

No one is perfect, and as human beings, we could fail in how we treat our partners. However, if we want to give true love in our relationship, we have to change our ways that can harm our partner and relationship.

Here are the characteristics of a real and genuine love based on the popularly quoted 1 Corinthians 13.

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14 Ways to Stay Friends with Your Ex After a Breakup

Last Updated on: May 6, 2022 by Cyril Abello

Who says it is not possible to be friends with your ex? You may not get back together, but it is possible to maintain a good relationship with him/her outside romance. Usually, it will take a year or more to reach this status, since both of you need to move on first (See: How to Move On After a Relationship Ends: 15 Ways to Freshen Up).

Sometimes, friendship could be the only way to keep you connected to someone you still care for. This could be a complicated process, but with respect and mutual consent, creating a new kind of relationship with your ex can be smooth.

If you want to keep your ex part of your life as a friend, you can try the following ways.

How to Treat Your Girlfriend with Respect

Last Updated on: May 8, 2022 by Cyril Abello

Is it your first time having a girlfriend? Or were your previous relationships a failure and your ex-girlfriends complained that you did not treat them with respect? Do not worry. I have here tips that can help you treat girls better or show them respect.

1. Meet her family and be courteous to them.

If you are really serious with your current girlfriend, then have the guts to meet her family formally. This way, you can show them that you have well-intentions for their daughter. It is also a sign that you respect them. You can also have a sincere talk with them, giving the assurance that you will take care of her.

12 Love Tips for the Hopeless Romantic

Last Updated on: May 7, 2022 by Cyril Abello

Waiting to experience your first love? Or have you never entertained any suitor since you are waiting to see the signs of Mr./Ms. Right yet? Or probably you are looking for that person who has the qualities of your crush from a movie or novel. If you swore of only loving once in this lifetime—and …

16 Ways to Move On When You Still Love Your Ex

Last Updated on: May 4, 2022 by Cyril Abello

Letting go of someone you still love is hard to do. You cannot imagine living your life without that person in it. This is why there are people who snap because of too much depression, lose the will to live a productive life, or worst, commit suicide. However, the fact that you are reading this …

27 Tips to Move On After the End of a Long-Term Relationship

Last Updated on: May 13, 2022 by Cyril Abello

How to Move On After the End of a Long-Term Relationship

Nothing could be harder to move on from than a relationship that had lasted for many years. It is not easy to detach yourself from a person who has been part of your system for a long time. Losing that person is like losing one of your hands or even having half of your body paralyzed. It seems like life will never be the same again.

However, if for some reason, the relationship has fallen apart and you know it can never be mended, then letting go is the only way to move forward. Especially if one of you has fallen out of love already or you have irreconcilable differences, then ending the relationship is inevitable.

It may be a hard and long process, but yes it is possible to move on after the end of a long-term relationship. Here are 27 tips that may help you with how to do it.

14 Ways to Move On from a Relationship Without Closure

Last Updated on: May 22, 2022 by Cyril Abello

Do you know how it feels when your relationship ends without a proper closure? It is like dying with an unfinished business. Your soul has no peace. What about being left behind without the chance to ask why or say goodbye? It is like being a kitten left along the street to get lost.

Self-pity, bitterness, and anger are among the main emotions evoked in this kind of ending. Asking yourself if you are that easy to dump is a natural reaction too. Do not let them destroy your self-image.

Here are 14 ways that can help you let go and move on from an unclosed relationship that has clearly ended.

15 Ways to Find Your True Love

Last Updated on: February 14, 2023 by Cyril Abello

They say there are three kinds of cherished love: first love, which is usually called puppy love; great love, which would sweep you off your feet; and true love, which may not be as magical as first love nor as thrilling as great love, yet the one that makes your heart at home.

True love is what everyone needs. It is unconditional, reassuring, and secure. It may not be perfect, but it completes the person who has it.

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The next time you enter a relationship, see to it that it will be with your true love already. This would save you from heartaches due to being with the wrong person. So, how will you find your true love?

Here are 15 ways to draw you closer to the right person.

11 Clear Signs of True Love from a Man

Last Updated on: May 5, 2022 by Cyril Abello

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These days, women find it harder to trust men. Although I am not generalizing, you and I are aware that more men than women are caught cheating and playing around with others’ hearts. In many cultures, machismo is still a big thing for men, and for them having many girlfriends is one way of proving it.

Now, is it still possible to get true love from a man? Can you still find a boyfriend or husband who will offer you real, faithful, and lasting love?

Well, there are still a lot of men who can be trusted. You just have to be careful in choosing the person to love. Here are some clear signs that can tell you if your man truly loves you.

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18 Real Signs of True Love from a Woman

Last Updated on: May 24, 2022 by Cyril Abello

Women are unpredictable beings. They are emotional and they change their minds easily. They can be impulsive and surprising. They can easily fall in love, and later on have a change of heart. This is one of the causes of men’s heartbreaks. However, when a woman matures and experiences true love, she can be so …

14 Signs Your Ex Still Loves You and Wants You Back

Last Updated on: June 27, 2022 by Cyril Abello

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Breakups are always difficult to handle. You go through many negative emotions, and these emotions are heightened because of the many painful words, painful actions, and broken promises. Despite this, a once-strong relationship is not hard to throw, and letting go is not an easy thing. How will you know if your ex is still …