10 Reasons Why Smart Girls Stay Single

Reasons Why Smart Girls Stay Single

 

Reasons Why Smart Girls Stay Single
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Girls are dreamers, sentimental dreamers. Others will probably deny it but somehow they want to hear cheesy words and feel butterflies in their stomach. But I am not talking about how girls want to feel these things instead I want to tell you how girls live with it despite not having a so-called “other half” by their side.

And here goes the cliché question – “Then why are you still single?”

There are many reasons why a girl stays single. But let me tell you this, it’s not about the way she looks, talks or walks. It’s not because she hates rainbows and unicorns. And it’s not like guys would not be captivated with a beauty that could launch a thousand ships and would not be interested in date her.  It’s simply because she’s a smart girl. And smart girls can be single yet still find happiness in their way.

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5 Reasons Why You Should Not Wait for Your Soulmate

Why You Should Not Wait for Your Soulmate

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Should you wait for your soulmate?

Should you stay single until your perfect match comes into your life?

Should you dump your current partner because you think he or she is not your destiny?

I’m not totally rejecting the idea of a soulmate. Well, I was not there when the Universe was created. I did not witness the creation of time, reality, and space. Hence, whatever information you may learn from what I’m about to share with you, it’s still up to you if you believe them or not.

Here are 5 reasons you should consider why you should not wait for your soulmate.

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30 Ways to be a Better Boyfriend

Ways to be a Better Boyfriend

Being a good boyfriend is not easy. I learned the hard way through trial and error. However, I realized that there are steps that you can take to become a better man for your loved one. What is a Good Boyfriend? A good boyfriend is someone who cares and loves his loved one. He’s the …

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11 Inspiring Ways to be a Better Girlfriend

Inspiring Ways to be a Better Girlfriend

If you want to make your relationship stronger, healthier and happier, don’t just wish for your guy to be a better man but also work yourself to be a better girl. Be the best girlfriend you can ever be to your boyfriend by following these tips: How to Be a Better Girlfriend 1. Appreciate him. …

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9 Awesome Ways to be the Best Third Wheel

Awesome Ways to be the Perfect Third Wheel

What is the Third Wheel In a Relationship? A third wheel is being the front wheel of a tricycle, while two back wheels are having a date and spending private time together. The third wheel is stuck between two people who have so much chemistry and disturbs their intimacy. When two people are in a …

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21 Characteristics of True Love According to the Bible

Characteristics of True Love According to the Bible
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Do you want to know if your partner is truly in love with you? Do you want to know if you truly love someone? Do you want to learn how to grow your love or inspire other people to purify their love? Do you want to understand what true love really means?

True love is extraordinary. It’s not an easy thing to do. It could even be the hardest thing to do in this world as we know it. We might think that we’re already giving true love, but the truth is… it might not just be enough.

If you want to know and understand what true love really is, here are 21 signs, qualities or characteristics of a genuine love according to the verses in the Holy Bible.

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18 Inspiring Tips to be Happy in a Relationship

Inspiring Tips to be Happy in a Relationship

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If you want to be truly happy in a relationship, read the following inspiring tips:

1. Love your partner as you love yourself.
To be happy in a relationship, learn how to happily love yourself so you can also learn how to happily love your significant other. If you can’t love yourself, how can you love your partner? So love your partner as you love yourself and make him/her happy as you make yourself happy.

2. Sacrifice more material things to gain more spiritual qualities.
Be selfless. Selflessness doesn’t mean totally destroying yourself to save others. It means sacrificing your physical or material self to enrich your spirituality. So learn how to give up some money, time, space and even physical energy in exchange for love, kindness, peacefulness and true happiness.

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How to be Emotionally Strong in a Relationship

How to be Emotionally Strong in a Relationship

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There are just challenges that cannot be fought gracefully and most of them often leave us emotionally scarred and wounded – and this story is true especially when it comes to the matters of the heart.

Relationship problems are normal in a romantic commitment but not everyone can handle the worst trials that sometimes come their way – all because they are not emotionally capable of being strong especially when it matters the most.

On the other hand, some people are impressively strong enough to get through the worst storms of a relationship while also managing to learn from the lessons that spring from them. How? By harnessing the power of knowing themselves better through a deeper understanding of the different emotional triggers and the strengths that can be derived from them.

Since strength will always come from within, it’s important that you and your partner know the right ways that will help you overcome every challenge that life throws at you. Here they are:

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14 Signs Your Ex is Over You and Doesn’t Want You Back

Signs Your Ex is Over You and Doesn’t Want You Back

One of the hardest things about moving on from a breakup is accepting that the person who used to be the center of your world does not want to be part of your life anymore. The difficult part is when you are left hanging because you are not sure whether to wait or not. However, …

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15 Signs Your Crush Likes You

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Are you trying hard to find out whether your crush likes you too? Are you confused whether his/her actions towards you mean anything or you only overanalyze? If Your Crush Likes You Video Please help to  our YouTube channel if you like our video. Let’s grow together!   15 Signs Your Crush Likes You To help …

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14 Most Overlooked Reasons Why You are Still Single

Reasons Why You are Still Single

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There’s nothing wrong with being single. In fact, most of the happiest people have embraced singlehood and discovered the joys of living an independent and attachment-free life without feeling alone and lonely – but what if you also want to share your most memorable days with someone special?

Sometimes, the happiness and independence of singlehood aren’t enough anymore that some people tend to try their luck at finding love. Others easily succeed at it without even exerting much effort and finally meet the love of their life.

We all know that most of the time, destiny isn’t too willing to give us what we want. However, more often than not, it’s not destiny that’s the problem – it’s us. So how would we know if we’re the ones sabotaging our own chances of finding true love? Well, let this article help you figure it out.

Here are the most overlooked reasons why you are still single.

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12 Things That Will Destroy Your Relationship and How to Avoid Them

Things That Will Destroy Your Relationship and How to Avoid

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There are many reasons why couples break up and most of these can be prevented if only both parties have the willingness to see and understand the things that are really causing the problems in the first place. Some signs can be obvious, directly and instantly launching their attacks but others come in the form of small bits of negativities that can accumulate over time until it can gather enough strength to break even the strongest of bonds.

If you don’t want this to happen to you or anyone you care about, this article will help you point out some of the many things and habits that will destroy your relationship. More importantly, we’ll provide you with some realistic tips and long-term solutions on how to avoid and finally overcome them.

First of all, a relationship can be vulnerable to break up when:

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20 Signs She’s the Woman You Should Marry According to the Bible

Signs She’s the Woman You Should Marry According to the Bible

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In my previous article, I discussed 12 signs from the Bible that may guide single ladies in choosing the right guy to marry. The article received positive feedback and became quite popular so I think it would be nice to also write something for single men this time – an article that will guide them in finding the right woman to be their wife.

You might be wondering why there are more guides (20 vs. 12) in finding the right wife than in finding the right husband. I believe it’s because a woman who’ll become both a wife and a mother will have greater physical, mental and emotional responsibilities than a husband and a father.

I think it’s not unfair since most women who are naturally born to be good wives and mothers will not find them difficult to follow and fulfill. In fact, the majority of my friends naturally became good wives and caring mothers when they entered married life.

But of course, just like men, there is still a percentage of women whom single guys should avoid if they don’t want to live a miserable life with the wrong wife.

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Love vs. Lust: 12 Differences You Should Know

Love vs. Lust

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How do you differentiate between love and lust? You might be too consumed by your relationship now that you actually cannot identify what you truly feel for your partner.

If the reason why you wanted to be with the person was that you were attracted to his/her being ‘hot’, then maybe it was not really loved that brought you together. Probably, it was only the thrill of owning someone that could satisfy your needs and fantasies.

Here are 12 differences between love and lust that you should know to find out if you’re really in love with your partner or just physically attracted to him/her. 

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12 Signs He’s the Guy You Should Marry According to the Bible

Signs He’s the Guy You Should Marry According to the Bible

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A husband is someone whom you will be spending with for the rest of your life. He will be the son-in-law to your parents and the father to your children. He is supposed to be the pillar of your home and the strength of your family.

Marrying the wrong man could mean a lifetime of suffering, not only for you but also for your future children. Unlike breaking up with a boyfriend which can be done in an instant, the separation between a husband and a wife is a different thing. Its wound is deeper, its cost is higher, and its impact on the people around you is greater.

Marriage is both a legal and a sacred thing, governed by the law of our land and the law of the heavens. Thus, ladies have to be extra careful in choosing the guy they should marry. This also applies in looking for a boyfriend, since a BF is the closest guy who can be their husband.

To guide you in finding the right guy whom you will be exchanging wedding vows with at the altar, here are 12 signs from the Bible that he’s the man you should marry.

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Love vs. Infatuation: 12 Differences You Must Know

Love heart infatuation

Love heart infatuation

How sure are you that what you feel for your special someone right now is true love? Is it just because you feel like the world stands still whenever s/he passes by? Or is it because you cannot get him/her out of your head?

Sometimes, what we think to be love is actually infatuation. It is too much admiration for someone that causes you poor judgments and pre-occupation. You feel so much attraction to the point that you become head over heels for that person. It is usually mistaken for love—but it is actually way different.

So, how do you know if what you feel is love or infatuation? Scroll down and read these 12 differences:

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True Love vs. Fake Love: 20 Differences You Must Know

True Love vs. Fake Love

To find a true lover who can give you real love, you have to know what true love is. To attract and keep him/her, you have to give a genuine love in return. Knowing how to distinguish pure love from false love will give you wisdom on building a long-lasting relationship and avoiding the toxic ones. …

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14 Practical Ways to be Happy and Strong After a Breakup

Ways to be Happy and Strong After a Breakup

Yes, it’s possible to live a fulfilling life even after a painful breakup. There are still many reasons for you to continue living, even if you have lost the love of your life. All you need to do is see things with a positive outlook. How to be Happy and Strong After a Breakup Here …

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12 Questions to Ask Yourself before Ending a Relationship

Questions to Ask Yourself before Ending a Relationship

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How do you know if enough is enough? When do you know it is time to end a relationship? These are probably the questions that bother you right now.

When the attraction and thrill stage of a relationship wanes, some couples struggle in keeping their commitment to each other. Some think they fell out of love, so they want to part ways. Others discovered their personality and principles don’t compliment their partner’s, so they question whether to keep their relationship going or not.

Ending your relationship without wise judgment might cause you to regret it in the future. To avoid this, here are 12 questions that you better ask yourself before jumping into a decision:

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When You Don’t Trust Your Partner Anymore: To Rebuild or Not to Rebuild a Broken Trust

When You Don’t Trust Your Partner Anymore

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It takes a lot of time to build trust, but it takes a minute to destroy it. Since trust is a foundation of a strong relationship, without it there is no guarantee of staying together for a long time.

Has your partner ever cheated on you? This is the most common cause of broken trust between couples. However, some, despite being hurt, choose to forgive and forget what happened. When you love your partner so much, you decide to stay and try to work things out even if there are trust issues already.

To Rebuild or Not to Rebuild

Is it still worth it? Should you try rebuilding your trust in your partner? Or should you choose to move on? Here are 14 practical tips that you can try to find out if your relationship is still worth a second chance:

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10 Ways to Detoxify Yourself from a Toxic Relationship

Ways to Detoxify Yourself from a Toxic Relationship
Detoxify Yourself from a Toxic Relationship
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When we talk about toxic relationships, we often conclude that anyone who is in this kind of unhealthy connection should pack their bags, leave and never look back. However, others who have been in this kind of love story sincerely believe that maybe, just maybe, all you need is to have a little faith – and perhaps a much-needed space to detoxify and recharge one’s emotional batteries.

However, we should address one important question: are there really effective ways to detoxify yourself from a toxic relationship? Well, we have here some practical ways, tips, and pieces of advice that will help you find a sweet and genuine antidote to the poisons of an almost failing connection.

Here they are:

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18 Signs You Have a Good Boyfriend and How to Keep Him

Signs You Have a Good Boyfriend and How to Keep Him

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Life’s journey becomes more exciting, fun, and fulfilling when you’ve finally found the right one. For most girls, everything in life seems better when they can finally share it with someone they love: their prince charming, their knight in shining armor, the ideal boyfriend.  However, as a girl in love, have you ever wondered what really separates an average boyfriend from a good one?

Every girl has their own ideas of what makes an ideal partner but as you read through this article, you will begin to discover the signs to look for in order to know if your significant other fits your perfect definition of a ‘good boyfriend’. Here they are.

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10 Smart Ways to Get Your Crush Notice You

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Has someone caught your eyes lately? Do you get insomnia thinking about that person all night and spend the whole day daydreaming about your first date? You probably can’t focus at school or work because that person keeps on popping up in your mind. The problem is, you’re not sure if all these distractions are …

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9 Signs You Broke Your Partner’s Heart and What to Do about It

Signs You Broke Your Partner’s Heart and What to Do about It

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Imagine finding the person meant for you but eventually losing them because you were unaware of how much you’ve been hurting them. Sometimes, even the sincerest of apologies won’t bring them back because it’s already too late – too late to fix what’s broken just because you were either too naïve or oblivious of the fact that you, the very person who promised to take care of their heart is the one breaking it.

If your love story is starting to fall to this tragic ending, you should do your part and be more observant and sensitive to the needs of your significant other and find out how your relationship is actually contributing to either their growth or their heartbreak.

So what’s your first move? Simply notice. Here are some signs you broke your partner’s heart and what to do about it.

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True Friends vs Fake Friends: What are the Differences?

True Friends vs Fake Friends

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We all have those special people in our lives with whom we share our happiest and even our craziest days. These people make us forget that life isn’t exactly a fairy tale but it can be an interesting adventure; they are our soul sisters, our comrades, our confidant, our besties, and whatever funny and cute nicknames you call your gang.

As much as we hope to meet the right people, sometimes we fall into the trap of getting acquainted with some individuals who actually do fit the basic definition of a ‘friend’, but have motivations that don’t really last the test of true friendship.

So the question that we need to answer now is, is there a way to figure out if you’re hanging out with superficial people, with ‘fake friends?’ How can we differentiate these groups from the genuine ones, our true friends? Let’s find out.

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Healthy Relationships vs. Unhealthy Relationships: 14 Differences You Should Know

Healthy Relationships vs. Unhealthy Relationships

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Love can be the most wonderful thing in the world. In fact, many people who were lucky enough to experience loving and being loved in a relationship will agree that as a person living in the mundane reality of life, it is the closest thing we have to magic.

However, there are times when what we thought of as love ruins us. This is because relationships are not all based on genuine love, and some of them can be toxic and unhealthy and we don’t usually notice it before it’s too late.

So how would you know if the foundation of your relationship is actually true and genuine?  More specifically, is the kind of relationship you have right now contributes to your emotional and personal growth or does it do otherwise?

To answer these questions, we have collected some insights and experiences from real people – and it’s important that you pay attention before it’s too late.

Here are the differences between ‘healthy relationships’ and ‘unhealthy relationships’ that you should be aware of.

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9 Inspiring Tips on How to Rekindle a Broken Friendship

Inspiring Tips on How to Rekindle a Broken Friendship

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Life has a magical way of introducing us to special people who will not only make a huge difference in our everyday existence but will also help us go through the most challenging times that reality has to offer. We call these people friends and perhaps they are the closest thing we have to an ideal relationship that only a few are fortunate to be a part of.

However, life being unpredictable leads us to different paths and life-changing decisions that can sometimes alter our course. This sudden reroute can mean moving to a new city, leaving people behind or even breaking the strongest of friendships because of something inevitable.

If you’ve ever lost a friend before, you would understand how terrible it is to part ways with someone really special. Be it because of a decision, action or the distance that kept you from keeping your promise of forever friendship, this article will help find you a way to bring that special soul back into your life.

So how can we get that second chance and rekindle a broken friendship? Read on.

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9 Tips on How to Forgive Someone Who Broke Your Heart

Tips on How to Forgive Someone Who Broke Your Heart

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Being hurt by the person you trusted the most is probably one of the worst feelings. The betrayal makes it hard to trust anybody again.

However, the worst part of being hurt by someone you loved so much is carrying the weight of hatred around. An unforgiving heart has no peace, and moving on becomes more difficult. If you don’t release forgiveness to the person who hurt you, then you would be in bondage to anger and pain for as long as you don’t let go.

Choose to forgive
You can’t live a happy and peaceful life without forgiveness. The painful memories of what the person did to you would haunt you forever, and it won’t make you feel good. That is why you should intentionally choose to forgive.

It may seem impossible to forgive the person who has made you miserable, especially if the wound is still fresh, but with willingness, you can surely do it.

Here are tips that can help you forgive the person who broke your heart. Try them with persistence and prayers and they will surely work.

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10 Signs You’re the Toxic One in Your Relationship and What to Do about it

Signs You’re the Toxic One in Your Relationship

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Keeping a relationship isn’t simple and making it work can be really challenging especially if couples fail to see that something is slowly and effectively tearing them apart. What is more frustrating is when the very act of trying to make it better is actually the one thing that is making it worse.

This type of setting is a common scenario in toxic relationships. In definition, this kind of connection between two people, no matter how they love each other, can often lead to emotionally and psychologically traumatic outcomes. Most of the time, neither of them is aware of how their “love” is slowly destroying them until it’s too late.

We can all agree that the best way to solve a problem is to find what caused it in the first place.  In problems concerning a relationship between two people in love, it’s not the question of “what” but it’s actually a matter of “who”.

Well, everything that has been said leads us to one equally important question that must be addressed: how would you know if you’re actually the one ruining it all? Are there signs that you’re the toxic one in your relationship? And if you find out you’re indeed the one, what can you do about it?

Luckily, we have the answers to your questions and hopefully, it’s not yet too late.

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9 Best Inspiring Quotes for Father’s Day

Best Inspiring Quotes for Father's Day

Father's Day quotes

There are real-life superheroes living among us and it’s not that difficult to meet one every day since unlike the powerful superhumans that we often watch and read about, these special individuals are not afraid to reveal their identity. In fact, he may be just sitting beside you right now, drinking his coffee, sitting by the porch reading the daily paper, or cleaning his car in the garage.

So who is this superman, this unsung hero of our everyday life? You guessed that right: our father, papa, dad, daddy, pop, whatever you call these extraordinary individuals. They may have different names but they all have one special power: a super strength to be your rock and your refuge in good times and bad times.

To celebrate Father’s Day, we have collected some of the best inspiring quotes and most encouraging thoughts that will surely remind you that you are one lucky soul to have someone you can call a father.

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